Loyalty and filial piety can t be both, how can two families and three children come together?

Now the society is developed enough, so many parents will choose to reorganize a family after divorce, so that the children of both sides can be integrated into one family, but many children are not used to living with children from another family, studying together, and so on.

From my personal point of view, although loyalty and filial piety cannot be both, as long as the children of the two families use the right methods, they can still get along well.

First of all, parents on both sides should do enough ideological work for their children, so that they realize that everything they do is for their happiness, and they can take the situation in the family with children as an example, so that it is good to open the threshold in the children's hearts.

Then the child himself should try to communicate and understand. Because the happiness of the parents cannot be stopped, the children also hope that the parents can reorganize the happiness, if you think in this way, it will be easy for the children of the two families to communicate and get along.

And the most important point is that whether it is an adult or a child, they should fully think about each other, think more about each other's situation, life, personality, and many other aspects, should be considered thoughtful and comprehensive, so that the three children of the two families will quickly integrate together, no matter which aspect, there will be more common language, so as not to communicate with each other, when communicating with each other, there will be obstacles.

Based on the above points of view, or practice, it is easy to integrate the three children of two families, and the life of the naturally reorganized family will be very happy.

Whether loyalty and filial piety can be both is not directly related to whether the three children of two families can come together, as long as they are in the same country, there will be no such trouble. On the contrary, it is common for divorced families to have several children who do not get together.

The three children of two reconstituted families can actually come together, and the interpersonal relationships in "Family with Children" can just prove that as long as parents do not instill hatred in their children, there will not be much estrangement between children.

The divorce rate is very high now, so there are many half-children or half-children who will more or less never see each other again, especially those who already have memories, which will hurt them even more. In fact, sometimes parents divorce because they have no feelings, not to mention that they are friends after divorce, but it is still okay for children to communicate with each other, but some parents or grandparents will instill hatred in their children, which is the so-called "dilemma of loyalty and filial piety", in fact, children's free communication and "loyalty" and "filial piety" have nothing to do with half a dime.

Loyalty is aimed at the general interests of the country and the nation, not for the family. It is not that the word "loyalty" is violated in associating with anyone, as long as it is not violated in principle, it is not a dilemma of loyalty and filial piety.

Because there is no such relationship between children.

Like the daughter of our leader surnamed Li, they have actually separated from Chinese nationality later, but when they get together, they are far from the dilemma of loyalty and filial piety, let alone ordinary people, the interaction between brothers and sisters with different surnames will not have much restriction, it is the child's parents and relatives who are restricted, and the ideas they indoctrinate are fatal to the child.