Why do I always spend money on eating with my boyfriend

He may think of you as his own, if you don't want to do that, just pick it out, or do something else every time he pays after eating, wait for him to pay, and see what he reflects, and then say, every time he asks you, you say no, that's because he thinks you really don't want to, if you treat him as your own, you won't be polite to him, right, maybe his personality is like that, and it determines that he will do that...

Your boyfriend is an informal person who doesn't realize you're going to care about it. He's not even bad for money, it's just that he's used to you like this, that's all.

He is a selfish man who has no manly temperament.

The next time you sit farther away than him, you say you want to go to the toilet when it's time to pay.

Rich people. I'm only 4rmb for one meal....It's still in Shenzhen.

Your boyfriend is really too"Difficult"yes, I'm really hard to say. China has been around for 5,000 years. Hey, that's all there is to it. It is to protect animals. It is a special protected animal in our country.

Don't want this kind of boyfriend.

You don't want to give it to you, and you are always in a hurry to spend money. Do you still rely on him? See if your boyfriend asks why she always spends money on dinner with her girlfriend.

I don't have any money, and when I have money, I'll tell you how I feel when I try to eat 60-70 for a meal.

You boyfriend doesn't look at things!

Find a time to talk to him.

Look how you speak, haha, that's interesting.

I admire your boyfriend so much!

Then you won't not dig so fast?

It's definitely not normal.,In this society.,Boys chasing girls are generally boys rushing to pay.,No matter how bad it is, you have to AA.,Besides, your salary is not much.,There's really no reason to always pay.。

Then why this happens, you have to find out the reason, specifically, the reasons are as follows.

First, the issue of consumption habits. This boy was taught to be frugal at home, and as a result, he was thrifty everywhere, and it became a slamming door. You have to talk to him, at this time you have to talk about it, you have to be resolute, see what his reaction is, if you are willing to change, then everyone is happy, if he is still obsessed with the original concept of consumption, then you have to think about your relationship, after all, it was like this before marriage, it is difficult to imagine what will happen after marriage.

In any case, the concept of consumption is a very important part of the three views.

Two, he's just doing this to you. In this case, the problem is very serious, although it is now said not to objectify women, but in a sense, the more time and money a person invests in a thing, it means that he attaches great importance to that thing, or at least is willing to spend it for it, so this shows the importance of you in a certain situation, and you really have to be cautious.

Three, he is preparing for the future, such as preparing a birthday gift for you, or in the long run, he is now saving money to prepare for the wedding, house, car or something, this really has to be considered, you can never think of what the straight man is thinking in his head, they can do the existence of white socks with sandals, in case someone prepares a surprise for you, you will lose if you share it directly with someone.

So to sum up, no matter what the situation is, you have to talk to him well, otherwise it is only you who is uncomfortable, if you choose to endure it now, can you endure it for a lifetime, and finally wish you happiness, I hope it is a good situation.

Hello, this is normal, because men are like this, whether they are in love or married, they are all paid by men. You can also ask the man to pay, but you have to pay for it yourself. You can also say to your boyfriend that you can do it, and then everyone will pay as much as you want, and then you will pay as much as you want, so that you pay for it yourself, and then your boyfriend will pay for it, and then he will know what it looks like.

You can also discuss that if you go out to play in the future, whoever pays for it will be fine, and don't pay for it every time, in this case, he will take it for granted.

Abnormal. When boyfriends and girlfriends go out to eat, they should at least do AA system, and it is not normal to always let girlfriends pay.

Are you a girlfriend or an ATM?

Going out to dinner with your boyfriend, every time your boyfriend pays, of course it's not good, in my opinion, whether it's a relationship or a marriage, you need two people to take care of everything together, if you always pay a lot alone, the relationship itself is not balanced, and in the long run, it will affect the relationship between the two of you.

