Why do people know more about what they are more likely to be lonely?

People always know more when they grow up. And then the more you grow up, the more lonely you become, it seems like that. We always don't understand, why the more we grow up, the more we know, the more lonely we become? It's always a last resort that makes us have to be lonely

We understand that the human heart is unpredictable: when we were very young, we were surrounded by many playmates, both men and women, and we had a lot of fun, and there was a sincere friendship and companionship between us. But slowly we grow up, we know more and more things, we know that people's hearts are unpredictable, we know that many friends around us are not sincere to us, just like that, we are not willing to make these hypocritical friends, we do not have a few sincere friends around us, and slowly feel that we are really lonely.

In fact, this society is really like this now, you don't know whether the friends around you are true or false, maybe what you think is good is actually someone else's careful premeditation. Rather than this, he simply does not associate with these humble friends.

We know that life has to work hard: life is not easy in the eyes of everyone now, we have work to do in life, there are lovers who need us to accompany us, parents to take care of, and even our own children to raise in the future. We are all so busy that we don't have time to have fun, we don't have time to solve our inner loneliness.

You see, I have to work every day, I have to run around every day for life, to be honest, this kind of life really makes us feel very lonely, but there is no way to solve our loneliness. Therefore, there is no way, we understand that life is not easy, and we feel lonely in the month.

We know the loss of friends: We all know that there is no friend around us who can accompany us into old age. We have such a good relationship, but we each have our own life choices.

can only watch his friends stay away from him, and then leave loneliness and longing. We understand that later, we will see each other less and less, or even not again, and we will lose this friend. In fact, any relationship needs companionship, we don't play together, and we will have other friends around us in the future.

We know that lovers will leave: love is fleeting, and many times we will watch our lovers go away, but there is nothing we can do. Because we know that the person we love is gone, we may not be together again.

Maybe this lost lover will be the person we care about for the rest of our lives, and we can only feel endless loneliness with this longing and regret.

Slowly, we learn too much.

It's true that the more we know, the more lonely we become. But we have no way to improve this loneliness, we can only choose to accept it silently and get used to it. It doesn't matter, one day this loneliness will make our lives go naturally.

Maybe everyone has found out that sometimes some people who do not have any education level or even have no education can open their minds, while people who know some things very well or even highly educated people are often more depressed, the more people know things, the easier it will be to feel lonely, I think there may be the following reasons:

You can think about when you are young, especially in childhood, you are often carefree, you can play with your friends, and there are many people, but when you grow up, due to the pressure of life, I am afraid it will be difficult to get together, and there will be fewer and fewer people around you, so your heart will become more and more lonely.

Second, understand more and more things, sometimes for a social things or people more and more understanding, there will be more and more worries, such as when people are outside, because they know that there are a lot of **, they often dare not go out to make friends, for fear that others will deceive themselves, this is actually a manifestation of their own safety, but excessive worry is often difficult to make friends, because they refuse to believe. And those who don't know about ** things certainly don't have this kind of concern, but it's easier to make friends.

Third, the more you know something, that is, it often means that the higher the education, the person's heart will become arrogant, often because he is just very rich and unwilling to put down his body to make friends with others, especially with those ordinary people, and people with low education do not mind this so much, like to talk to others about their hearts, and will not not make friends with others because they are not good.

People come to this world from the beginning, the first time they see their parents is their parents, and slowly, your parents will teach you a lot of things, so you gradually understand a little bit of this world. Then you will meet your teachers, your classmates, and they will also teach you what he experienced in his parents. After that, you will meet more and more people on the road of life, and they will teach you many things, some good, of course, some bad!

Slowly you will learn more than your parents, and slowly refute them, their thoughts are not right, and your own ideas and your parents' ideas will always conflict!

Slowly you will have your own personal unique ideas, you will find circles similar to your own ideas, at first you think you are the same, after a period of time you feel more and more aware of it, see it thoroughly, and finally it will be difficult for you to find a confidant, and slowly there will be a feeling of being in a high place, then it means that you know really a lot!

When you understand so much, you always want to find a confidant to confide in, but you still haven't found it, or you don't have so much time to find it, you will feel lonely, people always say, loneliness is a disease, and it must be cured. The way to cure him is to find a confidant to talk to. But you understand that you already know the world very thoroughly, so you will no longer trust others so easily, and you will always be wary and wary of others.

With such caution, it is already difficult for you to open your heart again. It will be more and more lonely!

Therefore, the more a person knows, the more he understands the world than others, and he will be more vigilant than others! It is difficult for them to find a confidant and someone to talk to, so they are more and more likely to feel lonely!

From a certain point of view, it is also a good thing for the subject to have this perception, which means that the subject has a knowledge reserve beyond ordinary people, and his mind is more mature, which seems to indicate that you have reached a certain state, such as beginning to doubt ,...... lifeHaha, in fact, people are destined to be lonely, no one can accompany you throughout the whole life, some roads must learn to move forward alone, but few people understand this truth, people are often an afterthought, maybe some people understand the truth when they are old, maybe some people have not figured it out all their lives.

First of all, I will offer a classic**, which is also a good picture that motivates me to read and study.

