Since high school, he seems to have had a serious mental illness and has no interest in anything

I feel that you must be a very special person with your own unique way of thinking, I don't like to go with the flow, I like to be a maverick, but I am very low-key and don't like to be in the limelight, I feel that everything else is boring, I think you should cultivate some interests, such as art, musical instruments, painting, which can better set off your temperament, and will attract more attention and recognition from others, you can also participate in some sports activities, you can strengthen your body, through your words, it seems to see that you are not a strong person, proper exercise can cultivate a sunny mood And sports activities have more opportunities to contact others, of course, if you are in school, grades are more important, because in school often look at grades and not people, good grades even if the behavior is out of line, bad grades are not good, no matter how good the character is, it is in vain.

This is because you have not found your goal in life, so you should calm down and ask yourself what you want, maybe your desire will be blocked, but you must be firm in your heart, and you can consult a professional psychologist when necessary.

It is recommended to read the book "Meet the Unknown Self" will give you a good answer, please believe me, thank you.

The spiritual needs you are pursuing are not even certain if they exist or not. You keep the world out of your reach. All you need is to calm down and hide some of your emotions without accommodating others.

Maybe a simple moment of scenery will make you feel at ease.

The problem of stress, not mental illness, relaxing, smiling, having confidence in each day, loving life.

Try to learn something seriously, I'm interested in learning guitar. Why don't you come and learn, we will interact. I'm 16 years old... Or go and love for once. It's about falling in love.

It's good to be serious about falling in love.

You can take a look at the psychiatrist, is it depression, this must be detected early**, dear, I hope you get better soon Or that your life is too smooth and lacks tests, if you have to earn your own food money every day, then you don't have the time and energy to do these meaningless things, you need to change a circle of friends. Dear, your family conditions seem to be very good, try to make money on your own, set up a stall or something, it's very interesting.

In this way, it is easier to get closer to nature, to get closer to itself. It's a good thing, right. I wanted to be still, but I couldn't. Thinking about Huineng's sentence, it makes sense.

best whishes! jason

Laugh when you're happy, laugh when you're unhappy, laugh after a while, this sentence works for me, Now, I'm sharing it with you. Life is short, so be happy.

Work without you? Earn money, support your family, and honor your parents. Don't think about anything else.

Go to the "suicide store" and after reading it, you will understand the true meaning of life.

You are a person with lofty ambitions, high self-requirements, and the constant pursuit of perfection, at the same time, it is precisely because of this, you are also prone to become a "compulsive" high incidence of people, in such a grotesque relationship, I believe it is not difficult for you to find that there is no absolutely correct or absolutely perfect standard in the world, any excessive or less than will produce reverse results, so the harmony between yourself, with others, and the environment, seems to be mediocre, but in fact it is a relatively suitable choice of great wisdom under the macro system (such as: the pursuit of environmental protection).

The above points belong to the obsessive-compulsive behavior characteristics of "obsessive-compulsive disorder", and in the current state, it is only a mild obsessive-compulsive symptom, and it is nothing.

The first point is more common and easy to solve, and if this can be solved first, then it will be easier to break through.

Suggestions: 1. Before implementing this behavior, first focus on thinking about it, which will continue to strengthen the obsessive-compulsive symptoms, and the cost of "obsessive-compulsive disorder" is very great! Say it out loud in your heart (when you're alone), "I don't want it!" Instead of doing that, focus on something more meaningful! I can't die anyway!

2. Next, say to yourself: It is not easy for anyone to change a habit, but if it is a bad habit that makes it extremely painful, it is still necessary to adjust, any habit is the result of boring repetition, I have the ability to repeat a bad habit boringly, I must have the ability to abandon it! If this powerful ability is put to good use, it will definitely help me achieve my ambitions in the future!

So now, all I have to do is change!

3. Action -- Run quickly through the section of the road that will trigger this behavior, even if you insist on running the whole way.

4. At the same time, he said to himself: "The heavens will descend on the Si people, and they must ...... first."Full text).