A relationship, if you want to maintain the purest appearance, it should be cut off from all money and interests, it is best to use the AA system between men and women, even if it is not the AA system, you should occasionally rush to buy a few bills, share it for your boyfriend, let your boyfriend see your dedication to this relationship, instead of letting your boyfriend pay for it every time, and you take it for granted, no one should pay for another person, even if the relationship between the two of you is boyfriend and girlfriend, in the long run, this relationship will be unbalanced.

People are mutual, and when you go out to eat with your boyfriend, you don't necessarily have to rush to pay every time, but at least you have to show that you want to pay, so that the man will feel that you sincerely want to share the burden for him. You give enough sincerity, and your boyfriend will naturally give you his own sincerity, so that the relationship between the two of you will become better. Even if some boyfriends are very face-loving and don't want their girlfriends to pay for it, you should take the initiative to bring it up, and your boyfriend will be happy.

If the two of you are together, all the expenses are spent by the boyfriend, the boyfriend himself is not financially adequate, which will bring a lot of pressure to the boyfriend, if you really love your boyfriend, you will also try to save money for him, when the two of you go out to eat together, you must not be willing to let him pay every time.

Think about it from another angle, the two of you have worked hard for each other in this relationship, whether it is affection or money, you have sincerely paid, even if this relationship does not have a good ending in the end, you don't have to owe too much to each other.

a. When she feels that the relationship between them is not very familiar, or she has no feelings for boys, she will be willing to pay out of equality and not indebtedness; [They are all friends, no one owes anyone].

b After getting along to a certain extent, when the girl's psychology has a certain sense of acceptance of the relationship between men and women to a certain extent, she will have the heart to pay for the maintenance of a good relationship in the future and the deepening of feelings. [My husband, I'm distressed].

c Extremely self-reliant girls have a natural sense of independence in their psychology, everyone is equal, and they don't want to owe anyone even after marriage. I have the ability, we must AA. [She is a wild horse, consider whether there is a grassland at home].

In addition, there are two relatively extreme cases where you will not pay:

c Girls don't have me at all, they just want to have fun, or be a friend of wine and meat everywhere, eat me and I affirm, anyway, she doesn't feel indebted, and she doesn't plan to pay it back. [It's over when you play together, you still take it seriously].

d Extremely dependent girls, my husband must support me, my money is my money, your money is still my money. [Spend my money? You don't love me].

If you are financially independent, you can also pay for it when you go out to dinner with your boyfriend, which will also increase the relationship between you.

Today's society pays attention to equality between men and women, but I think that as a man, you should still be in love, and don't be too stingy. Especially with his girlfriend, it's okay to spend more money on his own, because I don't think money is so important in front of emotions, if you are reluctant to spend money on your girlfriend, then such a man is really not worth entrusting to him.

When your boyfriend always hints that you want you to spend money on him, I think such a man can propose to break up, as a man, don't spend money on women, forget it, and spend women's money, I can only use eating soft rice to describe their behavior.

In today's society, there are still many men like this, and as a man, they don't even want face. In the family, a man has to stand up to the sky, in fact, I don't earn as much as my wife in life, although I don't spend his money, but I can't hold my head up.

I really can't imagine what those women think about spending money, maybe in their hearts, when they chose to be together, they chose to be together for such an act, and not out of love at all.

It can be said that there are many good men in the world, don't think that this man will not meet a better one if he misses it, I can only say that this man is a scumbag, at least I look at it from a man's point of view.

Sometimes you can't measure the feelings of two people with money, but sometimes you can't measure it with money, which is more confirmatory and a more direct method. A man who is willing to spend money for you may not love you, but a man who is not willing to spend money for you, he certainly does not love you, there is no doubt about this.

Do you say that sometimes often? This is to look at the cycle and frequency, men are divided into several discontinuities, boys-boys-men.

From your language, I understand that your boyfriend must be a boy, under 25 years old. Boys like this tend to be immature. Such people.

With you.

Do you still have to think about it so much? Do you think about why he asked his family to confiscate his salary card? It's because you spend too much money, and if you follow him in the future, you won't have money to support you, so maybe you still owe money for you to pay back.

What kind of man is a man who spends women's money. There is no dignity of a man at all.