How do seventeen year old you and twenty seven year old you look at love?

As people grow older and have more experience, their perception and feelings about the same thing will be very different. And for each individual, the differences between these cognitions are very large. What I mean by this is actually to express, "What is the difference between the love that I see at the age of seventeen and the love that I see at the age of twenty-seven?"

The following is just my personal opinion and feelings, and it is not universal.

At the age of seventeen, he was still in high school, and his views and opinions on love came more from imagination, some fantasies about love obtained through the description of love in TV series, **, film and television. To put it simply: I would have a naïve view of love at the age of seventeen.

I fantasize that my boyfriend is a hero who is there in time for me to be there when I need him; will also fantasize about some common love scenes in TV series, which feels quite naïve when I think about it now. And most importantly, at the age of seventeen, he has not yet learned how to love others, and it can be seen from the description of the above fantasies that it is more about taking.

As for my view of love at the age of twenty-seven, although I have not yet reached the age of 27, in terms of age, this gap can actually be ignored. At this time, I have already experienced some feelings, and as I get older, my perception of love is gradually improving. So, at present, my deepest experience of love is:

Love is not just about taking, it's about giving.

At the age of seventeen, his mind is not fully mature, so the concept of love is still very vague, so he can't understand how to do what he should do in the world of love.

Seventeen-year-old self is still a child, and he is completely in a state of blindfold for love, so the curiosity about girls at the age of seventeen is insignificant.

There are some things that you can't afford, but when you are twenty-seven years old, you have gotten rid of the control of your parents, and gradually you will have some unique thoughts and opinions, so there is a very big difference between the two age groups on love.

But when I really reach the age of twenty-seven, I am a little blind to love, and I feel that my life does not need the real other half to be involved, so I am not interested, but talking about marriage is something that everyone must experience.

The biggest difference is that I look at love more rationally and is no longer impulsive.

At the age of seventeen, I was just in the stage of love germination, and I was still ignorant of love, and I didn't know what love was, what kind of love was the right love, and how to do it in love. At that time, I was actually quite impulsive about love.

When I said I loved, I said that I followed my lover and left impulsively, went to his hometown, left the city I had known for a long time, and didn't even say goodbye to my family, just because of this impulsive love. always thought that true love should go with him desperately, and it should be so disregarded.

At the age of twenty-seven, I look at love more rationally, and I know how to better analyze love, and I know how to love others correctly. Now I understand that the best love is not necessarily to be with each other all the time, and even if the two are deep in a different place, they are willing to work hard for a common future and make each other better and better.

Seventeen-year-old looks at the face, and twenty-seven-year-old looks at the conditions.

When I was seventeen years old, I thought that as long as he was handsome, it didn't matter if he had money or not, regardless of his family conditions, as long as he liked it, he would be together, and he thought that he was still very young, and it was a big deal to go to other cities to work hard together after graduation, and he would always work hard to build a happy home.

At the age of twenty-seven, he thought that what was the use of being handsome, and he couldn't be eaten, the poor boy was not only unambitious but also unmotivated, and being a little white face was the most suitable for him.

The concept of love is different at each age, the more you grow up, the more realistic it is, at the age of seventeen, you will be desperate because of a person, because you and your parents are against it, because you drop out of school and go to a distant place with him, because you will do a lot of stupid things.

Twenty-seven years old is difficult to be deceived, you can see the other party's little tricks at a glance, when you introduce yourself, put your work and salary on the surface, we will talk about it if it is suitable, and if it is not suitable, this meal is our casual meal.

In the real society, women want to marry a man with good conditions, after all, only with money can they do everything they want, and if a man has no money, don't complain about women worshipping money, there are really few women who can share weal and woe with men.

When I was seventeen: I thought it was best for love to be pure, not polluted by any substance. As for the other half expected at that time, appearance accounts for a large part, and sports should be good and study well.

As for the other party's original family environment, he doesn't consider it at all, and he doesn't think about whether the other party is a child from a divorced family, and he doesn't think about whether his parents have money.

Just thinking that after graduation, the two can find a similar job, and then buy a house and a car together, it seems to be a good choice. Of course, if the other party chooses to wander outside for the rest of his life and work in a city where he may not be able to afford a house for the rest of his life, I may also be stupid to follow him. （ps：

After all, it's just a thought, who knows if the two of them can go to the end).

Twenty-seven: It inevitably becomes very realistic, and I think that two people in love should at least be evenly matched and make progress together. If one party keeps moving forward and the other party stays put, this kind of love will not go long.

Of course, I'm definitely not going to let myself be the one who stays where I am.

Falling in love at the age of seventeen, he is the most important.

Falling in love at the age of twenty-seven, you are the most important.

Seventeen-year-old love, full of love and water.

Twenty-seven water, you begin to pay attention to practical problems.

Seventeen-year-old you, if you break up, you will look for death and life.

At the age of twenty-seven, you will leave in style if you break up.

At the age of seventeen, you neglect your friends when you are in love.

At the age of twenty-seven, friends are just as important as lovers.

At the age of seventeen, you can accompany him to the end of the world.

At the age of twenty-seven, you just want to be at home with him.

Seventeen-year-old you want him to like the same things as you do.

At the age of twenty-seven, you know that everyone can have their own preferences.

At the age of seventeen, you just want to fall in love and don't want to get married.

