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If you want to make yourself relaxed and happy, you just don't want to be bored and in a bad mood. How can I make my mood better, listen to songs, and feel annoyed, that is, your boredom has not been solved and improved, then let your emotions vent out, inexplicably uncomfortable, nothing more than an empty heart, an empty heart, there is no mood at all! As for why, it depends on your own life situation and the factors around you.
Depression and depression have different concepts, depression has a kind of depressed sadness, and depression is just a mood of idleness. If you are just bored, you can find something you like, or go out for a walk, find a close friend to talk about your mood, pass the time, and you will change the mood of your writing. In fact, everyone will be bored at times because there is nothing to do!
Do you think, if you are busy every day, will it still be empty? Maybe it's because you don't have something you like and are good at doing. In fact, you can do something you like to enrich your own life, and you have to maintain a good attitude every day, to live happily, happily, and the mood is the most important, isn't it?
If you're in a good mood, everything will be fine, and in this way, I think it's hard for you to be unhappy. You can listen to the pressure and release your stress with; watched the TV series and moved myself; Paint, paint that touching aesthetic; Chat online and find like-minded people who share your interests; You can also play games, play the kind of screaming with excitement; Playing mahjong, the eyes to win are red; Look at the book, look at the childish; Go out shopping and go on a shopping spree with some discounted deals; Complain to your friends so that they can all fall asleep. Isn't that great?
I think it's very good, I can do whatever I want, I have no scruples, and I'm happy! It's normal to feel bored and lonely once in a while, and the most important thing to keep yourself from being bored is to find what you're really interested in and devote yourself to it. Everyone has their own favorite things, but some people find out and do it seriously, while some people don't know what they should do.
The most effective way to discover your interests is to take seriously the seemingly boring and monotonous life on weekdays, listen more, watch more, do more, make more friends, communicate more, and hope you are happy! Hey! And then there's finding the right thing to do every day.
When I'm really bored, I sing in front of the mirror, sing that out-of-tune song when no one is looking, and then think about some funny things in life, and slowly I will be relieved. And you have to think about it, what are you living for? If you think about this problem clearly, there will be no concept of boredom, it seems that you have few hobbies, find a hobby that suits your interests, and this will fill all your boring living space!
Hey! That's what I said, it's very spiritual, try it if you don't believe it! Winter goose psychological quiz, I hope to bring you help and happiness!
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I give you advice, do you think it's okay? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.
Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.
For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.
Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.
For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.
Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!
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1: Do not do things that you know are not beneficial or harmful.
Like quarrels, fights. For example, to please people who look down on themselves and are self-righteous. Since you know that you will be in a bad mood, don't worry too much about it and try to reverse the facts.
2: Don't avoid things, look at them correctly, treat them, and deal with them.
When you encounter a problem, you should solve it in time, and dragging it out is not a solution. If you can't untie the knot in your heart, you will only keep yourself in a state of restlessness. As the saying goes, "long pain is better than short pain", and try not to evade the form to delay things that can be dealt with at one time.
3: Don't overthink what is right or wrong.
Right and wrong, there is no clear definition. There are pros and cons to everything. Any one thing, there are drawbacks. There is no seamlessness, there is no hiding from the world, so there is no absolute right and wrong. Only by seeing clearly, understanding thoroughly, and not being overly calculating can you make yourself relaxed and happy.
4: More than optimistic contact with friends.
If you're in a bad mood and find someone who can complain more than you can only make yourself feel worse. The circle of friends around you can affect your mood and guide different attitudes. If you are with someone who likes to laugh, you will smile a lot, too.
With a negative person, you will also become negative.
5: Don't live in the eyes of others.
Just live a good life, no one is perfect, and there is no pure gold. You can't get everybody to approve of you, so you just need to approve of yourself, or get the majority of people to approve of you.
6: Live really, not compare.
Pursue what you need, what you want. Because it's your goal, your dream. It's not that you do it if others think it's good, and it's not that you work hard if others like it.
