When a boy mentions breaking up, what is the girl s first reaction?

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This is the first reaction of many girls. It is also the first reaction of many girls with strong personalities. Some girls with more irritable personalities will even start beating people. Whoa! Dare to break up with my mother, I don't want to live!

Of course, some girls can become very helpless. In addition to the shock, it is more about pleading and retaining. Such girls have a gentle personality and are knowledgeable. Anyway, I can't be so sensible, I can cry, even if it is the greatest forgiveness to the other party.

But there are some men who are just a fart to me, and I can keep in touch with them, even if it's with a lot of respect for them. He actually came over and brought up the word "break up" with me! It's a joke, I never acknowledged the relationship between the two of us.

He really took narcissism to the extreme.

I remember separating and reuniting with an ex several times. We treat breakups as the norm when a fight ends. The first time I heard him say that I broke up, I was very angry, because of the relatively short time of dating, so I didn't reveal my true self, but after he proposed to break up, I didn't ask any questions.

He said to break up, I turned around and left, and when I got to the bottom of the dormitory, I sent him a text message "Break up", and he politely replied, "Hmm". It me off at the time.

Later, I simply got back together, and after that, I didn't give him face anymore, every time he mentioned breaking up, as soon as he said it, I started texting and scolding him. He scolded until he was speechless. He asked me curiously later:

Is it that when you break up with other exs, you scold them like that? I thought about it at the time, and although I scolded, it wasn't as serious as scolding him. After all, people usually block me directly, and he just listens so blankly, and when I finish scolding, he doesn't make any reply.

If the guy proposes to break up, there is no warning in advance. And the relationship between the two has always been very good. Then this girl won't believe it at all, the breakup proposed by the boy is real.

must think that the other party is joking, and will coquettishly warn her boyfriend that such jokes will not be allowed in the future.

When she found out that the other party was talking about this matter very seriously and believed that it was true, then the girl would immediately show a surprised expression: "Why? Why?

What am I doing wrong? Haven't we been good both of us? Why did you suddenly bring up a breakup?

At this time, they may not know what they are talking about because the breakup was too sudden, or they may keep asking each other why, just want to know the reason for the breakup, and even they are still holding the hope that they have misunderstood. I really hope it's a dream, nothing is real. This sudden blow is not something that anyone can withstand.

So when the boy really doesn't want to continue, don't have no warning, or you snub the other person for a while, so that the other party can be mentally prepared, maybe this will be less of a blow to them.

Is he kidding? Does he really want me anymore? What am I doing wrong? So be it, break up and break up. These are my mental activities the last time my boyfriend broke up with me.

In my experience, most boys will not take the initiative to break up, and generally choose to treat their girlfriends coldly and violently, so that their girlfriends can't bear to mention the breakup, so as not to fall into the title of a "scumbag". Men who can take the initiative to break up are all commendable. Men will think more rationally about the way they think about problems, and if they say that they are breaking up, they must have been carefully considered, after various rational thinking, and after many trade-offs.

And girls will be very emotional when they think about problems, when they hear their boyfriend say to break up, if the woman has already been mentally prepared for this, her boyfriend will mention breaking up, she will be very rational and calmly say Okay, so be it. And if my boyfriend mentions breaking up without warning, it will be the same as my reaction at the beginning, first I don't believe it, we love each other so much, you are kidding. And then it's sad, do you really want me?

Is there no room for it? Then I started to get angry, what the hell did I do wrong, why did you break up with me! The last is to calm down, these processes may take a day or a week, after all, not every girl can quickly adjust their psychology.

When a boy mentions breaking up, I think the girl's first reaction should be shock! I was wondering if he was joking, or if it was boring to tell him to stop making trouble.

But when the guy is sure that he wants to break up, the girl will think, how can you? It's okay to do this to me, what's wrong with me? What's wrong with me?

Or you can't break up, you must make it clear, do you have another woman, do you don't love me anymore? Are you in love with someone else? Saying who he is, finding him out, we have to confront him face to face, and I think this is how we usually react.

This reaction is relatively normal, but, after a few days, the girl may think, well, am I not good, and then is it too him? Is it that I did something wrong, so let him start hating me, and then maybe he will go to the guy and say, well, I can change you not to leave me, or do you really not love me? Or have you ever loved me?

But if it were me, as long as the boy proposed to break up, I might not ask anything and just say that I would break up, because since he had already proposed it, it meant that there was no more thought.

My boyfriend proposed to break up, and my first reaction was that I couldn't stand it. I would have thought in my heart: Why are you breaking up with me, what did I do wrong?

I haven't even said to break up, and you actually told me to break up, impossible. I don't just think it in my heart, and I do. I'll be very impulsive, very domineering, I can't say for sure.

In the relationship, I am generally stronger, and my boyfriend listens to me more, and if he doesn't listen to me one day or another, I'll be a little crazy. Of course, we have been separated and reconciled many times, and each time I said that he would coax me to reconcile or I would make peace myself. I am a person who wants to save face, and I can't see others reject me.

But one time my boyfriend's temper that he had been building up for a long time finally exploded, and it was really the first time that he said something like breaking up to me. For a moment I felt as if I had heard some joke, but for a moment I lost my bearings again, and I shouted at him: What qualifications do you have to break up with me, I don't agree, can you separate?

