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Hahaha, that beautiful must be married to a rich man, the older generation of people say that they can't find too beautiful to get married, it's just that they are afraid that those who are too beautiful won't be able to work and can't share weal and butter with their husbands? Such a beautiful girl must have married a rich man and Mrs. Kuo, and she will be happy for the rest of her life, and she will not have to work. The old man must think that being beautiful is a vase, and it is useless to look good.

Good-looking people are rich and raised, they can only eat and not dry, they can only follow the happiness, and if they want to endure hardship, they will run away by themselves. To sum it up in one sentence, it is that a good-looking life does not produce rice. In their eyes, good-looking people are vases, easy to break, if they want to choose a daughter-in-law, they like the kind of people who are not very good-looking, honest, and sturdy.

They can work and are easy to raise.

But now is a new society and a new era, how can there be that kind of old thinking, the current society is just scratched, those girls are beautiful, there are only lazy women and no ugly women in this world. And after every household has gradually become a well-off family, many families are rich for their daughters, and the kind of wealth I am talking about is not the kind of wealth that does not touch the spring water, this kind of wealth may be a little more in the organization, such as buying a few more beautiful clothes or something, a little more cosmetics and skin care products, and as a girl, in fact, many people will do housework since childhood, after all, my mother often teaches at home that don't be so lazy at home, learn more housework, otherwise you will get married in the future, the in-laws will not like you. Anyway, my mother raised me to do housework since I was a child.

The older generation no longer has to worry about good people not being able to do housework.

According to my long-term observation, I have found a pattern, that is, many beautiful girls find ugly boys, and more handsome boys end up finding girls who are slightly inferior to him. At least, I don't see much of a combination of handsome men and beautiful women, which is strange. In fact, in today's society, there are many men who do housework.

There are also many men who take pleasure in helping their significant other share household chores. In this era, people's concepts are also changing, not that men are inferior to women. So it's really a great blessing to marry a girl who is both beautiful and can work.

I think the elders told you to get married and not find too beautiful, probably because people are too realistic now, beautiful people have to think that you are usually doing housework, if possible, you won't do it too much, I feel that beautiful people are very bad, I want you to find a more practical person. Day on.

I think there is ambiguity in this statement of the elders, maybe the older generation thinks that beautiful girls will only spend money and will not make money. But I think it's good as long as two people love each other, two people can work together. In fact, in reality, there are still many hard-working boys who have won beautiful daughters-in-law.

The beautiful is still married to the rich, so that the beautiful is valuable, and marrying the poor is not only worthless, but also becomes an excuse for you to be attacked for doing things improperly.

1. I suggest you be realistic! A little beautiful person is good, and he will fall in love with you and give everything for you, such a woman is liked by every man, but why do you attract such a woman, why do such women like you?

2. Since you are also looking for a partner through a blind date, then it's not me who belittles you, your conditions, that is, generally, you think that a girl who is both beautiful and good, why don't you find someone with better conditions than you? Moreover, what do you think is the chance that such a girl will be saved for you to choose in the end?

3. Pretty is good, men like beautiful women, but you have to know that beautiful looks will pass with the passage of time, if you want to keep each other's beautiful faces, you must use money to maintain, now cosmetics, I believe you know in your own heart, ask you, do you have so much money?

Again, I suggest you be realistic. If you go on a blind date for the purpose of getting married, then it is more pragmatic to find a girl who is better for you, and don't imagine yourself as the protagonist in a romance drama, those are all made up.

It would be too hypocritical to say that people who don't care about a woman's appearance and only care about their hearts.

Of course, it is beautiful to find a woman who is beautiful, loves herself and takes care of her family, and of course it is beautiful. But if you are not in a hurry to get married, there is still time, and you can look for it again, if you are in a hurry to get married, you have no big problems with this woman, just follow her!

Besides, there are no ugly women, only women who don't dress up

What do you want, if you marry a daughter-in-law, you have to see whether the daughter-in-law's human nature is good or not, anything can be changed, but good human nature is innate, this can never be changed, all you can be loved in your lifetime, how do people look, the eyes of the lover are out of Xi Shi, see too much good-looking and ugly, aesthetic fatigue is the same when it comes, good character must be, I wish you happiness.

It's all pretty much the same.

It's up to you.

Generally beautiful is not gentle and virtuous.

The gentle and virtuous can't be on the stage.

Those who can be beautiful and gentle and virtuous, and those who can be gentle and virtuous and can be on the stage have long been booked. Otherwise, you will make a lot of money, and when you become bigwigs, find a beautiful and virtuous one haha.

I don't know what your own conditions are, whether you can find a beautiful one.

Personally, I think that if you are looking for a marriage partner, beauty is not important, mainly character.

Heart is more important than looks, but be careful, don't let yourself regret it!

The most important thing is to find one you like.

Hello, each of us falls in love and gets married, it is our own choice, we can choose the person we like to get married, if we like this ugly person, he is very good to himself, and he can accept it, of course he can choose to marry him, falling in love and getting married requires the joint efforts and decisions of both parties, rather than a unilateral choice. If you feel that this person is very good to you, and you are willing to be with him and her, then it is your own decision, regardless of what the outside world thinks of the rotten dust. Moreover, the appearance is not fixed, and people can make themselves more beautiful by changing their image and maintenance.

First of all, everyone's standards and values are different, and everyone's inner thoughts will be different when it comes to this issue. It is important to think carefully about your thoughts and feelings and make the most appropriate choice based on your values and personal circumstances. After summarizing the above, we should conclude that:

If a person is nice to you, you can consider having a relationship with him, even if he is ugly in appearance. Because as long as there is a spark in your heart, appearance is not important, and it is possible for a person to be braver, more confident, and more happy because of his appearance.

Finally, we should also recognize that appearance may also change a person's personality. Some people may become conformist because of their appearance, but there are also people who will be braver and more confident because of their appearance, and they can even become a better person.

Therefore, in my case, I will fall in love and marry someone who is ugly but very good to you, because appearance is not everything, a person may become braver, more confident, and more happy for you because of his appearance, and two people get along well together, and the most important thing is that the relationship is very good.

The love of beauty is shared by both men and women. In fact, in human nature, we all love "beauty" rather than "ugliness", and there is no gender difference in this regard. If a girl talks about love just "talking", then women attach the same importance to the physical attractiveness of their object as men.

Falling in love and getting married are two natures, if you just fall in love for the sake of falling in love, you can choose to find one you like to look good. If you fall in love for the sake of getting married, appearance is never the first place, there are a lot of things you have to consider when you get married, and your appearance is usually good-looking, what is the use. If you can't make money, it's not good for you, no matter how good-looking you look, it's just a "vase".

For people who are ugly and good to themselves, it depends on their own positioning. If you ask this question, you must have certain requirements for your appearance, so you don't have to force yourself.

For these things, there must always be a limb and a spike that can be measured, from the economic strength, personality, appearance, whether they are good to themselves, self-motivation, etc., each person has different measurement standards in each aspect. It still depends on which one you think is more important. Everyone's criteria for criticism are different.

Personally, I think that if I have been in a very happy and harmonious relationship with each other during the long relationship period before marriage, my appearance is no longer important. Of course, love is also a run-in process, I wish you all to find the right person as soon as possible.

Yes, as long as he's good enough for me.