Why patriarchy and what is patriarchy?

Why do people nowadays still have the same old concept of preference for sons?

I often wonder: why do people still do this when society advocates not giving preference to sons? Is it because in the story of 'The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl', when the Cowherd chases the Weaver Girl, he puts the man in front and the girl in the back? ”

But there are some women, who can't stand the contempt of worldly ideas and give up on themselves, who sympathize with them and hate them for being too uncompetitive, and I think: why are they weak, why don't they fight against the old ideas of tradition? However, many female babies are born with parents who dislike them and want to abandon them, can this blame the babies for being weak?

Of course, there are many women who have achieved success under such pressure, and I admire them.

We call on the world to eradicate the old idea of preference for sons as soon as possible... Embark on a civilized society.

The ancients were light merchants. 1.At that time, it was an agrarian society, and light commerce was a political necessity.2

Patriarchy is due to the fact that society transitions from a matrilineal society to a patriarchal society, and in this transition, the people see the shortcomings of women in production, and there are many places where they are inferior to men in that environment, so there is a patriarchal tradition from then on.

Women are not angry.

I'm a woman, and my family is also patriarchal, I was born like this, but I didn't admit defeat since I was a child, I lived very hard, and I was smarter than many boys who had backbone and ambition, so my parents began to like me and like my brother more. So everything in this world is yours. Nothing is impossible to change.

That's a thing of the past.

I used to think that my daughter was going to get married.

But now that I'm married, I'm living alone as a husband and wife.

And in the past, technology was not developed.

You can only rely on physical strength, and men are more important.

Stamina is not so important now.

So men and women are equal.

Patriarchal lunatics should be shot!!

Dizzy! is still patriarchal, my family is patriarchal! I really hate that I was born with the wrong 555, alas! ~~

Hum! Patriarchs are sick!

Good thing I haven't encountered it.

Patriarchal means valuing men and devaluing women. Refers to the feudal ideology that despises women. From "Lin Hai Snow Field".

Twenty: "Said Bai Ru."

A shy and happy pout, what a yellow-haired girl, patriarchal thinking. ”

Patriarchal preference is a concept of inequality between men and women in society, which values the rights and interests of men while defining women as subordinate to men and restricting their opportunities to develop their personal talents and personal freedom. This notion is common in patriarchy.

Society, often accompanied by the idea of male superiority and gender division of labor, emerges. The concept of preference for sons over daughters can also affect parents' willingness to have boys and girls, for example, in ancient Chinese divination, it was regarded as a blessing to have a boy and a girl to be unhappy.

Patriarchal preference is a social perception of inequality between men and women, valuing men's rights while defining women as subordinate to men and limiting their opportunities to develop their individual talents. On the other hand, women are also seen as weaker and therefore have less responsibility than men in certain areas. This concept is common in patriarchal societies and is often accompanied by ideas of male superiority and gender division of labour.

Patriarchal attitudes can also influence parents' willingness to have boys and girls.

Hope it helps!

Patriarchal, to put it simply, literally, is to value boys, despise girls, such people often have old feudal ideas, always feel that boys are useful, they are making money to support the family, even if girls also make money, people will not think you are very powerful, only think that you are not responsible, feel that girls should be at home, take care of the family, take care of children and husbands, so far, this idea is completely wrong, can no longer use the old eyes to see the people of the new era.

Patriarchy means that we value boys and don't pay attention to girls, thinking that boys are the support of a family, and girls are just spilled water, and they can't count on anything after getting married.

Under normal circumstances, older people want to give birth, a man is afraid of giving birth to a boy, and a boy wants to support the elderly, and the concept of caring for the elderly is a girl, which is the water that is spilled out. That's why the second child is patriarchal.

For patriarchy, it is the feudal ideas of the past. A family that only wants to raise a son and doesn't like a daughter.

Valuing men and despising women. Refers to the feudal ideology that despises women.

Give all the good things to the boys and not to the girls.

My parents are a little patriarchal, especially my father, who likes boys and doesn't like daughters, which actually has some bad effects on me, but after all, it's my parents, and I can't get angry and quarrel with them, so I choose to be patient.

In fact, the harm of patriarchy to children!

Danger to girls.

