What s the one thing that influences others the most?

After finishing the homework first and then going out to play, when I was young, my mother always let me finish my homework before I could play, and because of the many beatings and scolding, I grew my memory and gradually formed a habit. This habit has always been maintained in the way of work, no matter what, to complete one's work tasks first and then think about other things. <>

I have a sister who went to study in the UK after graduation, and then worked in a foreign company as a white-collar worker after coming back, with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands or even millions. <>

The fact that you will help others pull the curtain should be the most affected, although this is just an ordinary small action, but it will increase a lot of other people's good impression of you, which is also a habit that has been said many times by friends.

When you are very confident in doing something or are very satisfied with the results you have done, you are suddenly damaged by others, and your self-confidence and enthusiasm are instantly gone, which is very sad, and you have no mood to continue to do it, and you are most affected by others.

I was very introverted as a child. My family and classmates said I was fat, and I was upset, but I wasn't fat at the time. After being hit, I began to give up on myself, eating haese all day long, and finally became what they call a fat person.

I think that's one of the things that I've been most influenced by others.

There is a classmate in junior high school, who got married not long after graduation, and then gave birth to a child, and after getting married, the object is not particularly good to her, and the family conditions are not particularly superior, and she is reluctant to eat something expensive when she is pregnant.

There is a friend who likes to take other people's things when he was a child, and when he was a child, he took some relatively insignificant things, and then when he grew up, he began to do some stealing things, and finally was caught, and it can be seen from him that habits should be formed from an early age, and bad habits should be eliminated from an early age.

I received probably the biggest influence on my three-year-old little nephew, the one thing that happened in our ordinary life, sometimes the biggest influence, it doesn't have to be very vigorous, it is probably just a small detail, for example, my little nephew, it is rare that he can only eat chocolate once a week, but when he sees me, he is willing to give me half of it.

I wasn't very influenced by others, but I couldn't leave it either. The one that made me feel more profound was my physics teacher in my third year of high school. It was he who let me know that the teacher can be so ruthless and discipline the gangsters.

The thing that will affect you the most should be your parents who brought you into this world. To taste the rights and wrongs, grievances and grievances in the red dust.

The mood is different, and the things that affect you are also different. There is no biggest decision, sometimes a small thing will affect you for a very long time, sometimes let go, the impact will be reduced a lot, there will be many so-called major impacts in our lives, but that biggest, I think it is only based on personal circumstances, mood.

For most people, college entrance examinations, marriage, employment, entrepreneurship, buying a house, buying a car, and children's life arrangements are all very big things, which will affect life for a long time.

I very much hope that there is no such thing as the biggest event, and if there is, then let it be the biggest event when our eyes are permanently closed, because that is the least indication that we have been brave enough to live until the last moment. Because at least that means I've been trying to let go and haven't been too careful. To live is to be an attitude.

"The cave room spends candle nights, when the gold list is inscribed. "Knowledge changes fate, and diligence creates miracles, so the title of the gold list is a major event that has an impact on life, but compared with the flower candle in the cave room, I personally think that marriage is the thing that has the greatest impact on people. There are 2 3 or even 3 4 times in life that are spent in marriage, and there can be no happiness without a good marriage.

I still remember that a friend said that a good woman affects three generations, when a daughter-in-law should be filial to her in-laws, when a wife should be considerate of her husband, and when a mother should care for her children. If you find a yaksha, then how can you talk about happiness in the house? As the saying goes, family and everything is prosperous, so marriage is the one thing that has the greatest impact on you.

People live to realize their ideals, pursuits, goals, desires, and values. Life is very tiring, very hard, because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad, to cry, because life is like this, no one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

The college entrance examination that should be nine times out of ten unexpectedly failed; There is no foundation and confidence in the art exam that succeeds.

If you don't have an interest, you may not be able to get results even if you have a good foundation, and if you don't have a foundation, you may succeed, and the foundation can only be a necessary condition for success, not a sufficient condition.

Let you be heartfelt, or cry, or painful, or emotional, or heartbroken, or die unforgettable events...

Tranquility will not affect you, but what can affect you is what you care about.

Perhaps a person has to walk a lot of roads and experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation in life before he becomes mature.

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts, nothing is difficult, the most important thing is how you face it.

I don't feel good-looking, why don't you do it, someone always goes against me?

The thing that changed the trajectory of my life and had the biggest impact on my life was that I didn't find a good job after graduation, and now I am still a part-time worker.

The people who influenced me the most were my parents, they were both authentic farmers, they always encouraged me to study, and I was very good and did not disappoint them.

The most influential thing is that everyone in my family is gone, and I am left alone in this world, my father has been taking care of her at home with my mother since 2017 when she was diagnosed with cancer, just when my father's condition deteriorated, my mother walked away due to overwork, walking in front of my father, and it didn't take long for my father to leave, the biggest impact on me is my mother, during my father's recuperation at home, it is not easy for me to make money on Mother's Day!My great parents, all the way.

18 years, graduation, looking for a job, wandering in Beijing, at this age we want to have, but silently endure, the most ridiculous thing is that a person listening to the song, standing on the streets of Beijing, pedestrians and vehicles, they seem to know where they should go next, and themselves, frozen in the origin, ask themselves: "Where should I go", I want to one day, can be on the streets of Beijing, will suddenly see her in the distance, appear in front of me. ‍‍

There are countless things and people who have been affected in people's lives, and most of them insist on their hearts, full of confidence or self-righteousness. Unless there is a major change, like me, I will lose the rest of my life for my family, owe money, pay favors, and bear interest. In order to give birth to a second child, a year has passed, and the knife is still bleeding pus, so I have to put down the official position of the president, and let go of the care of the two treasures to continue my life first.