Others say the city is good, but you like the mountains and rivers. People say it's easy to have a car, but you like to hike.
What you have, others have. What do you like and what do others like? The goals pursued are not the same, so there is no comparison.
At the end of the day, you don't know what you want or what you're doing. You're just making yourself embarrassed in someone else's vanity world.
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Belch. This one.
It is necessary to dig it from person to person.
Someone likes a busy life.
It's busy, though. But I feel fulfilled.
Thus feeling relaxed.
Someone lives a life of leisure.
Relaxed though. But I felt empty.
Lonesome. You will feel pressured.
I think. It's easier to live a simple life.
Do what you want.
Say what you want to say.
What to do tomorrow.
Tomorrow's business will be talked about tomorrow.
Do today's work.
Be yourself today.
Regardless of the future. But people also have a little bit of pressure.
When you are under pressure, you will be motivated.
will progress. Don't care what other people think.
It's not that someone said.
Go your own way.
Let someone else say go
As long as you feel it's right.
You just do it. Believe in yourself.
Happy to you.
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1. Being selfish may make us hurt a little less, but selfishness does not mean that you want to hurt others, but to think more about yourself and know how to refuse appropriately. Think more about your own interests, and there will be many more ...... ways out
2. Live realistically and see more clearly. People don't die for themselves, because in this world, only money can help you in the end. However, it is also necessary to properly distinguish who is good to you and who you can never associate with.
Look at it reasonably, don't go to extremes, money is important, family, lovers, parents, children, and friends are indispensable companions in your life!
3. Suffer a little loss, take a step back, maybe you can avoid a lot of disasters, if you do not harm your own interests and principles, under the premise of taking a loss, take a step back, you can avoid the wicked and you entangled. Because, no matter how kind you are, you will always meet some people with very low emotional intelligence who will carry you to the end, so at this time, it is better to take a step back than to fulfill it. You can't get angry with this kind of person.
4. Learn to praise others more, even if you hate him or her very much, you can politely return the favor, and you can never interact again. You have the right to make him disappear from your life.
5. Don't easily argue with others, think calmly when encountering things, lose your temper and damage your brain nerves, destroy your mood, and seriously affect your sleep. When you encounter something that is about to have an argument, tell yourself to think calmly first, maybe this step will allow you to stop the quarrel war.
6. Help people more, it will make your mood full of sunshine. You win good popularity and good mood. Have an altruistic heart, and you will get more of what you want in the future. Because, others will help you too.
7. Gratitude is often cherished, people with a grateful heart often have good luck, others do not ask you to reciprocate, only ask you to say: thank you. A person who can't even say "thank you" will stay away from the people around him.
8. Learn to lower your requirements, delay gratification, not blindly pursue, but look at what you can't get reasonably according to your own situation and ability, and what you can't get is only temporary, because you've been working hard! You will get it eventually!
9. Combine work and rest, don't stay up late, exercise often, not only enhance resistance, but also secrete dopamine to delight your mood. The more you live, the younger you get! The secret to longevity is: keep exercising, live to old age, and exercise until you are old.
10. Don't suppress your mood, talk more, be good at expressing your bad emotions, seek people who can give you warmth, and relieve your inner depression in time, which will reduce depression and anxiety. If you want to be in a good mood, learn to release, confide, communicate, and seek someone who understands you to care and guide you in time.
Spiritual pleasure is the most valuable wealth in life!
11. Cultivate your own interests and hobbies and add infinite possibilities to your life. Sticking to the rules and following the rules will only get more and more boring, so hobbies are the blessing of your life.
12. Learn more, charge and recharge, you can expand your horizons and pattern. Learning more from excellent people will invisibly affect your values, which will motivate you to be more motivated to work hard and work hard.
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Personally, I think how can you live an easy and chic life, at least you have to have that life, at least you are also a rich second generation, and then you have the talent and ability to give full play to your strengths and have a certain income. Personal advice, hope to help you.
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