The bride price standard scares off young people, does the higher the bride price mean the more bl

<> getting married and having children is nothing more than the happiest thing, but there are many things to prepare when getting married, such as the wedding bride price, and the current wedding bride price standard can scare off many young people. However, does the higher the bride price mean more blessings? I don't think so, the bride price is just a number, and it doesn't represent the number of blessings.

The ancients said well, the courtesy is light and affectionate, and it is feasible not to set up a bride price in some places. However, the bride price is more or less just a moral and has no direct relationship with the size of the amount. Isn't it possible to become some bride price and not get married?

This is nothing more than a desecration of love and a hurt to the feelings of both parties. Therefore, the higher the bride price does not mean anything, it can only be said that the conditions are better, and the lower bride price is nothing. The bride price only represents a heart, not that the higher the bride price, the more blessings.

Nowadays, many young people are working hard for their future, and they are working hard every day, but when they get married, the mother-in-law asks them to ask for a bride price, and a large part of it will be spent, and the mother-in-law may not be willing to marry her daughter. But it's marrying a daughter, not selling a daughter. Therefore, the amount of the bride price does not represent anything.

This trend should be stopped, not to compare with each other, and it is not to say that the higher the bride price, the more blessings there will be. Thousands of miles to send goose feathers, the gift is light and affectionate. The bride price is the same, as long as the mind is there, the amount of money is not a problem.

The bride price standard itself is unreasonable, since the bride price represents blessing, why set a standard for blessing, is there a standard for blessing? Could it be that the more money you give, the higher the bride price, the more blessings you have? Apparently nonsense.

Therefore, China's bride price standard is a headache for young people, and the state should also deal with those places where the bride price is relatively high, and suggest that they reduce the burden on young people. As long as the young couple is doing well, the amount of the bride price and the amount of blessings are not a big problem. <>

No. There is no inevitable correlation between the level of the bride price and the amount of blessings. An excessively high bride price will only make people feel scared about getting married.

I think this statement is not very accurate, because the bride price is more or less related to local customs and marriage habits, and sometimes the increase in the bride price also represents the improvement of people's economic level.

No, the higher the bride price, the more face the mother's family has, and it feels very proud to say how much bride price her daughter has taken when she gets married, in fact, you don't need to ask for too much bride price for marriage, which will affect the feelings of the two families, not that the more bride price you get, the more blessings you get, and the happier you will be.

I don't think the higher the bride price, the more blessings, because some families can't get so much bride price, it doesn't mean that the family doesn't bless the couple, and you can't generalize.

Definitely not! The size of the bride price can only represent your personal income and the level of your family income.

I don't think it's necessarily, because sometimes the bride price is too high, which may make some people afraid, and the amount of such a bride price is actually not appropriate, so do what you can.

In fact, I personally believe that the amount of the bride price is just a formality, in order to take care of the emotions of the woman's parents, people who really love their daughter will not care about the amount of the bride price, and money is not a measure of everything.

Regardless of the man or the woman, the more concerned about the bride price, the poorer it is. It is a poor person who says that people sell their daughters, and it is also a poor person who says that they lose money when they give birth to daughters.

We should recognize that the bride price should not be a requirement for marriage. Marriage is a commitment and responsibility between two people that should be built on positive values such as mutual respect, understanding, and love. If the bride price becomes a non-negligible factor in the marriage, it can lead to various problems and difficulties, including financial pressure, gender discrimination, etc.

Therefore, in the modern world, as a bride-to-be or bride-to-be, we should try to avoid emphasizing material benefits at weddings and celebrate this special day in a more modern, innovative, and inclusive way. It is best to have a sincere and frank communication with your family and to reach a consensus and understanding.

Getting more and more expensive is not a reason not to ask for a bride price, but giving a bride price is a sign that the man attaches importance to the woman.

Nowadays, many men are reluctant to get married because the bride price is too high, and as a girl, I also feel that the current bride price is very scary. How can a boy in his 20s come up with more than 1 million yuan to buy a house, and he can also take out hundreds of thousands of bride price to marry his daughter-in-law. Today, I'm going to tell you, what do you think of such a ** bride price?

In today's society, if you want to marry a daughter-in-law, you must prepare a bride price ranging from nearly 100,000 to 200,000 yuan, and the amount of the bride price varies according to different regions, and the bride price in some places directly reaches more than 200,000 yuan. And if you want to get married, you have to buy a house and a car. We also all know that the current housing prices are very high, in some small counties, if you want to build a house, you need more than 1 million, which is not counting the three gold bought when you get married and the cost of getting married.

In fact, I think the customs of each place are different, so everyone's opinion is also different, some places ask for more bride price, because the local customs are like this, and some of the woman's parents are afraid that their daughters will be wronged if they marry in the past. Most of the woman's parents will return the bride price to their daughter after asking for the bride price, that is, the bride price is still used by the man and the woman together. The woman's parents are not wrong in their thinking, they feel that they have worked hard to raise their daughter so much, and the bride price of 100,000 yuan is not much.

I feel that the bride price is not appropriate, mainly according to everyone's economic situation and local customs, but also according to personal wishes. If we feel that the bride price is not appropriate, it is okay not to get married or find someone else.

If you really want to live with each other, you actually think that the bride price is enough, and the most important thing is the house and car. Nowadays, it is rare for young people to choose to live with their mother-in-law and father-in-law, so having a house is the most important thing.

I don't think the bride price is completely necessary, because the bride price not only brings a lot of financial pressure to the man, but also may ruin the happiness of the daughter.

I think that the current bride price is higher than the market level, and the current marriage does not pay attention to etiquette, and there is no customs of the past.

I think the bride price is a very bad phenomenon, because the bride price is just a sense of ceremony, and there is no need to set it too high.

