What is Civility and Politeness? Why be polite?

Since ancient times, the Chinese nation has been very particular about etiquette. In ancient times, there were 300 big gifts and 3,000 small rites, so China was known as an ancient civilization and a "state of etiquette". As early as more than 2,000 years ago, Confucius said:

Quality is better than literature, and literature is better than quality. Polite, then gentlemanly. Meaning:

A person who has only a simple character and does not pay attention to etiquette will appear rude; Focusing only on etiquette and lacking simple character will appear vain. Only when etiquette and simple character are combined is a cultured person. Confucius also said:

If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand. "For students, they should be well-dressed, walk and walk, sit and be polite.

Civility and politeness represent the moral standard and civilization of a country and a society, reflect a person's consciousness and quality, and it is reflected in everyone's words and deeds. There is a question of civility and politeness between superiors and subordinates, between elders and juniors, between teachers and students, between classmates, between friends, and between colleagues. Respecting the old and caring for the young is polite, and saluting, shaking hands, and greeting are not only polite, but also the embodiment of civilization.

Many industries standardize service terms, and vigorously advocate civilized terms such as "hello", "thank you", "goodbye", etc., so that people feel more cordial and warm.

Lu Fang's "The Lamp of Life".

Everything is often wrong from busyness, and good people often come from suffering.

First bitter and then sweet, first sweet and then bitter for life.

Be strong in times of hardship and cautious in times of joy.

Don't let go of the rope and don't get distracted.

The old horse's hooves are not lost, and when asking for directions, you must ask the people who have come over.

The fisherman by the sea knows the depth of the water, and the hunter in the deep mountains knows the sound of the bird.

Perseverance set up a ladder to heaven, and the courage to rush open the door of wisdom.

A flower is not spring, and spring is deep.

Light frost kills a single grass, and strong winds can't destroy a large forest.

A single bamboo pole is easy to bend, and 10,000 silk threads are constantly pulled.

It is difficult for a dragon to stop a thousand rivers, and it is difficult for a person to burn a mountain of flames.

There are many ants pushing mountains and mountains, and there are many people, and the sea is also dry.

Campus Civilization Poetry.

Everybody starts with me.

To make the earth green, to make the sky blue, to make the rivers clear, to make the air clean, to let the flowers bloom, to let the birds sing, to make the environment better, everyone starts from me.

Civility and politeness Although it is important to learn to be the first, it is also good to be civilized and polite.

The school rules are followed, and the teachers are polite.

Friendship between classmates, friendship is a prison.

Take care of public property and establish a new style, I will do it.

Civilized Ride Song.

Students, remember that the queue is lined up when getting on and off the bus.

Get on the bus, don't run around, and be ready to change to buy a ticket.

In the carriage, there is no shouting, quiet and orderly.

There are seats, don't grab them, the elderly and children will take care of them.

When getting off the bus, it is not crowded, and it is easy to fall if you delay time.

Be civilized, polite, and go to school happily.

All praise the white rabbit for being polite.

Little white rabbit, cross the small bridge, walk to the bridge and take a look, oops, the goat male came and swayed across the bridge.

The little white rabbit ran back and stood at the head of the bridge to beckon.

Father-in-law, please go through it first, step by step. ”

The river laughed when they heard it, and the fish jumped up and down when they heard it, and they all praised the white rabbit for being polite.

The campus is beautiful and the teaching building is really lively.

The willows are green and blue.

Students, jumping and jumping.

Be civilized and polite.

Say hello to the teacher.

When you see your classmates, ask early.

Love the environment and make new moves.

There is garbage, and someone takes care of it.

See waste paper, bend down to pick it up.

People have a responsibility to protect the environment.

The campus is beautiful, and we laugh together.

Poetry of Harmonious Society.

It was difficult to sleep last night, it was difficult to get rid of distracting thoughts, there was never bliss in the world, and it was extraordinary to transcend reality.

If you forget your ordinary, how can you go against the Taoist concept? All things have a cause and must have an effect, and distinguishing between right and wrong should promote goodness.

The pursuit of warmth and happiness, keep happiness in the heart, it is not advisable to have Longwangshu, and it is always pleasant to be accompanied by love.

Re-advocating Chinese culture and concepts, it is indeed more difficult to be a person than to do things, floating dust is easy to be fascinated by utilitarianism, and social harmony needs to be promoted.

A song of national unity.

Fifty-six flowers are planted in one pot, and fifty-six green bamboos are connected to one root.

The 56 nationalities of unity with one heart will be able to build the motherland into a splendid flower.

Fifty-six kilns were built into a house, and fifty-six carts of ore were smelted into a furnace of steel.

The 56 nationalities are united with one heart and one mind, and the motherland can be built into a prosperous, prosperous, and strong country.

Civility and politeness are an important moral norm in the public life of civil society, and it is a code of speech and behavior that people must follow in social interactions. It is mainly manifested in treating people with humility and kindness, speaking in a civilized and polite manner, and behaving in a dignified and generous manner. Civility and politeness reflect a person's spiritual outlook, cultural accomplishment and cultural quality, and is the harmony and unity of a person's spiritual beauty, language beauty and behavioral beauty.