This diagram clearly depicts that the more people who read and read, the more they understand natural science, and the more they are likely to feel deep loneliness (the loneliness here mainly refers to the loneliness at the soul level). This gap is silent, belonging to the subtle "soul torture", and those who know more will have stronger comprehension and insight.

Take today's most popular online ordering as an example, the same hard-working office workers, the same overtime in the middle of the night, if a person knows a lot and has strong insight, he can summon the "red, yellow and blue" three brothers.

The visual color of the three mainstream APP ordering platforms), no need to wait for a long time, the takeaway can be delivered to the side in half an hour, and there is an intimate text message, and then the scene, a person enjoys a table of food alone (eat overtime takeaway); On the contrary, people who can't play online apps and can't order food online usually call ** to a good friend and make an appointment for a supper or something.

If you think about it carefully, people can easily enjoy the deliciousness, efficiency and convenience brought by these high-tech and new skills, and enjoy this wave of Internet dividends, but at the same time, eating takeout at home also amplifies the loneliness of this part of the people.

As soon as people grow up and their minds become mature, they will go from nothing to something when they think about something. I also miss being so innocent and romantic when I was a child, as if someone else would feel that the world was very beautiful when I gave a piece of candy, because when we were children, we didn't have high requirements for the outside world, and we didn't have too many desires, so we lived happily! When you grow up, you have too many things to want, and if you can't get it, you become unhappy, so some people also say that if you don't have too much desire, you will be happy easily!

Loneliness, growing up, it is impossible to hide behind your parents every time, many things have to be faced by yourself, sometimes there is this feeling! But it's the process of life! I don't like it either!

Li Bai once said that the ancient sages were lonely. Li Qingzhao's sentence is very cold, probably this is similar to your current feeling, in the surroundings of your life, you can't expect all people to reach your current level, with the continuous improvement of the level, their own continuous pursuit of perfection, can really understand you and understand you The fewer people will be, so a confidant in life is enough

When people grow up, they will naturally learn to mature.

Growing up,,, I'm worried about that.

Forced by work, forced by life, forced by society.

Not everyone is like this, and it has a lot to do with the environment.

Because there are new and different experiences, because we can't refuse to grow up. We are supposed to mature slowly, but loneliness is not necessarily proportional to silence!

Find something good to do by yourself, or change the working environment and it will get better, everyone has a transition stage.

The more you know, the more mature a person is, no longer simply ignorant, no longer fun about everything, knowing that the world is complicated, and people will be lonely.

Because when you know a lot of things, you will see a lot of things that are not right, and you will feel very helpless, but you can't change yourself, so you will become more and more lonely.

People don't feel more lonely because they know more, maybe it's because of your own personality problems, maybe it's because you're more introverted.

The more you know, the more tired your heart will be, it's the same as carrying things, don't think too much, learn to let go slowly, you will be happy, happy and no longer lonely.

Because the more you know, the easier it is to peek into the truth of some things and feel out of place.

Because you have so many secrets that you don't want to share them with others, that's why you feel lonely.

Then you have to share it with other people, so that you will not be alone in saying what is in your heart.

Personally, I believe that the more you know, the more you know, the more you are, the more you are. If we know some good things, it will enrich our lives and help us grow up healthily, on the contrary, knowing some bad things will affect our mood and make us lonely, so some things must be learned to let go, and at the same time we must learn to be lonely.

The more you know, the more you will think, and the more you think, the more you will find some bad things, so that you will feel that others do not know enough about yourself, and you can only understand your own thoughts, and you will feel very lonely.

That's an effect. The more you stay, the more lonely you seem.

Because you know so many things, you will have ideas, and when you have ideas, you will naturally have troubles.

If it's hard to be confused, sometimes knowing too much is not necessarily a good thing.

Because I am an adult, my mind is mature, and I don't necessarily say everything I know.

Because the more you know, the more you know, the more troubles you have.

Yes, Hui Ji will hurt. I see it more thoroughly than the average person.

But we know how to become mature and strong, learn to make ourselves happy, there will be ups and downs on the road of growth, what remains unchanged is the courage to move forward and the upward direction. We are not alone.

How is that possible? The more I know, the more proud and confident I become, and I have all kinds of friends.

I think so, the more you know, the more you think.

Acquaintance with Jun Chu, bento return to the old man.

Because I have experienced a lot of things, because the people around me come and go, because there are full words but I can't talk about it, because I have always been used to living alone, in fact, I think this is very good, only occasionally there is a flash of loneliness, but I have never been afraid.

We always want to have too many extravagant hopes for life, because people should have a reason to live well. When what we want is not satisfied in time, we will all have a sense of loss, dazed, this is normal, maybe it is true like you said that the more people grow up, the more lonely they are, maybe we are used to showing the strong side, often the fragile part needs to be discovered by someone with a heart, often there may never be one, so a person bears loneliness.

The more things you understand when you are older, the more you will hide your inner reluctance to let go and treat others sincerely, so you are afraid of losing and afraid that you will be alone!

If you are afraid, be kind to them.

Hopefully, you won't regret what you've done in the future!