The happiness of the child is the most important, the woman wants the bride price is nothing more than the man's attention to his daughter, but also can not open his mouth, rather than bargaining on the bride price, it is better to carefully examine the son-in-law's character, the three views of the family, more reliable. The bride price is an omen of respect for etiquette, the icing on the cake, and don't let the bride price become a burden.

It is not easy for both parents to pull their children, and they both hope that their children can find a good daughter-in-law and a good husband, so the parents' starting point is good. For this reason, after falling in love, when preparing to get married, when talking about the bride price, you might as well talk about it together. The two of them stand on the same position, with a good and friendly attitude, and even the result will not be too bad.

I'm afraid that I haven't sat down to discuss it well, and I can't hold my breath when I talk ruthlessly, so naturally I have no trouble to talk about.

As a boy, you should take the initiative to win the approval of your mother-in-law, and you should calm down when you meet a mother-in-law who can't understand it, after all, this year is not a fight for a breath to get hundreds of thousands of people at once, most ordinary people can't do it. The boy has to take a little responsibility, and the mother-in-law will slowly understand the burning guess. I'm afraid of Piyu, I'm afraid that the boy has no money and has a bad temper.

The bride price is just a formality that represents the importance that the man attaches to the woman. Parents who really love their daughters will not ask for a sky-high price on the bride price, and those parents who love their daughters will return it in the form of "dowry", which is a manifestation of true love for their daughters. On the contrary, the parents of the woman who opened their mouths at the bride price even had some "drop-off fee", which caused the two parties to have a very unpleasant quarrel at the wedding, which was very boring and made the marriage deteriorate.

How much is the bride price? I think it should be determined based on the financial situation of both the man and the woman's family. If both men and women want to provide for a house and a car in the future, and the family conditions are limited, it is okay to appropriately increase the bride price, and it is also possible to appropriately reduce the amount of the ordinary bride price a little.

Because the bride price is just a ceremony and should be determined according to the man's family situation, I think tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands are more appropriate.

It is more appropriate to pay a bride price of about 100,000 yuan, which can provide a guarantee for women and also reflect the sincerity of men.

100 thousand. This kind of bride price is more appropriate, and most people can afford it.

It is reasonable to ask for a bride price, but say in advance that it is time to get on the bus and then ask for a bride price, and this marriage would rather not be consummated.

In rural areas, the traditional concept is relatively strong, and the patriarchal inheritance has always been regarded as the most important thing in the family. I came from the countryside, and what I heard the older generation say the most is that there is no filial piety. In rural areas, the concept of inheritance is stronger, and the family will be anxious to find a daughter-in-law for the boy, who generally does not go out to work and study, and will be married at the age of 18, which shows that the man is more anxious.

At the same time, in the early years, there was a preference for sons over women in rural areas, which led to a serious imbalance in the sex ratio in rural areas, with more men than women. Most of the rural girls who return from working or going to school are married to urban people due to their living habits and vision, which makes it difficult for young men in rural areas to marry wives.

The wind of comparison under the effect of "face". People want face, trees and bark, and the most important thing in the countryside is the issue of face, and every household will brag about the success of their children and how good the object they are looking for, and this kind of exaggerated showing off has become a kind of talking point after dinner. In addition, in recent years, the economic development has been relatively fast, and people who work abroad to earn money abound, and the conditions in the countryside have also been improved, it is inevitable that there will be a psychology of showing off wealth, coupled with the support of "face culture", the woman thinks that the higher the bride price, the more face, and the rich man also thinks that it should be like this, one is willing to fight and one is willing to suffer, and it is not surprising that the "bad wind" bride price**.

Not only did it fail to highlight the importance of girls, but it also turned a marriage into a copper-smelling transaction.

I can accept the zero bride price reform because it can avoid the trend of bride price comparison, it can also reduce the pressure on both families, and it can also allow young people to live a happy life and reduce the occurrence of conflicts.

Marriage is a major event in life, and many people like to talk about pomp. If the reform of zero bride price is implemented when getting married, the comparison of bride price can be avoided, and the in-laws do not need to give the bride price, and the mother-in-law does not need to give the dowry, which is fair to both parties. In some places, the bride price is more and more, which has brought a lot of pressure to the families of both sides, so we must change customs, and I very much support the reform of zero bride price.

As long as young people love each other, the parents of both parties should agree that they can get married without a bride price, and they may live a happier life without a bride price.

The zero bride price reform is very good, it can reduce the pressure on both families, some people have worked all their lives, just to prepare a bride price for their children, buy a house, buy a car and socks and marry a daughter-in-law, and in the end they will be empty-handed. If zero bride price is implemented and families on both sides are not allowed to give bride price and dowry, it will reduce the pressure on the young people, and it will reduce the pressure on the elderly on both sides. Two young people are in free love, why do they need to receive a bride price?

Today's era should change customs, young people's concept of marriage and love should be completely changed, not too materialistic, otherwise the pressure on both parties is too great, which may not be conducive to the maintenance of feelings after marriage.

The girl and the boy love each other very much, just because the girl's parents asked for a lot of bride price, the boy had no choice but to break up with the girl, the girl cried bitterly, what a sad ending, these two children originally loved each other very much, and it was because of the bride price that the two broke up. Is it fair for a couple to break up a couple who love each other because of a high bride price? The reform of zero bride price can avoid contradictions, will make young people love each other more, young people choose zero bride price, can make the relationship between two people more solid, two people love each other more.

Acceptable. I heard the news of the pilot, and some people said that the era of zero bride price is coming, and many people have great expectations for it, but whether this is effective in increasing the marriage rate is actually really an unknown number of hidden filial piety. Carry forward.

I can accept it, if you bride price, the other party will not have too much pressure, and the relationship between the two of us in the future is also very good.