What should a man 20 have, it will be beneficial to life and the future

Bold, thin-hearted, thick-skinned.

It should be the most incisive answer

Have a mind that can think independently.

A twenty-year-old man is the most confused time in his life, how to get out of this whirlpool?

First of all, you have to have faith, the faith of being a person, this is a spiritual level thing, the human spirit can not be without pursuit, I share my faith with you, everyone is drunk and I am sober. It's that simple, but it's hard, and it took me three years to get it. This is a belief that will not change throughout a lifetime, and it will go straight to the heart.

Secondly, you have to have ideals, which can be said to be pursuits, such as if you set a goal for yourself, that is, ideals. The ideal is divided into long and short, and the short ideal is what I want to do in the near future, for example, I want to build beautiful muscles, and I can do it consistently for a month. The long ideal is my long-term goal, and the short ideal should run through the entire long ideal.

Thirdly, when it comes to business, you need to be serious, and whatever you do, you need to be serious. If you are not serious, you will not have achievements, don't expect pie to fall from the sky, even if a pie will fall every day, more than a billion people in the country, how lucky do you think you are.

Finally, a word about love. The old saying is to start a family, but now young people generally get married late, if you still follow the old routine, wait until the year of establishment, maybe you start a business.

It's entirely up to you, in my opinion, love and career are not wrong. Doing business while leaving the object, when the career is slightly successful, the love has basically calmed down after a few years of running-in, and then get married, isn't it better?

In my humble opinion...

Choose a direction and keep your feet on the ground. If you can't find a direction, you should first keep your feet on the ground, at least to ensure your financial independence.

If you want to choose the right direction of life at a time, unless you are very lucky, the road is slowly coming out, and you can't expect that you will go to the **, as long as you are down-to-earth and not opportunistic, everything is OK.

It's time to start planning your life, and you can't just get by as before. You have to know what you want and what your life should look like in the future, so rise up.

1. Pay attention to promises, successful men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted. The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

Second, do not exaggerate. A successful man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not babblingly. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted. They read books, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it. Fourth, broad-minded. Successful men don't care, they don't covet small gains, they don't care about small losses, and they don't chatter about this and that.

Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family. Success 5. Not self-centered. Men respect themselves and know how to respect others even more.

They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet. 6. Have the courage to admit mistakes.

Successful men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at taking good advice. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate. 7. Be strong-willed.

Successful men have the psychological quality of not messing around, once they determine the goal they are striving for, they work towards it, and when they encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but they never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence. 8. Clean and tidy.

Successful men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier.

They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel. 9. Successful men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

10. Have hobbies. They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use their hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and they can work and relax at the same time, which makes them interesting. No wonder the women say:

Men with hobbies are not easy to get bad.

The pressure on men in society is self-evident. Failure is the same, and there is no set rule for success. Men's success is not compared to women, as long as you can achieve your own goals then you are successful for yourself.

If your efforts are recognized by others, then you are also successful in the eyes of others. All these things are for Nuri to achieve his goals. Success is in a broad sense, not a narrow sense, and if a man is rich, he is successful.

Well, apart from Li Ka-shing, there are several successful people in China. Don't measure it by money. Having money is just a leaf in the big tree of success.

A man should always be grateful to the woman who was there for him when he was 20 years old.

Because men in their 20s are at the lowest point in their lives, they have no money, no career, but they have desires.

And a woman in her 20s is the most brilliant moment of her life!

Most men in their 20s are in the bleakest moment of their lives, with no career and no money.

Most women in their 20s are in the most glorious moment of their lives, she is young and beautiful.

So a man in his 20s should cherish the woman who loves him at this time, because she is using the most glorious moments of her life to accompany the darkest moments of your life.

1.The maturity of a man is not something that can be achieved overnight.

2.How many young men in their 20s have you seen who are very old? Immaturity is a must for everyone, and obviously he can't cross this stage to live up to your expectations directly.

3.You are older than him, and you are faced with the situation that a woman's mind is already precocious than that of a man, and his immaturity can only wait.

4.Guide him at the right time, confidence or not has nothing to do with maturity.

5.Maturity means having more experience and experience, and only by exercising him more in this area can he achieve something.

6.Frustration education is not popular in China, but people who have not experienced setbacks have shortcomings in their growth.

7.In your heart, don't treat him as a child anymore, but as your man, the pillar of your family, and there is pressure and motivation.

The 10 mentalities of becoming a good man are elaborated on the entrepreneurial experience and management experience of successful people, and many examples are passed. It vividly portrays the arduous process of successful people, and has a good reference and enlightenment effect on readers.

The main contents of this book include: 20s, men should know the entrepreneurial mentality, 20s, men should know how to manage the mentality, 20s, men should have the mentality of "talent first", 20s, men should make more friends, 20s, men should have the mentality of being born in Fangyuan, 20s, men should have a serious mentality, 20s, men should have the mentality of asking others to do things, 20s, men should have a positive work mentality, 20s, men should have the mentality of dealing with workplace traps, 20s, men must have the right love mentality.