How do I start a chat topic with a girl?

Chatting with girls is an art, because girls are more sensitive, more suspicious, and may not be able to say a word to the girl's heart, so they will be angry, and it is very difficult to coax when angry, so you should be more careful when chatting with girls.

How to start a chat with a girl, the first is to get straight to the point, directly ask her if she is not there, or what she is doing, and then shush the cold and ask for warmth, now everyone regards mobile phones as so important, if you send a message to her, she ignores you for a day, then you don't have to maintain this relationship. If she ignores you all morning or afternoon, it's possible that she's busy and will reply to your message when she's not busy.

Another is that, for example, when you see a fun thing while scrolling through Weibo, you can send her a message saying that you can show you a fun one, and then send it to her, and the two of you can discuss it. This method is actually used by everyone, and girls will not be annoyed.

The most feared thing about chatting is that there is no topic, so how to find a topic to avoid embarrassing conversations, I will teach you a few tricks.

If you have just known someone for a short time, then it is very easy to find a topic, you can ask some of the most basic "where is your hometown, what is delicious and fun", this topic is enough to talk about for a night. And it's easy to talk about things in school, such as what books you've been reading lately, talking about some teacher's gossip or something. For example, after a class with a teacher you hate, you can say to her, "What's going on with this teacher, it's annoying," and if she understands it, she'll follow you, and if it's the other way around, then there's something to say.

If you've known each other for a long time, it doesn't matter what the topic is. It's okay to have any awkward conversation. I have a vice president of the association and I have a good relationship, because they are all vice presidents, so they often do things together and are very familiar, she is a girl, every time she is bored, she directly publishes the love bag in the past, she will also reply to the emoji, there are more fighting pictures, and she begins to gossip about what comes to mind.

When chatting with girls, you must be polite, if you are meeting to chat, you have to clean yourself up before chatting. If you are chatting online, remember that your avatar can't be too non-mainstream, otherwise girls won't want to talk to you. If you are not familiar with each other, you must remember to be polite, and never start with the word "are you there" when chatting, otherwise it will seem speechless and boring.

For example, you can use a conversation like "The weather is so nice today, where are you?" and remember not to ask something like "Have you eaten?" because it's cliché. For example, if you are already friends, you can greet her, "I see a very cute kitten, very similar to you", and the girl will be very strange, what kind of kitten will be like me, and naturally she will follow your topic, and think that you are not a dull person.

Finally, you can pay attention to the girl's Weibo, circle of friends, find the topic from it, if the girl posts something about an idol drama or American drama, you can open a dialog box and ask her "Wow, it turns out that you also like this drama", you have attracted the attention of the girl, and naturally the girl will be willing to continue chatting with you, similar can be talked about** and so on.

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I don't usually start a topic. It will only be discussed on the topic she proposes. Actually, I'm most afraid of being cold.

On the topic, you can talk about some topics that girls are interested in, such as horoscopes, **, food, travel, and even we can discuss and recommend favorite stars, movies, and books together. Find your common hobbies. Share more:

Share the little things around you, and when the girl shows interest and continues to listen, extend the topic from this aspect to a wider range of topics.

Chat thinking can not be limited, most "straight male cancer" patients, in addition to understanding less topics, also have a characteristic of "not understanding female thinking".

When girls chat, they are free, divergent, and they think of where they go, and they are happy and interesting. And many straight men are restrained, deliberate, and treat chat as a problem solving when chatting, which is monotonous and boring.

When chatting with girls <>, you can look for topics from the following aspects:

1.Hobbies: Learn about girls' hobbies, such as **, movies, travel, sports, etc., and then start from these topics to find common ground and have a relaxed conversation.

2.Life experience: Share each other's life experiences, such as study, work, family, etc., and understand her daily life, joys and sorrows, so that you can get closer to each other.

4.Travel Stories: Share each other's travel experiences and observations, share beautiful scenery and interesting stories, and let each other feel your passion and curiosity.