At the age of twenty-seven, you should think about getting married before falling in love.

At the age of seventeen, you will still be shy in love.

At the age of twenty-seven, you are more slippery than anyone else.

Seventeen-year-old you, in love, will directly quarrel with him.

Twenty-seven-year-old you, when you quarrel, you will sit down and communicate well.

Seventeen years old. is full of longing for love, thinks that there is love and water is full, has a feeling of ignorance about the opposite sex, is easy to be shy, and there will be a crush.

If you have a crush on someone, you will be stupid and good to him, silently observing everything related to him, and the friends around you know that I like him, but he doesn't know.

And at that time, I just liked it very simply.,If you're in the same class.,I'll sneak at him in class.,When he can't solve a problem, he'll follow and be anxious.。 <>

Hehe, it's also very strange now, why can't I muster up the courage to confess at that time, even if I fail, it's not a big deal, so I have been hiding in my heart, I have been hiding in my heart until I graduate, and the two of them have no chance of meeting again, and this relationship will end without a problem.

Twenty-seven years old. By the time I was twenty-seven, I had already graduated and worked for five years, and I would have been married by then.

Love has become the tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life, no longer pursuing romance, but instead of many small details of living together.

There will also be requirements in the material aspect, love and bread are equally important, both are indispensable.

When I was seventeen years old, I was still very ignorant of love, and I didn't know what love was.

I appreciate his handsomeness and his chic coldness, etc., I think this is love, this is to like him, fall in love with him, and always simply like him, this person doesn't think about other things, and doesn't think about the future. <>

I just want to be with him now, talk and laugh every day, and be happy, I don't care about the eternity, I only care about the moment.

At the age of twenty-seven, I am indeed more rational about love, I think love is not a brain of enthusiasm, it requires two people to have a common language, common hobbies, and common development goals. <>

In this way, the two of you will not go further and further because of some things, and the two of you will be able to have a good result. And no longer only look at his appearance, but also pay attention to the person's heart, see his character, ability and ability, in short, measure whether he is suitable to spend his life with him.

Of course, in addition to his inner and outer appearance, it also depends on whether his family is rich and can afford a house and a car, so that he will not suffer too many sins by following him, at least the two people will not worry about the house and car, and can spend this life more easily and happily.

At the age of seventeen, I thought love was the most beautiful thing in the world. I walked in the piano classroom and I played beautiful music casually. A handsome boy walked by at the door and smiled happily at me.

Two cute little tiger teeth are exposed, and the handsome bangs are also slightly tilted. He said to me, I like you.

I think this is the most beautiful sound I've ever heard, and I think this is the love I longed for. We often sit together and talk, you love to talk and I love to laugh. Time flies and we have a great time.

At that time, the innocence of seventeen years old, the beauty of seventeen years old. But at the age of twenty-seven, I don't have this mood at all, and at the age of twenty-seven, I don't have a delicate **.

Sitting in a five-star steak restaurant, waiting for another blind date. He may have been well-dressed, but the first time I saw him I lost interest. Maybe it's not just the age that has changed, but also the mentality.

Love is no longer handsome and gentle, but more practical whether I will marry you or not. The youth that can't afford to wait adds a taste of anxiety to love.

Recently, I fell into a liking for you, and I can't extricate myself for the time being, and I'm as entangled as me, and in this state of crush, I have to analyze my feelings. So one day, while waiting for you to reply to my message, I had the following feelings.

When you are 17 years old, if you like someone, you will unconsciously lower your posture. Don't dare to look at each other, occasionally talk to you will be extremely nervous, if he does something to make you feel "for you", it will arouse your shyness and inferiority complex even more. But how many of those "for me" will I be wrong?

When I was 20 years old, I liked a person, and I was too eager to be "evenly matched" and "equal", but I couldn't grasp the degree of equality very accurately, and I often overcorrected myself and held my posture too high. It's said to be a crush, but if you like it, cover your mouth and try to slip out of your eyes. I really can't hide it, and I have to work hard for you to pretend not to know.

In my heart, I am still the 17-year-old girl, longing for love. When I saw you, my eyes lit up, and when your eyes fell on me, my heart was extremely active. When going head-to-head, the heat is not well controlled, sometimes too close, sometimes too far.

Those times when I don't take the initiative to send you messages, I have rehearsed in my mind, imagining countless times when you take the initiative to talk to me. Immersed in your own delusions, there is certainly a little bit of joy, but more pain. Because when I'm not looking for you, you really won't be looking for me.

No matter if you are 17 or 20 years old, you are just as helpless in the face of "likes", and you can't disguise it. I didn't expect to confess to you in such a hurry and pale. According to my original assumption, it should be able to move you fiercely, at least myself.

But the reality is that everything is too late, and I am like a fish exhausted, embarrassed and helpless. Later, I also listened to the long paragraphs of voice I sent to you repeatedly, and I seemed to understand why you sighed after being confessed by me. Because I sound like I'm really too humble myself, I'm not declaring my liking for you, I'm more like praying for you, trust me, really like you.

If this happened to someone else, I might feel sorry for him, but it happened to me. After the confession, I actually felt a sense of relief. Probably, there is no need to pretend anymore, both of them can confess a little.

He Song, I like you very much without permission, I'm sorry.

Wen It's me. Written on 2017 10 29