What is it like to wait for an impossible love?

Updated on society 2024-04-02
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Waiting for an impossible love is an experience that sooner or later you will regret not letting go sooner. Because waiting for that love will make you sacrifice a lot, and you will also make yourself pay too much.

    I also waited for a love affair when I was in a garment factory in Guangzhou. At that time, there was a boy who was a hot seat, and he was very good at dressing up, so he looked handsome, and I happened to be in the degree, and the two stations were connected, so I had more contact with him. I slowly fell in love with him.

    But what he liked at the beginning was a girl in a warehouse, although he didn't really fall in love, but he always flattered her. At that time, I always believed that a miracle would happen, and I always thought that there would be my own opportunity, so I kept waiting, even if I knew that I was not suitable for that job, and I was not suitable to continue to be a general laborer like that, but I never gave up and kept waiting. It wasn't until that boy, on Valentine's Day, asked me if there was a text message suitable for confession, that I slowly woke up, if I don't like it, I don't like it, two people have no chance, and it's useless to wait too long.

    When the boy was in a relationship with the girl in the warehouse, I found a reason to quit and didn't contact again. Because I clearly know that it is already certain, it is not my cup of tea, so I have to let go, sometimes there is some love between colleagues, and leaving is the best choice. Because it is already known that that love is impossible, then there is no point in continuing to wait.

    Not every waiting can wait for the result you want.

    If you keep clinging to the undeserved waiting, then sooner or later you will regret what you did, regret your stupidity, and feel sorry for the time and price you have paid.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What is the situation of impossible love? Do you like the Mona Lisa in the painting? Or the Venus with a broken arm, or the Shih Tzu Sable Cicada hundreds of years ago, if that's the case, then you still don't have to wait, be realistic, you should try to love in reality, and associate with people in reality, you will feel that it is better to be a flesh-and-blood person.

    If you are gay, you also know in your heart that you will be opposed by your family, and there will be no good results. You'd better try to forget, find a new person of the opposite sex to talk about ideals, talk about revenge, and get married.

    If someone already has a family, for the sake of moral and social stability, I suggest that you bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart, just look at his happiness from afar, and you have to hurry up to find your happiness, after all, you have been waiting, there will be no happiness.

    If you like a celebrity star, you have to work hard to pursue it, and celebrity stars are also ordinary people, not necessarily, how noble you are, whether you can successfully pursue it, maybe he likes people like you.

    If you like just ordinary people, as long as you put your heart and soul into it, there is nothing impossible to actively solve problems.

    But if you just want to experience waiting, love comes to you, although I haven't been in love, but many TV dramas are acting, and there are often crushes or parting people in literary works, they sigh and sigh silently sadly, feel so lonely, envy others in pairs, holding a glimmer of hope highlights his despair, waiting for no result, but still insisting, whoever sees it will be very sympathetic.

    We don't have to suffer that sin, no one wants it, and no one likes it. Wouldn't it be nice to find a compatible person of the opposite sex like a normal person and start a family?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Waiting for an impossible love is, of course, painful.

    The most painful thing in the world is not to love, and the most painful thing in the world is that I am by your side and you don't know that I love you.

    The deepest thing in the world is that the two of us are so close, but your and my hearts are separated by the end of the world.

    In this world of men and women, whoever falls in love first becomes a slave to the other; Whoever falls in love first will become incomprehensible; Whoever falls in love first loses.

    Do you still remember why Sheng Xiaomo was silent? Do you still remember He Yimei, who silently loves He Yichen?

    He Yichen is He Yimei's elder brother, although the two of them are not related by blood, He Yichen has always regarded He Yimei as his own sister.

    God is like this kind of creation and manipulation, since He Yimei first met He Yichen, she fell in love with this person.

    She fell in love with this person who could not be with her for the rest of her life.

    In the long river of fate, He Yichen found the person he liked, Zhao Mosheng. The love of the green years is always so vulnerable.

    After many misunderstandings, He Yichen separated from the person he liked, but He Yichen still had her in his heart.

    However, He Yimei still did not give up her love for He Yichen. She thinks that as long as she stays by He Yichen's side, as long as He Yichen always has her own figure by his side.

    One day, He Yichen will see himself and will know who is the person who loves him the most in the world.

    She has been using her own care to stay by He Yichen's side with her own self-hypnosis, this impossible love, He Yimei spent ten years waiting for him, or even more.

    But even such a long wait, this long companionship, is no match for Zhao Mosheng's return to China.

    When He Yichen saw Zhao Mosheng again, He Yimei knew that she was waiting for love, and it would never be possible.

    He Yimei knew that the love she was waiting for would never be attached, her waiting did not bring any satisfactory return to herself, and her waiting was only the sting and sorrow in her heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I hope you understand what the concept of love is. When you watch someone happy, you yourself will feel happy. When you encounter something happy, you will unconsciously think of a person's face.

    When you feel that you can go through a lifetime with him, when you meet you want to kiss him. When you especially want to be strong, you can protect her from harm. When you will not care about anything, just ask him to be good.

    That's love.

    Secondly, I hope everyone understands that it is never impossible to love someone, only willingness. I believe that you are willing to wait for him, you are willing to waste your life to miss him, and you are willing to miss those fragments, which must mean that you believe that he brings you a lot of happiness and a lot of unforgettable. This is true love, when you think of a person, you will have a sense of happiness, only I am willing to wait for you, there is no worth waiting for you.