5.Ideals and dreams: to tease and understand each other's ideals and dreams, and to plan and develop in the future, which can stimulate each other's spirit of struggle and yearning for a better life.

6.Light-hearted humor: Add humor to your chat to make the atmosphere more light-hearted. Be careful to keep humor in moderation and avoid overly offensive and vulgar jokes.

7.Listening and attention: During the chat, show sincere care and listening, pay attention to the other person's emotions and needs, and let the other person feel your attention and understanding.

8.Respect and inclusion: During the chat, respect the other person's views and feelings, even if there are disagreements, maintain an inclusive and understanding mindset, and avoid arguments and conflicts.

Through the above methods, you can find topics with girls more easily, get closer to each other, and enhance mutual understanding. Please note that sincerity, respect and love are key to chatting with girls.

1 Pets. Pet animals.

I'll tell you directly, girls are all fond of cute pets.

You say that cats or dogs can basically talk to 80% of girls.

Or you like other critters.

On the one hand, most of the girls are loving and sympathetic, they can't refuse this cute pet, you can talk to her about pets and talk to you for an afternoon.

On the other hand, girls are a bit like cats, and they will be clingy when they like you, and they don't like to be too lazy to take care of you.

Source Talk 2 Hail Source Chasing Drama.

Girls like to chase dramas, and when they have nothing to do, they lie on the bed and eat snacks to chase the online drama.

You know, you can understand some of these too many topics, then you don't need to talk much at all, and you will be stunned.

Of course, girls are sometimes very emotional and sad, and sometimes they can't help crying when they see the moving plot, these are normal and can no longer be normal, share with you the little knowledge of girls.

1. Shopping: Boys and girls chat, you can pay attention to her clothing, clothing matching, daily dress, some special places, you can chat about good socks, usually buy clothes in **, whether it is in a physical store, or online shopping, you can properly praise her unique vision, will buy clothes, will dress matching.

2. Makeup: Boys and girls chat, you can leave her dress, generally girls like makeup, unless there are special people, because girls love beauty, there is also a category of people who don't like makeup, like to apply lipstick. Compliment her makeup is beautiful, and there is no girl who doesn't like other people's compliments.

Especially the opposite sex.

3. Movies: Boys and girls chat, you can talk about some topics, such as the newly released certain movie, have you seen it, exchange the details of the movie with each other and the overall feeling after **, by the way, what type of movies and film and television dramas she usually likes to watch.

4. **: The boy chats with the girl in the filial sock hole, you can pay attention to her. In order to maintain their figure, some girls do some dieting actions, such as eating less at noon, or eating some fruit without eating and drinking some milk.

It is advised that dieting should be moderate, and there is no need for a good figure**. Physical health is important, and fitness is the most reasonable way.

5. Celebrity gossip: Girls like gossip, some favorite stars, their own male gods, follow their Weibo accounts. You don't need to know much about some of the stars they like, you just need to listen patiently.

6. Eat, drink and have fun: life is normal, eat, drink and have fun, everyone likes it, talk about some of the whereabouts of the usual holidays, go to play, what food they usually like to eat, and the interesting things they encounter.

Topics to chat about aren't what you want to have.

The first thing to see is whether the other person is willing to talk to you.

It depends on the object.

Generally speaking, topics that girls are interested in.

TV Series Movies ** Entertainment News Skincare Makeup Tips Boys who like them are basically inseparable from these topics.

It depends on the subject, choose the topic, and don't say everything.

The other party is impatient, so stop quickly.

Nothing else.

Do what she likes and get to know her interests.

Keep your balance in mind when talking.

Don't always be what you're saying.

Talking about a topic is a sign of eloquence, and you must first understand what he is interested in.

Don't deliberately talk about a certain topic, casually talk about her current life and the troubles she encounters.

Tell her about the topics she cares about. The main thing is to treat her as a friend, take the initiative to speak, and get to know her.

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