5. Although it is uncomfortable, no threat will occur because of this, and this is true for anyone, of course, the stage of changing habits will face some discomfort;

6. Next, thank yourself and say: Thank you, my friend, I am willing to accept you, and I am willing to work with you to achieve our common goal!

7. Record the number of times you change your behavior every day, and seek greater goals after achieving phased results.

Hello, you have symptoms of compulsive exhaustion, which may be caused by the environment in daily life and your own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition. If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is advisable to consult a psychologist in person.

You've realized the dangers of playing with computers and being obsessed with the internet, wake up in time, and that's good! As a sophomore in high school, you still have a year to go, so if you take advantage of the time, you will definitely have a bright future!

The top priority is scientific learning methods and effective learning management. I think you can use a scientific learning method to preview before a new lesson, review before homework, and a scientific time plan.

Preview the three main points: reading, writing, and practice. Reading is to read through the textbook, and writing is to copy down the key points and difficulties that you feel, so that the teacher can listen carefully to the class the next day, and listen to the class effectively.

Practice is to practice the content of the preview on the basis of reading and writing. This sets the stage for the next day's study. There are also three points to grasp in review:

Think, check, tell. To think is to recall, recall what the teacher said in class, and consult the textbook in time if you don't remember; To tell is to retell, that is, to retell what has been learned. This also plays a role in improving the ability to generalize and express.

Be sure to write down the homework time when you do your homework, which is conducive to grasping the time of each homework, enhancing the concept of time, and winning more time for the college entrance examination in a year. Keep these points in mind and do it seriously, just stick to it for three months, your grades can have a significant improvement, if you can persist for a year, I believe you will be able to have a fruitful golden autumn!

This requires tenacious self-control and perseverance, and you don't need to help a psychiatrist, because you knowingly commit it, and it is not a mental pathology.

1. Born of adversity; Die in peace. It doesn't have to be this way. I don't know how your academic performance is, but if it's okay, this situation is more normal; I didn't see any obvious or specific problems.

For example, psychological discomfort, such as anxiety, depression, restlessness, fear, fear, and so on. Next, ask yourself whether you really don't feel pressure, or if you have lost yourself because of inertia, and have broken jars and broken thoughts, which cover up your true inner thoughts and needs; This is the fundamental question. Because self-motivation is the driving force to move forward; It is the cornerstone of learning and growth; It is the ladder to success.

There is no motivation without pressure, and it is necessary to maintain a certain amount of pressure, because it is of great significance to face the entrance examination. However, excessive psychological pressure is a stumbling block to life growth, which will make people collapse; Many people are stuck in the quagmire of stress.

2. Plain and bland, going with the flow is true. Look for breakthroughs and look at the strengths of others; Learn from other people's learning methods and learn from others' strengths to make up for your own shortcomings. Strive to improve your academic performance.

If you say that you don't feel the pressure of taking exams, it doesn't necessarily mean that you don't want to be admitted to a better university. Maybe you can grow better and learn more smoothly without too much pressure; Compared to those who are nervous and blindly die-dead, it is an advantage. At the same time, it will be of greater benefit to the future adaptation to society. On the other hand, you mentioned distraction, which is not conducive to learning, and it is necessary to analyze the deep causes, look for the results and solve the problems from the causes; Don't let distractions get in the way of your studies.

Hello, I was also very stressed in my third year of high school, but whenever I want to slack off, I yearn for a good college life, give myself encouragement, and you can tell me if you have any questions or things in your heart.

You can try something you can't do on your own, put a little pressure on yourself, and make yourself nervous.

Then think more about what you did when you were good at studying, such as doing homework on time, reading extracurricular books, playing ball, etc., or just getting a good night's sleep... In this way, you will become more and more able to control yourself and find your old self. Either you set your ultimate goal, what you should do to achieve your goal, how you do it, etc., and take action to get better. This psychological trait of yours is very common now, don't worry.

Make learning a way of life.

