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Personally, I partially agree with the view of the first floor, and first return to the question, why I am afraid, and I feel that it has a lot to do with the unknown. As a high school student, there is too little intersection with society, too few things, they have no concept, because they don't understand and are far away, because they are distant and unpredictable, because they are unpredictable, they have no spiritual support in front of strange things, and then they are afraid... I think getting involved in more social activities and communicating more with the people around me will alleviate this fear.
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Your question stunned me and my friends!
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Find your best friend, tell your heart, have a beautiful dream, listen more, read more books.
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It's because you didn't agree with you in your own heart, you must know that if you don't work hard now, don't say that you can't have a bright future in the future anyway!
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Then keep yourself busy, so busy that you don't even have time to think about it.
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Study hard, and you will find that going to school is actually the easiest thing to do.
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It's only in high school, so there's no need to be anxious, because the problems you encounter now are just a piece of cake, and what makes you struggle is still in the future, so make good use of the present.
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Read more news and current affairs, make more friends and learn more about the society and the lifestyle of friends. The original meaning of life is to be born to live.
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This is a good thing, you are preparing for the worst, preparing for a rainy day, not afraid.
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It's good to make more friends and participate in some extracurricular activities.
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With the college entrance examination approaching, many children will have fear and anxiety in the face of the college entrance examination, and parents may also feel helpless in the face of this situation, after all, this is a major turning point in the child's life.
The college entrance examination is a lingering shadow in the hearts of many children, but it is also the most fair and just in the lives of many children. Effective competition does determine a person's future and direction, and it is understandable to have fear and anxiety. Therefore, if our child has this situation, we might as well put aside the child's learning for the time being, so that he can pass the last period of the college entrance examination in a healthy and safe manner.
Some people may say that it has reached the stage of the final sprint, how can you still relax and study? As a parent, it is no longer possible to substantially affect your child's learning at this stage. If too much words and urgent demands from parents will only make the child more stressed, we might as well try to persuade the child in the opposite way, telling the child that there is no need to have too much pressure, and that the parents themselves do not have it for him.
Exceeding the requirements of the normal level, a person only needs to be satisfied with himself and do his best, and do not have to bring too much negative impact to himself, so that after the child hears the explanation, he will begin to relax and face the review of the college entrance examination more positively.
At the same time, we should also effectively ensure the logistics for our children, and help them in life if we can't help them in their studies, so that they don't have to worry about the trivialities of life, and they won't have other ideas because of family problems. Moreover, although it is a single-plank bridge crossed by thousands of troops, it does not necessarily determine the life of a child, and there are many choices in a person's life. The college entrance examination is only a part of it, and the results of the college entrance examination do not represent the final result of a person, people have unlimited possibilities, we can not limit our vision to the current class that is difficult to cross, but should look to the future, as long as we work hard, there will always be a piece of heaven of our own.
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With the age of the college entrance examination, children have panic, psychology and anxiety, at this time parents should not panic, talk to their children well, and do some comforting work.
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The college entrance examination is coming soon, parents should give their children a good learning environment, should enlighten their children psychologically, and let their children treat the college entrance examination with a calm mind.
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Parents should comfort their children more, it doesn't matter if you don't do well in the exam, there is not only one way to take the college entrance examination in life. We always have your back.
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I'm very worried about your current state of mind, your mood swings in the past three years are still relatively large, if the decline in interest affects your appetite and life function, it may be necessary to try to tell your parents about your current state, or talk to your friends about your pain and boredom, and some of your self-closing tendencies may also be a factor that needs to be paid attention to.
It is easy to feel sad, easily depressed but easily irritable, bored, often yelling, heart-rending crying, and having strong self-harm and suicidal impulses every once in a while. I want to be made piece by piece, or made into a work of art. Occasionally, I feel the urge to kill.
Nerves are easily tense and sensitive to the outside world. I always feel that others do not have good intentions towards me. I slowly lose interest in the outside world, feel that life is boring, and my appetite decreases.