In some families with a deep patriarchal concept, when a daughter is born, the father is so angry that he can't even eat. Even if the level is average, it is often thought that girls need to read too much when they grow up to get married. Therefore, regardless of the children's ability and wishes, they asked their daughters to drop out of school and work to earn money for their brother to study, even if the daughter's grades were good and the son had no intention of studying, these parents did the same.

Usually there are different treatments for sons and daughters, for example: some delicious and fun things are given priority to sons, but daughters are asked to do more housework. In extreme cases, even the son is regarded as a treasure and a little emperor at home, and the daughter is regarded as a slave and is often beaten and scolded.

Danger to boys.

Patriarchal, when there are daughters and sons in the family, daughters will be treated in every way, but the son is very doting, resulting in the son can be lawless at home, no matter what he does wrong, he will not be scolded, and his parents will give what he wants, so that he will completely rely on his parents, so that he has long had a bad character, and has lived a life of clothes to reach out and eat to open his mouth since he was a child, and you can imagine what kind of person he will become when he grows up.

The imbalance between men and women creates obstacles to population regeneration, further leading to future population shrinkage. At present, many cities in China have entered an "aging society", and the proportion of old, middle-aged and young population is out of balance. If there is a further shrinkage of the population in the future, it will have an impact on production, exchange, distribution, consumption and other links.

All efforts are made to create a better future where people can enjoy life to the fullest. But how will a society without people continue? Here is an appeal to all parents should treat their daughters and sons equally, boys and daughters are the same, daughters are also heirlooms, as long as the children are healthy, can provide for the elderly to the end, that is the most important thing.

Patriarchal preference is a social concept of inequality between men and women, which values the rights and interests of men at the expense of men and defines women as subordinate to men, and restricts their opportunities to develop their personal talents and personal freedom.

This concept is common in patriarchal societies and is often accompanied by the idea of male superiority and inferiority and the division of labor between genders. The concept of preference for sons over daughters can also affect the parents' willingness to have boys and girls, for example, in ancient Chinese divination, it was regarded as a good thing to have a boy and not a good girl.

Some languages also exhibit patriarchal thinking. For example, in Chinese, "women's opinion" refers to the opinion of people who have no knowledge, and "women's benevolence" refers to benevolence regardless of the overall situation, which contains the meaning of despising women's intelligence.

I am now more and more patriarchal, and I have gradually realized that a country, nation, and family are nothing without men. Men are the backbone of this rotten world and the New Calendar belt. I didn't have that feeling or perception before.

Men in a country can't do it, and no matter how arrogant a woman is, it won't help. Dig the ruler and slowly experience.

The emergence of the idea of preference for sons over daughters is actually the need for the development of human society at a special stage. The transformation of matrilineal society into a patrilineal society indicates the beginning of patriarchal preference, and now society is also the existence of more patriarchal societies, and the consciousness of patriarchy is still very deep-rooted, although with the development of society, more equality between men and women is advocated, which is a progress.

Also, there is still a moment of "patriarchy" in life.

For example, people who have lived in the countryside know that there are still many customs, such as girls cannot climb the stove, ancestors cannot hold vigils when they leave, and some places stipulate that girls are not allowed to enter. There are also grandmothers and grandparents who will have more grandchildren and less granddaughters when they share the New Year's money. The same goes for the good food and drink.

Sometimes there are guests who come to visit, and when eating, there are many conventions such as boys can serve the table and girls can't, and so on, and at that moment I feel the phenomenon of patriarchy.

Girls must ask for a bride price when they get married, and even ask for a lot of it, saying that the bride price is given to the girl to buy a dowry, but in fact it is given to the girl's family and boys, such as building a house and buying a car. There is a saying: A woman who marries out is the water that is set out, so at this moment, I feel the existence of patriarchal nonsense.

There are still many families who say that they have a boy and a girl, but some people secretly go for gender testing. At that moment, it showed even more patriarchy.

When recruiting, some positions are clearly open to female rotations, but they are forced not to recruit female students. This is also a patriarchal phenomenon.

In fact, there are too many patriarchal phenomena in real life. It is hoped that with the continuous progress of society, the phenomenon of preference for sons over women will be completely changed, so as to truly realize the equality of men and women.