In fact, the most important thing if you want to study hard is interest, for example, a problem is difficult, and you solve it for a long time before you solve it, then you are very excited and satisfied, and often in this state, you will be addicted and will naturally want to learn.

You are an introverted and stylized person, everything has to be done according to the rules, and if you don't follow the rules, you will feel uncomfortable in your heart, and you are easily affected by the external environment, for example, you are prescribed to study from 1 to 6 weeks and rest on Sundays, then you can't learn even if you study on Sundays, and you are upset. To put it bluntly, EQ is a little lower (no offense).

I've been like that before, so I kind of understand your state of mind. For example, when I used to walk at home, I would walk in a grid according to the lattice of the floor tiles in my house. It's stipulated that I study at 8 o'clock, even if it's 7:59, I won't study until 7:59, I have to study at 8 o'clock, of course, that's not the case now.

Usually communicate with people more, try to break this formula, change a little bit, and divert your attention more, for example, you set a rule for 8 o'clock to study, and now it is 7:55, you should shift your attention to study, not time.

You're obsessive-compulsive. Now that I have realized that I can adjust myself, it is very expensive to find a psychiatrist.

Don't be afraid of anyone or anything, because ** is also a person, something must be done by someone, let go of your mind and boldly communicate with those cheerful classmates, take the initiative to answer the teacher's questions and communicate with the teacher, not afraid of being laughed at, etc., come on, I believe you can do it.

It doesn't matter, in fact, many people have felt similar to you, but to a different degree. There may be personal reasons for this, or it may be overly influenced by the surrounding environment. No matter what, as long as you guide and adjust in time, and believe in yourself, you will definitely be able to come out.

First of all, don't think too much, because thinking too much will add unnecessary stress to you. Because when you're in an unhappy state, your mood is fully visible on your face. Everyone can feel it.

And once you come out of this state, it's like you want to be happy after the rain, the sun is shining, the sky is blue and the clouds are white, and the people around you will be happy with you.

First of all, what time are you in high school now? How much of your weekly self-directed time is spent studying? Outside of studying, how much time do you have at your disposal?

It is recommended that you communicate more with your parents and teachers. It's really not good to be too introverted. Maybe others don't hate you, but your personality will give others the impression that they like to be quiet and don't like to be lively. If there's nothing wrong with them, it's best not to bother you.

The sense of presence in the class can be brushed, such as high scores in exams, special skills in sports, and helping others. Why don't you dare to go out when people tell you to? Is it unwilling? You can check out Carnegie's book The Weakness of Human Nature.

You are very strong, but you have low self-esteem. What makes you feel inferior? Can it be changed? No, then you have to come out of the shadows, after all, some people are more talented than ordinary people. It's never possible to always compare yourself to others.

It's human nature to work hard to encourage yourself to be sure that you will succeed, unless you are so ambitious, talking wildly, and delusional about reaching the sky in one step, how can others hate you because of this?

It really doesn't work, so I recommend that you see a psychologist and don't pile up more and more questions.

Always take the first step. Insist on not looking into their eyes. A lot of the time, it's actually my own thoughts. Take the initiative to integrate into their circle, give a little more, don't be afraid, and participate in more activities to enrich your life.

After reading your article, I feel that you are very messed up right now.

Incomplete understanding of oneself, or even underestimating oneself: always hinting at oneself with negative psychology, suppressing oneself: perhaps encountering some setbacks and finding it difficult to extricate oneself.

Not being able to accept oneself is a common psychological state in adolescence, and it is also a normal psychological process that can be changed through training.

1.You should evaluate yourself correctly, know yourself, and improve your self-confidence. Communicate with friends and family and get to know yourself in life.

2.Look for the causes of your negativity and change yourself positively. For example, if you are poor in a certain subject, ask for more advice, practice more, and improve your grades, you will naturally regain some self-confidence.

3.Accept yourself and tolerate others, and you will become more mature and attractive!

Not bad, I hope you adopt it.