It can be seen that the current state is still relatively critical, which may require psychological counseling to adjust.
I don't have much hope for life, and I feel that my future is bleak, and I always want to.
Doing crazy things and acting like a madman at school.
Laughing and screaming when a person just wants to stay in an enclosed space.
Extremely disgusted with children, the cry of the infant is often in a kind of sleepiness.
Tired, dazed, lost and anxious.
Usually easy to be in a daze.
Wish you could have a small closed house to stay in?
I don't know what has happened in the past few years, and can I recall some of the more important life events? You may also have some extreme thinking of self-harm, which needs to be stopped, you can't be sure what is wrong, your emotions have a lot of fluctuations, I don't know if it is past family trauma, maybe it is just a recent life event, if you care, you can counsel, when you can't speak, you can express your feelings and thoughts in a variety of ways, including email, including writing letters and poems, including a variety of creative and interesting activities, Know how important it is to protect yourself.
If you have extreme behaviors with friends or relatives or yourself, if you want, please be kind to yourself, don't beat up and don't hurt anyone, including yourself, this is very important, it is important for the recovery process that is just beginning, and find multiple life support measures for yourself, call your significant other to tell them where you are, if you are alone at home or unable to leave, please call someone, this could be a family member, a trusted friend or a crisis intervention****, Many of them offer helpful information and resources for people struggling with self-harm and suicide, knowing that there is a chance of getting better. zq
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In the second year of high school, everyone hopes that they can get good grades, but they are also afraid that they will not get good grades, so they will look forward to it and be afraid. At this time, everyone must imitate the effort to regulate their emotions, through hard work can make themselves better, and can also make their grades better. In this way, you will not be afraid of the future, and you will be able to make your expectations fulfill.
The reason why people feel fear is because they have some fearful thoughts about these things that have not happened, so everyone should try to control their fear of demolition as much as possible, and let their fear become their own motivation. Only if you become better will you not have some fear of the unknown, and there will be no worry, if you are very good, then you can believe that you will definitely be able to do well in the exam, and in this case, there will be no fear.
Most of people's fears come from the unknown, but if these things become known, then it is likely that they will face and accept them with a better attitude. Therefore, we must first make ourselves better, only in this way can we better face some tests in the future. In addition, it is normal to have expectations after the second year of high school, after all, everyone will face the college entrance examination in the third year of high school, so it is not a problem to have this kind of emotion.
It is enough for everyone to adjust their fear and expectation, not to be too expectant and not too afraid, and to reasonably transform these things into their own motivation. Only when learning to get better motivation to have more expectations for learning, and to be able to better face learning, in short, we must know how to regulate ourselves in this process, otherwise it is very likely that there will be some problems that you don't want to see when learning.
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In normal times, you should adjust your emotions, and at the same time, you should also calm your mind, and there is no need to be too scared. We must establish a correct three views, don't be too anxious, and we should work hard to get through every day and make ourselves better.
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You can tell your parents about your unhappy spine, and you can tell your good friends about your friends, and you can survive with each other, and you can also get a particularly good mood.
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Zheng Pi should adjust his mentality in normal times, there is no need to be too nervous, and then he should also develop a good study habit, don't be too anxious and bored, establish a learning goal, make himself more excellent, and should put more time on meaningful things.
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Psychoanalysis: Hello, to your description, these excessive worries may be caused by your personality. You may be introverted and sensitive to your surroundings, which can lead to anxiety over time.
You mentioned that you don't feel like you have close friends and a lack of social support, which can lead to your fear and over-vigilance of the outside world, which can lead to a greater inability to have good relationships.
Psychological guidance: First of all, you don't have to worry too much, your situation has not had a real impact on your life and learning, you can try to think differently, accept your own personality, and realize its advantages. This kind of vigilance makes you have a strong sense of self-protection, be conservative, and think carefully.
Keeping an open and confident mind can help ease your fears. At the same time, it is recommended that you take the initiative to socialize with your classmates and friends, you study hard together, and supervise each other to complete the plan.
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