There are still many helpless things that force people to change the trajectory of their lives, but they still have to move forward without regrets!

After graduating, I always thought I was still a student, but when this moment really came, it was only a moment. I had to force myself to change roles to adapt, and I think that transition is something that everybody has experienced. Everyone's growth is a kind of chaotic pain, and slowly we have learned to accept it!

I've been learning one thing. Just don't look back, only regret what you haven't done, and don't regret what you've done. Every step of life comes at a cost.

I got something I wanted and lost what I didn't want to lose. But who is not the case with all living beings in this world?

Just after the Chinese New Year, I was still stunned, staying at home, not knowing what to do, doing nothing all day, and I was very distressed at that time. So I found a job on my own, and then I met a friend I used to work with. Luckily, I worked with them for a while, and during this time, I learned a lot, I also grew, and I was not as impulsive as before.

Thank you very much to them. If I still have the opportunity, I will definitely choose to work with them.

Before college, I was a good girl, studying hard and striving for the college entrance examination. Xu has been oppressed for too long, and after being admitted to university, I completely let go of myself. Chat with classmates in class, and watch various TV series after class.

**I will think of going to self-study and studying academics. However, since I met him, I realized that college can be spent like this. I accompanied him to myself during the day, he read the materials for the graduate school entrance examination, and I fought for the sixth level.

During that time, I saw what a university had never seen before. It was a different scene, I saw that in the shade of the trees in winter, there were classmates reciting knowledge points at six o'clock; I saw the full smiling faces that jumped into the self-study classroom after class, carrying books; I saw the tooth cups and jars, bed sheets and bedding in the self-study classroom, and it turned out that so many people were in the classroom all night. At that moment, I realized that this is what a university should look like.

University should be a place to learn! ‍‍

My mother was a good teacher and leader for me, who was benevolent, benevolent, kind, simple, and ingenious. My beloved mother, who was strong, optimistic, kind, generous, and loved life all her life, was a good example for me to follow. Remembering my mother, giving me life, giving me the courage and strength to be strong in the face of life and various circumstances.

I will always miss my mother, and a thousand words will remain in my heart and turn into my actions. Therefore, I made up my mind to quit smoking, turn grief into strength, teach with action, be strict with myself, and change my mind.

One of the things that had the biggest impact on me growing up was when I was four or five years old. Growing up, my parents often got into arguments over trivial matters.

The younger sister changed the avatar of Tang Seng Xitian to learn scriptures, soared all the way, and was admitted to the doctor of Northeast Normal University, and she was very young. During this time, she was very self-disciplined and spent almost all day in the library. Therefore, I think that if a person can have dreams and extreme self-discipline, she will definitely do something great.

The death of relatives and the impermanence of life are really powerless, and there is room for maneuver in everything, but life is gone, even if it is a celestial and immortal, it is powerless to return to heaven.

When I was about eight years old, we were still in the countryside and every family had cows, and one day, my brother and I went to the mountains to herd cattle and came back! When I met my fifth aunt, she asked if we had seen her cow, and I said I did, and told her where it was! But we didn't see it, but we don't know why we told her I did!

Late in the evening, my five aunts hadn't come back yet, and I was scared of being anxious! I'm afraid that the fifth aunt will not find the cow and be eaten by the "tiger" on the mountain because of my misdirection and my deception! Later, I was so scared that I cried and told my dad!

My dad told me to go to the fifth master myself! At that time, I was afraid that my fifth master would ask me to go to the mountains to find my fifth aunt back. Fortunately, in the end, my fifth aunt found the cow, but the fifth aunt said that the cow was found in the location I said, and because she chopped firewood for a while, it was ...... delayed to come backAnyway, since then, I thought to myself that I would never lie to anyone again, it was really uncomfortable!

Before that time, I had actually bathed in this small river countless times, but I didn't dare to go to a deep place. It was that time, on that day, that accident ensued, and that day, as usual, there was nothing special, and everyone was basically doing the same movements, they swam in the deep places, and I frolicked in the shallow places. I remember every detail of that time, it was the closest I was to death, that day, I was also alone in the shallows, but there seemed to be a sudden undercurrent under the river, and one of my feet slipped and fell directly to a deeper place.

For me, who can't swim, if my feet can't touch the bottom, I can't really do anything, and my head is in a mess, my hands and feet are crawling through the water like a conditioned reflex, and I drink sip after sip of water. Later, one of my eldest cousins scooped me up from the depths and put me on the shore, my whole limbs were unconsciously doing conditioned reflexes, my mind was blank, I really didn't think of anything at that time, I didn't even think of shouting for help.

Growing up is painful, reminiscing about guilt once. But this question can come to me, and it is also a kind of fate. Maybe it's just to get me to repent one more time.

I was in the third year of junior high school that year, and at the age of 15, my love was beginning to open, and I had a good face. My family is not rich, my parents work hard, work overtime, don't know how to maintain for our brothers to go to school, they look older than their actual age, and the money is mainly spent for our brothers, and they can't eat and dress well. I studied in a key middle school, one day my mother came to the school to look for me, poorly dressed, very old, in front of my classmates I felt very ashamed to have such a mother, I forgot what my mother was looking for me to do, I was in a hurry to leave, my mother suddenly asked me, "Son, is my mother embarrassed you?"

I looked at my mom and I wanted to explain, but I knew I thought so, and I looked at my mom and I knew I had hurt her. I don't remember the rest very clearly, I only remember my mother's sad eyes at that time, and my heart felt like I had been stabbed. The sun is shining, but the body is cold.

If I could do it all over again, I wouldn't ......Nothing is more important than family!