When love stops, you can t be friends

You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make me sad and uncomfortable, neither can I advance or retreat, since I have broken up, I will completely quit, a happy life, and happiness is the only pursuit now.

I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers. You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually?

This is probably difficult for most people to do. You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party.

However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends? No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think. Satisfied.

If love is gone, why humbly be a friend after being a lover? Because they have loved each other, and because they have hurt each other. You can't be friends after a breakup because it will perpetuate the problem of breaking up.

However, you can still be friends after a breakup, because both parties have let go and have been relieved, and when they meet again, only pure care remains. In fact, in the world, everything is just one encounter after another, attachment and abandonment. In the blink of an eye, I found that the flowers bloomed and fell, but it was just a lot of giving, exhaustion and injury again and again.

It's better not to be friends anymore, after all, if you are still in contact with each other, it will affect your life, do you dare to say that you really treat her as an ordinary friend? If you are separated, forget about her, pursue your new life, why add a burden to yourself. I wish you the happiness of finding yourself.

I thought the same way, thinking that I could still be friends, although it was a mistake to know each other, and it was a mistake to break up, but now I understand that it's better not to be friends when you break up, because the most familiar strangers are really sad.

Love is happy and sweet, friendship is sincere and warm, and these are the most important feelings for us. Some people think that the two can be transformed into each other, love is no longer friendship, and even if the confession fails, they can still be friends. But in fact, this idea is not valid.

In fact, it is impossible to be friends after the confession fails......The reason why I say this is because there are commonalities in the foundation of love and friendship, there is no bond between two people if love is not there, and the failure of confession will directly affect two people to become friends. 1. There is commonality in the foundation of love and friendship, love does not exist, and friendship will not exist. Love and friendship are two different feelings, but there is a common foundation between them, that is, like-mindedness, mutual trust and respect.

When the confession fails, there must be some problems in the two people's loss of like-mindedness, mutual trust and mutual respect, so the basis for continued communication between the two people does not exist. In such a state, it is impossible for two people to become friends. 2. When the confession fails, the bond between the two people does not exist, and they cannot continue to be friends.

The bond that binds love is the affection between each other. The relationship between two people is harmonious, so they will fall in love with each other and fall in love with each other. ......But when the confession fails and there is no love between the two people, the emotional bond between the only two people does not exist, and the two people cannot maintain a state of continuing to communicate, and the result can only be to go their separate ways.

Therefore, two people who fail to confess cannot become friends. 3. The failure of confession will directly affect the continued relationship between the two parties, and it will also affect the two people to become friends. In the case of a failed confession, the fundamental reason why the confession was not successful was because of a lack of trust in each other.

When this problem cannot be solved, the relationship between two people will end in a breakup. Until the problem is resolved, the two people cannot reconcile or even continue to relationship. Since it is impossible to even have normal interactions with each other, then two people cannot be friends at all.

Therefore, it is impossible for two people to be friends after the confession fails. For these two people, from the moment they failed to confess, there was no possibility of continuing to associate with each other and becoming friends.

Quietly adjust each other's moods, and carefully ask each other, what can we do if we can't be lovers?

Let's be confidants"! The woman said to the man. The man said, "No, I can't bear that permanent concern and longing, no one can be a lifelong confidant." ”

Then let's be lovers"! The man said, "No, because you are a kind woman, and although our feelings are not favored by the sun, such ambiguous words are a stain on us".

Then let's be brothers and sisters"!

The woman said to the man. The man said, "No, our love has long gone beyond the affection between brother and sister, will there be a brother who looks at his sister with tender and loving eyes?" I wouldn't be such an older brother."

Then let's be friends, that's all I can do for you. The man said, "No, in my heart you are already my lover, as a friend, I can't face you and your other half, and I can't imagine you ......and your other half when you're together."I can't resist not thinking about you while I sleep in bed with my significant other.

Let's be enemies!" The man said to the woman. Since we can't change our own fate, this life is destined to be happy without each other's life, and it may be the best relief to be far away from each other's sight and never find each other.

The woman was stunned, and the man cried. I can't imagine that what I can give to the other party in the end is such an ending. But they understand that only by choosing this way can they retain the kindness and purity of the other party, and they will no longer hurt more people.

Can't be friends

In my opinion, there are two possibilities for people who can still be friends after a breakup.

