Will bear children grow up to realize that they are bears?

It depends on whether the bear child has received a correct education in the growth of the future, whether there is such a person who points out his own wrongness, and tells him what is right, and gives the bear child a good education. If he was originally very bearish, but later someone established a correct values, outlook on life and worldview for him, or this child has a high level of understanding, and finds that what he is doing is wrong in contact with others, and he is willing to correct it. In this way, the bear child will definitely be aware of his bear when he grows up.

If this bear child has not taught him and established a more correct three views for him, then even if the child grows up, then he will not realize that his bear is right, and it is right to do it himself in his world, and if his parents are also bear parents or over-spoiled this child, then after he makes a mistake, his parents just blindly tolerate him, which will make him feel that he will not be good even if he does something wrong, then he is a bear child when he is a child, and he is a bear adult when he grows up. When you have a child, you become a bear parent, how can a person who has grown from a head bear to a big one realize that he is a bear? He took the "bear" thing for granted.

My uncle has a son, my uncle and aunt are away all the year round, and they can't take care of my nephew, so they throw the child to my grandmother, because in the rural family is more spoiled by boys, so my nephew is used to lawlessness, not even a little polite, my uncle also knows, he has taught him a few times, but he is away all the year round, even if the lesson is not very useful, and there is my grandmother by the side has been maintaining him, so it is not of much use.

When I was a child, he was very bearish, I went to my grandmother's house and he grabbed my hair, damaged my things, I wanted to get angry, but my grandma was eccentric, every time he maintained him, and then I slowly went to my grandma's house less and less, and later I went to my grandma's house for the Chinese New Year, and when the food came up, the other elders had not yet served it, so he started eating, and also picked vegetables, specifically picked a dish that he liked to eat, and really looked at it at that time No appetite was gone, by the way, he was already in junior high school at that timeIt is said that I have been beaten several times at school, and it is not very serious, although I hate school violence but I think he should be beaten.

He was almost fifteen years old, but he still couldn't realize his bear, he was really tired, and he was still searching for his nephew, and he still hoped that he could change his bear.

There is also a little cousin of my friend, who is also a bear, since he was beaten up when he was a bear in front of my friend, and my friend did not take him and teach him some things, his bear has obviously changed, yes he is thirteen years old this year, once when he played with him, he said seriously: It was really a bear before, I want to change my face from now on, and be a new person, although it sounded funny at the time, but I have to say that this is very good, and I also teach the bear child the correct three views, It really makes them aware of their bears and changes them.

I don't think a bear kid will ever know how much a bear he is.

Because since he was a child, his parents never told him that you are a bear like this, and then even if he is beaten in society, he will think that it is someone else's fault. It's definitely not because he's not good, this kind of kid doesn't know that he has something wrong at all!

I was on the bus yesterday when I met a bear child. This boy is in the second grade of elementary school. As soon as you get in the car, you can hear his loud voice with a broken horn, and then after sitting in the seat, he began to take off his shoes, his feet smell or not, and you put your feet on the armrests, this is your fault, have you ever thought that this is a public place, everyone has to help it!

Then the bear child sat next to me, and opened his mobile phone and played ** loudly, just that kind of ghost animal. His grandmother told him to be quiet, as if he hadn't heard it, and then he called back and forth, touching me countless times, and I couldn't bear to tell his grandma, your child is too uneducated. But I started glaring at the bear child, and my face stinked.

Then he noticed that I was glaring at him and began to restrain himself. But continue to bear others, not knowing that they are very annoying.

I finally got out of the car, and my eldest brother began to pick up **, and his classmate called, saying that there was no Internet at home and he wanted to go to his house to do his homework. Since the beginning of the **, he has fried the pot, his voice is loud, and every time he speaks, he scares the little brother next to him, and then the little brother keeps glaring at his grandmother, and his grandmother doesn't say anything about him. Then he was about to get off the train and stood at the door still talking very loudly, the whole car looked at him, he didn't notice it, and his grandmother didn't either, I thought at the time, my grandson will be like this in the future, I slapped him to death The reason why they bear is because they don't feel bored!

Yes. When children recall the past when they become adults, they will have a judgment on things, and although they don't express their naughtiness, they must be clear in their hearts.

When the child grows up, he will also realize that he is a bear child, but he does not express it in his heart.

As the saying goes, "the son is not the fault of the father," many times, behind a bear child there is a more bear parent.

As a parent, when you see your child's inappropriate behavior, you should stop it immediately, rather than indulging your child's mistakes, and only when parents use the kindness and morality of words and deeds to discipline the barbarism in the child's heart, can we dissolve the child's "bear." "We also need to deal with each child of different ages.

1. 0 2 years old: Children in this period often make mistakes, and we have long been used to it, because they do not realize the difference between right and wrong, and they are indeed in a situation where right and wrong are not distinguished. At this time, we need to guide the child's development correctly, and we cannot punish the child at will.

Long-term blaming of children is easy to affect the normal psychological development of children, and when children make mistakes at this stage, we just need to tell children what is right and what is wrong comma, which is enough.

2. 2 5 years old: Children at this age have also begun to establish a correct concept of right and wrong, when facing children doing wrong things, we only need to point out the child's mistakes, and it is enough to correct the mistakes, and still do not blame the children. If we blame the child, the child at this age is in the period of the first rebellion, and we blame the child will only increase the child's rebellious mentality, and will make the child work against us.