I did everything I could to hurt myself to get his attention, and I knew he still cared about me and wouldn't let me go, which is ridiculous to think about now. For that one, a little bit of the only remaining self-esteem.

In fact, I also knew later that I was wrong, and everyone has dignity. Lovers also need to respect each other, I respect him, he will respect me. After the only time I broke up with me, I slowly changed myself, not to be so strong and not so domineering.

Cherish it when love comes, and say goodbye when love leaves, so as not to lose both. In love, we all have to learn to respect everyone's choices. Tricks and petty tricks simply can't keep a person.

A boy is so tolerant, tolerant of all your little faults, and so dotes on you, why would he say such a thing as breaking up? It's because he doesn't see your love for him in you anymore, and he's disappointed. Cherish the people in front of you, and don't wait until you lose them to get crazy and regret it.

Since I changed myself, he hasn't brought up the breakup.

All girls love face, even if the boy is reluctant to fall in love, he is not willing to let them propose to break up, most girls start to cry as soon as the boy says to break up, I don't know if the girl is crying to save him or to win the boy's sympathy? <>

When I was studying secondary school, many classmates fell in love, my best friend Honghong was also one of them, the boy was black and ugly, really not good-looking, the boy chased her, at first Honghong didn't want to think he was not good-looking, and then he chased after my classmates felt that he was good at studying professionally, and his temper was good, so he agreed, they were very happy during the time of dating, sometimes I became a light bulb, and then the year I was about to graduate, the boy suddenly proposed to break up, Said that the family introduced him to another one, I and Honghong guessed that it might be that the girl's family power could help the boy start a business, so he proposed to break up, Honghong burst into tears, he persuaded Honghong Hongli to ignore him and pull me back to the dormitory, the sadness that cried in the dormitory, I looked distressed, and then no matter how the boy explained Honghong ignored him.

Girls and girls are not the same, when a boy proposes to break up, some girls' first reaction is to slap him, and then walk away and never shed a tear, this is a strong girl; Some girls just cry, make trouble, and hang themselves, which is what I call Honghong, this is the case, no matter how you cry or make trouble, as long as they choose, they will not turn back and use these stupid methods to change their hearts.

When a boy proposes to break up, no matter what kind of reaction you have, we should pretend not to care about them, be strong and let ourselves find a boy who is better and a hundred times stronger than him, so that they can see that we girls are still better off without them.

I broke up with my ex, and our relationship at that time became completely different from before, and I even had a hunch that this relationship would not go far, but I still stuck to it stupidly.

When he broke up with me, he was a bit of a joke at the time, I didn't believe it at first, and the first feeling was that he was joking with me again.

His later actions made me slowly sober up, you know, girls will be very willful to say that they break up, and they like to talk about breakups when they have nothing to do, I have said it many times before, but most of them are just to get his attention.

The boy is completely different, as long as he tells you to break up, it is the rhythm of the ironclad breakup, irretrievable, and even your forced retention will only cause him to resent it.

It was time for dinner, and he said let's go eat, and I said the last lunch, and he said yes, let you kill me last.

Usually eating together is only at the level of ramen rice noodles, and actually said that I slaughtered him? I really wanted to throw that money in his face and walk away.

After experiencing it, I found that a woman's sixth sense is still very accurate, and your hunch, especially your feelings, are generally very accurate.

The girl's first reaction was surprise and disbelief, because the boy's breakup was too sudden to accept for a while.

The first reaction of girls should be disbelievable, because girls are generally more careful, so they can't stand it when they encounter such things.

The girl's first reaction is of course to be particularly surprised, because the relationship between the two people is usually very good, so breaking up like this will surprise the girl.

Generally, when a boy mentions breaking up, the girl's first reaction is that he likes someone else and doesn't like me, so he will break up with me, instead of finding reasons for himself, without considering whether there is a conflict between the two.

The girl's first reaction is why, when encountering such a situation, the girl will be very angry, and will also find a way to keep it.

I was very surprised, the two of them got along so well, why did he propose to break up, it was because he didn't do a good job.

The first reaction must be very surprised, because the girl never thought that the boy would take the initiative to break up with her, and she would be very sad in her heart.

The girl's first reaction is generally surprise, because the girl doesn't understand why the person she loves makes such a request, and then she will be very sad.

The girl's first reaction is to be surprised, because in a relationship, the boy rarely mentions breaking up, and the boy proposes to break up, and the girl will feel very shameless.

The first feeling of a girl will be particularly shocked, and then she will be angry, aggrieved, and very sad.

The girl's first reaction must be very sad, and it is also very confused, wanting to ask the boy why he broke up with him.

The boy still loves you in his heart. Then his first reaction was that the DAO had been denied, abandoned, dumped, and rejected by the person he liked. The mindset will be chaotic, the self-esteem will collapse, the brain will go blank, the emotions will be filled with great loss, and it will take a while to calm your heart and make coping strategies.

Answer First of all, if a man agrees to you quickly, it means that he doesn't love you and doesn't have you in his heart, if he loves someone, he will not only be good to you, but also unwilling to part with you, even if you mention breaking up, he will be sad, and he will keep you.