    Since it is an impossible love, there is no point in continuing to wait. Just like the Monument to the People's Heroes in People's Square, although its existence will make many people miss that period of history and the people who have sacrificed their lives, but a stone monument cannot save their lives. The same is true of desperate waiting, which can only remember your lost and buried love, but cannot restore the once irreproducible warmth.

    True love is to cherish and love each other well when we can be together, rather than forcibly recovering it after loss. With just one look from you, I feel that my love has meaning. But if you don't have this look, then there is no hope to continue to love, and isn't there a desperate thing to have no hope?

    In despair, a person may be drained.

    Love is free, but it's best to take care of yourself in this kind of love, then it can barely be considered success, even if you don't want the result, you have to be good to yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm willing to be a deputy car, but I'm also happy and sighing. can be described by a lyric in "Zhong Wuyan", what is the experience of waiting for an impossible love. Maybe this sentence is the best interpretation of this problem!

    Love someone, no matter what that person thinks? We are all willing. They are painful and joyful.

    Nowadays, TV dramas will always have a male number one and a male number two. The male number two is always the spare tire of the female number one. The male number two is always waiting for an impossible love, but they are still willing.

    We have all watched this TV series, "The Best of Us" Xinghai has been with Geng Geng for ten years, and Yu Huai came at the moment of the final proposal. He only said one thing, I'm late. In the end, they were together again.

    So that's it for an impossible love! Even if that girl doesn't love me. I'm still willing to stay with him for 10 years.

    When I was in high school, my tablemate was a girl with a boyfriend. But there are other boys who like me to be at the same table, and every time I have an argument with her boyfriend at the same table, this boy will comfort me at the same table. My table mates and I both knew that this boy liked her.

    My table mate also told him to stop being nice to her. But this boy has always been willing to do things for my tablemates. He would often buy snacks for my tablemates.

    Although this boy is very sad that I have a boyfriend at the same table, he is also very happy because he can accompany me at the same table.

    Love is like that. Waiting for an impossible love is very painful, but it is also joyful. May all lovers in the world eventually become married.

    May all those who love each other be able to endure forever. I also hope that those who are waiting for someone who is impossible to get will be able to think about opening a little. There is no grass at the end of the world.

    Some people are not suitable for you, and we have to learn to let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel like I'm being wronged every day, it's a humble feeling, it's painful.

    I was in high school for three years, I liked a boy, unfortunately he didn't like me, he had someone he liked, he paid attention to that girl every day, and I looked at him stupidly every day.

    I saw him on the day of high school admission, wearing a sweatshirt and sneakers, he was not very tall, ** black, big eyes, with a very good-looking and sunny hairstyle, and a dimple when he smiled, which was very cute. It was a boarding high school, and I packed up my dormitory and followed the guide board into the classroom, after all, I had just been promoted from junior high school to high school, and I had too many longings and yearnings for high school. There were already a lot of people in the classroom, I sat in a seat casually, and greeted each other with the classmates around me, and then I saw him sitting at the base of the wall, and instantly blushed, I actually had a class with him!

    Life in high school is not as good as I imagined, there are many courses to learn every day, a lot of knowledge to learn, it is very boring, and in the boring life, secretly watching him has become my only happiness. When I knew he had a girl he liked, it felt like five thunderbolts. At first, I comforted myself, thinking that I had liked him for a long time and that he might fall in love with me, but I still secretly watched him every day as usual and brought him snacks.

    Day after day, halfway through high school, he was still unmoved by me, his joys, sorrows and sorrows could easily stir me up, but his pain and sorrow were unmoved. I felt more and more uncomfortable, I felt humble, I felt that I had been greatly wronged, I wanted to give up, but my heart did not allow it, I forced myself not to see him every day, not to think about him, but his voice and smile would still appear in my heart.

    After the college entrance examination, we lost contact, and now it has been three years, and I will no longer deliberately think of him, I just hope that he has a bright future. I don't think I'll ever take the initiative to love anymore, it's too painful. My heart is very small, and I will be full of pretending to be a relationship, and I will not wait for my impossible love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because I only waited, I didn't work hard so it was impossible, although not all love can blossom and bear fruit, but how to know if you don't try! There is a miracle called everything is possible!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, the road of waiting is a difficult and slow and long and winding road, although there is no appointment, but it is also a kind of hope and sustenance.

    What is waiting? It is the most fervent hope and the most sincere wish. Just like a person, no matter how different paths you have taken, you always have to give an account to the world when you are mature.

    I think、If the person who is worth your wait for should of course wait, true love has no regrets, if it is not worth the person you are waiting for, then there is no need to wait, the waiting road is an endless road, why be so persistent, waiting for a fruitless love is really not worth it, don't be stupid, why pay your price, why bother yourself? Missing the flowers will reap the rain. Waiting for a result is a blessing, but I'm afraid that some of the waiting is far away, maybe you have waited for a lifetime without results, it's just a wish.

    However, don't be sad, a vision of the unknown is also a kind of joy.

    Waiting is sometimes happy and joyful, sometimes sweet, waiting is sometimes a painful torment, it will make people regret, maybe it will be empty joy, maybe it will be sad for a lifetime, maybe it can make a person crazy, a person may lose everything and even pay a lifetime for the sake of waiting for a person.

    In fact, some losses are destined, some fate will never have results, the fate of life is predestined, you can't disobey, you can't force it, the encounter between people is fate, everything is still fate, so you won't get hurt.

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