Work, family, relationships... How to choose family, relationships, and work?

The premise of giving happiness to others is that you first have a sense of happiness, so that you will have quality and sustainability. First of all, your family wants you to return to your hometown to have a stable job, if you think that you have not achieved significant results after wandering for many days, and you can't bear the loneliness of a different place, it is not a good choice to go home, a friend of mine is to work outside for a few years and then return to his hometown, find a very good man in the local area to marry and have children. In a sense, taking a step back may have a wider range of options.

Let's talk about feelings, of course, for women, feelings are an indispensable factor in life, but feelings without good future expectations and stable guarantees will make you seriously insecure, if the relationship you choose is a benign relationship, you should not feel uncertain and insecure status quo.

It must be a stable job, and the family will still be separated when they get married in the future, that is, if you have money in the future, you can get your family to live together, and the relationship is called the relationship in the end, since you are not sure, how can you call it a relationship, you can only talk about the relationship after the job is stable, and you think it is realistic to have a relationship without a job? No one in this society will marry you without money, think about it, my opinion work first.

See which one is worth your choice, for example, if you don't have a family, will you be miserable, because she is your lifelong root, if you don't pay attention to it, what will be the consequences? Will it cause your relationship with your loved ones to not improve in the future? If you don't have a job, what do you eat and drink?

Feelings need a material foundation, don't listen to anything "affectionate drinking water and full", that's all nonsense, eating, drinking and Lazar are problems, don't say that the relationship between the two of you can last for a long time, poor couples mourn everything! What can you lose from an uncertain relationship? Makes you miserable for n months?

And after that? Will you be able to find a new relationship?

Which do you think makes it easier for you to let go?

This depends on the personal life situation, I also have the same problem as you, and there are beloved people in my hometown, but I feel that my life outside is better, in a foreign place is more to let myself grow strong and always keep an unspeakable belief in my heart, life experience to understand and fulfill, maybe sometimes I am avoiding some problems, but more importantly, I must make my own decisions and face life bravely!

Hey, shake hands and sympathize with each other, but there is still an order, family first, work second, uncertain feelings third, and the rest, leave it to God, let it be, and resign yourself to fate!

Some people have a job, a relationship, a family, a family, a job, a job, a job, a family, a job, a family, a job, a family, a job, a relationship, a job, a family, a family, a family, a job...

You are the kind of fit that only you know ...

Family is a lifetime, lovers can't say it's good, don't choose any one in my opinion, after all, this is not play, if you are really together and have no feelings, it is you who suffer.

Although love is not the whole of life, but it is your other half who will accompany you through your life, if it is really your ideal other half, even if you choose to work in the field, your family will not say anything, and your family does not want you to be happy.

This is that others can't help you, in my opinion, everything has a "degree", and if you feel that this thing is more than this degree in your interests, you can do it. Don't always think about what you have lost, in short, it is the old saying: there are gains and losses.

As long as you feel like you're gaining more than you're losing.

Of course, it is to choose your family, your family is the closest person, and no one will love you more than your family.

Nowadays, many feelings cannot stand the test of distance.

True feelings stand the test,

About work: You have a place at work, but if everyone around you is far away from you, you only have work, which is boring, and work is only a part of life.

About feelings: similar to icing on the cake. When you don't have a job, or when your work doesn't go well, in fact, feelings are not so important, so feelings are the kind of icing on the cake when you are in good times.

About family: If the original family is more harmonious, then it is a very solid backing, if not, the heart will be very empty, even if you work very smoothly, the relationship is also good, always will be very regrettable, feel missing a lot, to sum up, in fact, family, feelings, work, the three are inseparable, but if sorted, I personally think, it should be work, followed by feelings, and then family, when you work smoothly, the relationship will not be too bad, when the relationship is good, and the family will not be too alienated, because someone who loves you will certainly not allow you to be so alienated from your family.

The above is just a personal opinion.

Choose a job, have a job to talk about feelings, and have feelings to have a family.

The family's greatest affection is the second, and the work is the third.