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Team up with a few other roommates and "talk" to him.
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Domineering, you also let him try this taste.
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This is hegemonism, rebellion, haha.
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I think it's better to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student has a break.
First, because as a large collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.
Second, there is the question of time.
If it's time to go to bed at night, such as 10 o'clock at night, one of the roommates has to go to bed at 10 o'clock, and the other roommates are night owls, usually until 12 o'clock or even early in the morning, in this case, the roommate who sleeps at 10 o'clock wants the other roommates to be quieter, I think it is also reasonable, even if it is not guaranteed to be completely quiet, but also to minimize the sound, I think this is a respect for each other, when you want to go to bed early, you can also exchange the other party's understanding and concession. There is also a lunch break at noon, sometimes after a morning class, after eating at noon, there may be roommates who want to sleep for a while, if you don't have anything special, you don't want to sleep, you can put on headphones and watch a drama or something, which is understandable.
Third, contingencies.
For example, there is a roommate who has a little cold in the past two days, and he always wants to sleep after drinking medicine, and then he may tell other roommates during the day if he can be quieter, I think everyone has compassion, and this kind of accident is also understandable, I saw that my roommate was sick and had no energy when I was in college, and it was really distressing, so I hoped that she could get better quickly.
I think the above two situations can be viewed normally and understandably.
Of course, college roommates are like smoking a blind box, you may encounter the situation that you ask the whole dormitory to be quiet when you sleep, and you don't respect others when you sleep, and you are very loud, there is actually no good solution to this situation, because generally this kind of person will not be useful, you can only choose to change the dormitory or move out if you have the conditions, or you can only hurt each other, or I hope everyone can meet normal roommates.
Fourth, many times, when several people live together, there will be those invisible inadvertent frictions that you don't even notice, but this question is like you asked, you obviously realize that you should be considerate of that roommate at this time, be quiet, and experience the right way, why do you want to let your indignant psychology be weird, feel conflicted or in a bad mood? I hope you can handle the friendship and classmate relationship well. Cherish friendship, it is good for others, and it is also a benefit for yourself!
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When he wants to sleep, don't let him sleep.
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Everyone has different sleeping habits. If someone makes you sleep or you make someone sleep, it will make your relationship with your roommate a big loss, and everyone should coordinate and accommodate each other. 1.
Be respectful. Maybe before living in the dormitory, everyone was the little princess and little son in the family, but after living in the dormitory, everyone was equal. We should first learn to respect each other and respect each other's rights.
2.You have the right to read books and learn games, and the same goes for others. So you should be quiet while others are studying, just as you want others to do the same when you are studying.
3.Everyone has different sleeping habits. If someone is making you sleep or you are making a noise to someone else sleeping, it will make your relationship with your roommate worse.
Some people like to turn off the lights when they sleep, and some people like to leave the lights on. Therefore, everyone should coordinate with each other and accommodate each other. If there are three, four, five or six, or even more people living together in a dormitory, it is advisable to have a uniform schedule to adjust it.
Only when everyone is in harmony and abiding by it can we reduce disputes, eliminate friction, and maintain normal order in life.
If you are a "night owl" and go to bed late at night, you will wash up and go to bed only when all the dormitory members have slept, so that it is easy to wake up others and affect their rest. Over time, you will arouse the disgust of your roommates. In the dormitory, everyone should be treated with an equal attitude, and do not favor one over the other, and fight with some people while alienating others.
Some people like to be very close to one of them in the dormitory, and in normal times, they always whisper to the same person, and they are with one person no matter what they do. This can easily cause displeasure among other members of the dormitory, who think that you disdain to associate with them. As a result, the relationship between the two of you may be good, but you are alienated from the others.
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1. Adjust expectations. It is necessary to realize that living in a group is inevitably different from living alone, and that you cannot demand that others conform to your own living habits or ask for accommodation, and you need to actively adjust to adapt to the new environment. For example, if other people are playing games and chatting in the dormitory, then you should not use the dormitory as a study room, but choose to study in the library or classroom.
2. Take the initiative to communicate. Sometimes roommates may be completely unaware of the annoyance caused by their words and actions, and in this case, it is necessary to take the initiative to communicate. Take advantage of the right time to be honest with the other party about your situation and feelings in private, hoping that the other party will understand and make appropriate adjustments.
At the same time, it is proposed that on the basis of taking into account the reasonable needs of each person, everyone should jointly discuss and formulate the rules of dormitory life, and achieve self-consciousness through the form of contract.
3. Compare your heart to your heart. Take the initiative to consider your needs and feelings, and take the lead in keeping the dormitory contract. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and be especially careful not to touch minefields.
For example, do not spread the secrets of your roommates, do not discuss the rights and wrongs of your roommates behind your back, and do not use your roommates' belongings without permission. At the same time, do more to help your roommates when they are in urgent need, and give comfort and encouragement to roommates who have been frustrated and lost.
By exchanging sincerity for sincerity and establishing a friendship that transcends differences in living habits, we can tolerate and accommodate each other and live in harmony.
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Well, this is really troublesome, this problem can only be explained if you can make sense, if it really doesn't make sense, you can only apply to move out by yourself, and reflect it to the teacher, I also hate it, but I'm okay, roommates can talk about it.
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Long-term poor sleep can lead to insufficient blood supply to the brain, which can cause headaches.
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Well, if you want to get it done once and for all, fight him.
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The dormitory people don't sleep at night, and they don't listen to what to do.
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You play dota to make him understand how childish it is.
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I feel like it's good anyway, I probably like quiet people, and I have a hostility towards noisy roommates, but I just like that kind of noisy people, so it's still fun to quarrel with them, but I'll pay more attention to other people's feelings later.