One reason is that maybe both parties have not officially started, but it has been interrupted because of the obstruction of some family or external factors, and what you can't get is always the best, so the two will still have concerns in their hearts, and they can still be friends after breaking up, maybe both parties have an expectation in their hearts, looking forward to one day rebuilding the old friendship.

Another reason is that the original relationship between the two is actually not love at all, at most it is love, and like is not as strong as love, so it will not be a pity to lose it, even if the two meet again after breaking up, they can be friends.

And when you love someone with your heart, this feeling is much stronger than liking, if you can't get the other person, you'd rather never see him (her), because if you don't see him (her), the pain in your heart will be reduced a little, once you see it, all kinds of good things in the past will be vivid, and when you think that you can't be together now, there will be a heart-wrenching pain, the person you love can't be with you, why pretend to shake hands easily and be friends?

I've always liked a song, although I don't often hear it, but as long as I hear it, I will be in a daze, and I like it because the lyrics are well written, especially one of the sentences of this song, which makes me have to nod in agreement.

This is a song "Eternal Lovers" sung by Zhang Yu:

Because there is love for you, you cannot be friends.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other. You can't be the enemy. Because we loved each other deeply, we became the most familiar strangers.

Because you have loved, you cannot be an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I can't be friends, and I can only be the most familiar stranger.

If the 500 times of looking back in the past life were exchanged for the passing of this life, then I would already be very happy. In fact, passing by is also a deep fate.

When love is a thing of the past, we begin to smile bitterly, love can be said to go.

It doesn't matter how deeply you've been hurt. It can also be healed without a trace, without a trace.

Only after love does you know how important, and if you are drunk, you can know how to burn.

Loving the person you love is happy in itself, I can remember the good of the past, but I can't fantasize about it in the present, because everything is gone forever.

When love is a thing of the past, gently embrace the warmth of the memories and gently gaze at the withering tenderness.

Whatever the outcome, it will ruin the beauty of what was once there. Leave clean.

Maybe some afternoon in a few years.

When you squint your eyes in the sun, you will remember a beautiful moment and smile.

All kinds of nostalgia are worth it.

When love is a thing of the past, I take a deep breath.

On the road of life, paved with love buds, there is always one that belongs to me.

Although there are many flowers, there is no repeat one, which is predestined for life and life.

Recall that sentence: I said that we would be together forever, however, no amount of love has only become a kind of care.

If everything was once as brilliant as fireworks, maybe it wouldn't be standing still now.

The love that we once had became a mark of the world on our hearts.

What we hold in our hands is not necessarily what we really have;

What we have is not necessarily what we really engrave in our hearts.

Many times we need to consciously give up, because when we have, we may be losing.

And when we give up, we may be regaining.

Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

When love is a thing of the past, don't complain and don't hate.

What is most needed at this time is understanding, renunciation, and blessing.

Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms.

Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy, don't let these become painful.

Now that we have experienced it, many years later, occasionally remember, hope is a good memory, when love is a thing of the past, please live more confidently, be happy, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts me the most, smart people know that they want to be happy.

Cherish the people I love and the people who love me.

A lot of times, I can't be with the people I love the most.

Because many times, love is fragile.

Most of the people who accompanied Duan Sen and me were the ones who showed up to me at the most suitable time.

If it is the person you love the most who is by your side at this time.

Please cherish it, because there are too many people who do not have this kind of happiness.

Once two people have love, and this relationship is relatively long, then the relationship with each other will evolve and stubborn unconsciously!

Break up, after all, it's a breakup, some lovers can still be friends when they are separated, that's because their feelings for each other have not been consolidated to a certain extent, so both parties are willing to be friends, and they won't hurt each other much!

But some people are different, love deeply, or after a long time, find that some of your problems are particularly many, so from a small dissatisfaction in the heart to indifferent, it is better to break up with you, and even don't want to be friends with you.

It is also possible that the other party has feelings for you, but the other party is a realistic person, and the other party will consider it later.

Be happy and accept this fact.

If you break up, you break up!

There's no need to be friends.

That's not realistic!

Even if you love each other, don't beg them to be your friend!

Even if it's a long time coming, you'll still be hurt!

Don't change your outlook on life because of a failure of love and love, the road ahead is very long!

I understand your thoughts. I'm also from the past @

You're an emotional person, what do you do. God is watching!

I believe you will be happy!