Why did Lu You s mother beat the mandarin duck and break him up with Tang Wan?

When we were learning the poem "Hairpin Phoenix" by Lu You, our Chinese teacher told us the love story of Lu You and Tang Wan. Why did Lu You's mother break up the two of them, I think it is probably the same as many mothers-in-law now, who think that the daughter-in-law has snatched my son, and the daughter-in-law forgets her mother, and the daughter-in-law forgets her career.

Lu You and Tang Wan are cousins, and after they got married, they didn't respect each other like many ancient marriages, but you and me, very sweet. was not very happy when Lu You's mother saw it, she thought that Lu You would be delayed by Tang Wan's career, and Tang Wan would make Lu You obsessed with beauty and have no future. So she didn't want Lu You and Tang Wan to be together.

Later, Lu You's mother ran to tell her fortune, and the fortune teller told her Tang Wankefu, Lu You's mother was immediately unhappy, and felt that these two people had to break up, so they beat the mandarin ducks, but in fact, I think Lu You is a hypocrite, and after listening to his mother's words, he took a break from Tang Wan, but relied on a song "Hairpin Phoenix" to spread for centuries. However, he thought about Tang Wan, Tang Wan had remarried when he wrote "Hairpin Phoenix", maybe she was already doing well at that time, Lu You's song "Hairpin Phoenix" made Tang Wan die soon, in fact, I think Tang Wan could have a better life.

There is a conflict between one mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the other is married to the Lu family for several years and has not given birth to a boy and a half girl. Therefore, he also left two golden classics.

Kiss and fight closely, and choose a distant match for marriage. Close relatives are cute and unmarried! The long-term evil result of the marriage of close relatives within the five suits is the extinction of the door. The Mother of Land Tours is doing the right thing!

Tang Wan can't have children, and Lu's mother doesn't want Lu You to be a dink.

This mother has a love plot, which shows that even if your mother-in-law is your aunt, she may not be good to you.

In life, there are always some things that are not as we want, and we can't let everything go according to our imagination, we can only choose to compromise, and we have to choose to compromise on some things. Love has always been the sweetest emotion that people feel the most troublesome, whether in ancient times or now, people are worried about love. Nowadays, people work hard to have a love, and in ancient times, some people persevered in order to be able to keep their love.

Lu You's mother has been letting Lu You take a break from Tang Wan, although we know that Lu You and Tang Wan love each other very much, but things can't develop as we imagined. There are two reasons for this, one is that because the two love each other too much, Lu Yao's mother has some jealousy, and Tang Wan has been unable to get pregnant, so Lu You's mother has some care.

In fact, in real life, if we encounter such a problem, it is also very difficult to solve, and it is very difficult to make a choice between family and love. In the face of mother's persecution, many people may have to choose to give up this relationship, only a very small number of people choose love, of course, if this happens to me, maybe I will also choose to stand on my mother's side.

For the love between Lu You and Tang Wan, even in modern life, it is very sweet and enviable, but the era of life is different, maybe the words of the parents at that time are the eldest child who can't refute it, so in the end, such a thing happened.

In general, by consulting the information, we can roughly attribute the reasons why Lu You's mother forced Lu You and Tang Wan to divorce into three reasons. The first possibility is that the relationship between Lu You and Tang Wan is too good, and Lu You's mother doesn't want such a thing to happen. The second is that it may be because Tang Wan can't get pregnant, which was a very big sin in the past.

The third is that it may be that Lu You's mother dislikes Lu You for putting too much energy on Tang Wan, resulting in several failed championships in the imperial examination. But no matter what the reason, I hope that such a thing does not happen to us, and I hope that our love can last for a long time.

Lu You and Tang Wan got married after they met when they were young, and they used the family heirloom phoenix hairpin as a token to set up a family affair. At that time, Lu You was already preparing to enter the office, and he became a parent. After all, Lu You was still a hairy boy at that time.

I like Tang Wan very much and focus all my attention on Tang Wan.

What fame and fortune, he may not have paid so much attention to it anymore. But this made Lu You's mother very unhappy, he felt that Lu You didn't concentrate on studying, and the root cause of all this was because of Tang Wan. Otherwise, Lu You will definitely be able to concentrate on his studies and glorify his ancestors.

But because Tang Wan got married, because Lu You and Tang Wan were childhood sweethearts, the relationship between the two was too good. Let Lu You not have the heart to study hard, although the two of them are world friends, but compared with Lu You's future, Lu You's mother is more inclined to take Tang Wan off so that her son can study with peace of mind.

Because of the difficulty of mother's life, in ancient times, the life of parents was greater than heaven, so even if Lu You loved Tang Wan again, he had to obey his mother's orders.

Perhaps, all this seems incredible to us now, do my parents tell me to divorce my wife, do I have to divorce my wife? Maybe now we don't have to completely obey our parents, but in the past, we could only completely obey our parents' orders, otherwise it would be a violation of filial piety. Later, Lu You's mother asked Lu You to marry another woman surnamed Wang, and Lu You and Tang Wan were separated like this.

Later, Tang Wan also married Zhao Shicheng, so it seems that the love story between Lu You and Tang Wan is really miserable. Everyone has heard Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix", from which you can see Lu You's sincere love for Tang Wan. But the past is gone.

In ancient times, there was no queen, so his mother fell in love with a woman from another family and asked Lu You to take a break from Tang Wan.

Because Lu You's mother fell in love with a woman from another family, she hoped that Lu You could marry that girl.

Mother-in-law still needs a reason to look at her daughter-in-law unpleasantly? In particular, this daughter-in-law has a very good relationship with her son.

Because Lu You's mother was afraid that Tang Wan would delay Lu You's future and affect his fame.

Because Tang Wan was a talented woman, and his mother felt that it was useless for a woman to know how to teach her husband and children, just knowing how to read, so Lu You's mother forced him to cultivate Tang Wan.

Because the relationship between Lu You and Tang Wan is very good, like glue, Lu You's mother is afraid that it will delay Lu You's fame in the long run.

Because Lu You's mother didn't like Tang Wan, and Tang Wan didn't have children.

It's a truth to fall in love with now, mainly because I'm afraid of affecting my studies.

Because Lu You's mother thought that Tang Wan had delayed her son's future, she forced Lu You to rest Tang Wan.

Because after Tang Wan married into the Lu family, she never had children.