For example, if we ask your child not to play indoors, your child may deliberately play indoors when you are not at home.

3. 5 12 years old: When children reach the age of 5, they are able to recognize their mistakes and understand what they can and cannot do. Belong, if they make mistakes at this age, it means that they are knowingly making mistakes, so when children make mistakes, it is best not to blame children, but let children learn to take responsibility for their own mistakes after they make mistakes, which is what children need to do after the age of 5, and it is necessary for children to bear mistakes alone.

1. Some parents regard their children as their own treasures after the birth of their children, and they can't wait to hold all the good things in the world in front of their children, and they can't see their children being wronged at all. This leads to children growing up in the doting of their parents, not knowing how to distinguish between right and wrong, and judging the right and wrong of their own behavior. Because in the eyes of his parents, no matter what his children do, they are right.

Even if it's wrong, that's right.

2. Young parents have their own things, so they may not have as much time and energy to spend on their children. Some parents don't see or contact their children at all, and some parents know that their children's behaviors are wrong, but they also "don't have time" to discipline, resulting in their children gradually letting go of themselves.

3. The child has never been bored or lonely, the child's imitation ability is very strong, and he prefers to "fool around" with his older brothers and sisters, usually play with other children a lot, get along for a long time, and slowly become infected with some bad habits.

There is a kind of child called "bear child", this kind of child is often a headache for parents, and some practices make parents overwhelmed.

"Bear child" originally refers to a child who can be naughty and mischievous, do things unconventionally, but are kind by nature. But in recent years, "bear child" has become a derogatory term for those obnoxious children who are reckless and irritable and stubborn. Their personalities are roughly between four or five years old and thirteen or fourteen years old, and they are extremely destructive, and many parents have nothing to do.

Some parents have to scold their children loudly to calm them down, and impatient parents even let their children stop messing around by beating and scolding their children, but in fact, this only solves the superficial problem for a while. In the days that follow, the child will be even more unable to recognize his mistakes, and will become worse on the basis of what he has done wrong, and there may be an insurmountable gap in the relationship between parents and children.

Although "bear children" are difficult to deal with, we can change them and not try to make them "obedient" in the wrong way of education, which may also make them more irritable and outrageous. More troubles. So let's first understand the reason.

At the beginning of this year, the Supreme Court's guiding opinions on several issues in civil cases mentioned the restriction on minors' live broadcast tips. In the wide application of mobile phones and mobile payments, it is not uncommon for minors to recharge their live broadcast tips, and how many children use all the savings of the family to charge their heads, reward anchors, or recharge games. And this kind of children range in age from a few years old to a teenager, you say that they really don't know the family's savings, and it's impossible, they almost all know the situation at home, and secretly memorize their parents after remembering the payment password, and don't know how to consume modestly.

But parents in these incidents still have to reflect on the fact that the appearance of "bear children" is actually the reason for "bear parents". Being busy with the care of their children can only make them find security elsewhere, and in their cognition, they can find a place of happiness, ** strangers rather than their closest parents. The parents of these children beat and scolded them whenever they did something wrong, and cried everywhere in the name of "children are not sensible".

In fact, the people who caused this result to happen were none other than themselves. Therefore, parents should sometimes reflect on whether it is their own reason for their children to become "bears".

Education listens to me

The so-called "bear" children I am talking about here refer to those primary and secondary school students who dare to beat and scold their guardians (parents or elders, such as grandfathers and grandmothers) on the Internet or in real life, and lose their temper when they are not satisfied, beating and scolding their classmates and teachers.

These "bear" children, although they are a very small part, do exist, and no matter which class or teacher encounters such students, it is very unlucky. Because, generally behind such a "bear" child, there must be more than one "bear" elder. They will give the "bear" children a fear, making such students unmanageable, and directly affecting the management of the whole class.

Speaking of which, it can be said for sure that the "bear" child is generally caused by parents in their first rebellious period of infants and young children, without good supervision, when the infant period (two or three years old), the child is small, but already has his own cognition and needs, his (her) temper character is gradually formed at this time, when he (she) expresses his (her) appeal in daily life, the attitude and related behavior of parents will imperceptibly achieve him (her), in the face of small infants and young children, Unreasonable demands (needs), if not stopped, are very easy to be satisfied, and it will make children have a deep impression that all my demands are correct, and if you do not satisfy me, it is your fault, and you have made a big mistake. Secondly, for the behavior of losing my temper without being satisfied, and even hitting the elders, I did not strictly stop it, or even crack down, so that the child thought that what he was doing was right, and the rules were established, that is, if I did not meet my demands, I scolded, and even beaten, so a "bear" child was successfully born.

Some guardians, think that the child is small, think that "the tree is naturally straight", the actual situation is not like this, as mentioned earlier, infants and young children have their own cognition at the age of two or three, from their own physiological growth needs, there are their own reasonable and unreasonable stupid demands, at this time, it is the critical period for him (she) to set rules for parents (guardians) (of course, it is also a critical period for guardians to set rules for children), at this time, guardians must adhere to the bottom line (principles), reasonable demands must be satisfied, It is not in line with the demands of the state file, and it is strictly stopped, no matter how much you cry. If a child of two or three years old hits someone, the first time he shoots a beating, he must be severely stopped, and he can be beaten back. Only in this way can the guardian set a rule for the child to grow up healthily, so that the child can grow into a good child with good behavior and habits.