Be a civilized and polite and qualified citizen:1The beauty of the language, the beauty of the soul; 2.

Humility and courtesy, humble and enterprising; 3.Speak elegantly, naturally and generously; 4.Dress well and behave modestly; 5.

Be elegant and punctual; 6.Pay attention to hygiene and health; 7.Civilized communication, raising consciousness; 8.

Public places, civilized and polite.

1) Answer questions from the quality of interpersonal relations and the good and bad of social atmosphere, the dignity of the country and the nation;

2) Being polite to others is mainly manifested in: civilized language, friendly attitude, and dignified manners Therefore, the answer is: 1) Politeness is a sign of respect for others If you are impolite to others, it will cause harm to them; Politeness is the embodiment of civilization, whether or not to be civilized and polite, shows whether a person has a moral cultivation, affects the quality of interpersonal relations and the quality of social atmosphere, and even relates to the dignity of the country and the nation

2) Civilized language, friendly attitude, and dignified manners

The specific requirements of civility and politeness are: the principle of respecting others and the principle of self-discipline, that is, in the process of communication, we should be self-denial, prudent, proactive, consciously voluntary, polite to others, and behaving as we are.

1. Self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-examination, self-restraint, and no arrogance.

The principle of moderation, moderation and decency, and mastery of proportion; The principle of sincerity, sincerity, treat people with sincerity, do not act on the spot, and are inconsistent in words and deeds. From the content, there are grooming, manners, expressions, movements, language, clothing, conversation, dealing with people, etc.; From the object point of view, there are etiquette, etiquette in public places, hospitality and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication, etc.

The specific requirements of civility and politeness are basically divided into two categories: 1. Appearance: dress neatly, not heavy makeup 2. Behavior: speak civilized language and behave appropriately.

Civility and politeness are specific.

1.The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. In terms of content, there are grooming, manners, expressions, movements, language, clothing, conversation, and dealing with people; From the object point of view, there are etiquette, etiquette in public places, hospitality and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication, etc.

The norms of behavior in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech and action is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, attention should be paid to etiquette, so that people can conduct interpersonal interactions on the principle of "respect, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity", and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.

2.Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich and diverse, but it has its own regularity, and its basic etiquette principles: first, the principle of respecting people; The second is the principle of self-discipline, that is, in the process of communication, we should be self-denial, prudent, proactive, consciously voluntary, polite to others, and behave as we are.

1. Self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-examination, self-restraint, and no arrogance. the third is the principle of moderation, moderation and decency, and mastery of proportion; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, sincerity, treating people with sincerity, not acting on the spot, and inconsistent words and deeds.

The specific requirements of civility and politeness are basically divided into two categories:

1. Appearance: dress neatly, do not wear heavy makeup, do not dress strangely, do not need to wear too much jewelry, and have a straight back;

2. Behavior: speak civilized language, behave appropriately, respect the old and love the young, do not make loud noises, pay attention to public health, do not smoke anywhere, take care of public property, etc.

Civilized and polite highlight a (gong) word, selfless and selfless highlight a (public) word, write beautifully highlight a (work) word, enterprising highlight a (gong) word, fruitful results highlight a (attack) word.

Civilized etiquette is the minimum moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society, and it is gradually formed in the long-term common life and mutual interactions, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions.

Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and upbringing, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality, but also the quality of the city and the face of the country. Therefore, as a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, we should treat people with civilized behavior, behavior, and reasonable etiquette. This is also an important way to carry forward the national culture and display the national spirit.

Use polite and polite language.

1. Ten words of politeness: "Hello, please, sorry, thank you, goodbye".

Greetings: "Good morning", "Good afternoon", "Good evening", "Hello", "Nice to meet you", "Please advise", "Please take care of me", etc.

Apologies: Excuse me, excuse me, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,

When accepting the other party's acknowledgment and apology:"You're welcome", "No thanks", "It's okay", "Please don't take it personally", etc.

Don't use words: "Hey", "don't know", "stupid", "you don't understand", "you can die", "bullshit", "pig head", etc.

2. Polite language: "Hello" does not leave the mouth, the word "please" is put in front of the word (before asking others to do things), "sorry" is always there, "thank you" is followed by (used after others help us), and "goodbye" is sent away. Background 1:

Polite language for traditional service companies (reference).

First meeting: "Long Yang".

Visiting others: "Visiting".

Please don't send: "stay".

Ask someone to help: "Labor".

Ask for convenience: "borrow light".

Ask someone for guidance: "Ask for advice".

Ask for advice: "Teach".

Praise people's insights: "high insight".

Return: "Return".

Old man's age: "high life".

Guests come: "Visit".

Go first halfway: "unaccompanied".

Gift work: "Axe".

Waiting for guests: "Waiting".

Ask for forgiveness: "Bear with".

Trouble others: "Excuse me".

Long time no see: "long time gone".

Ask someone to do something: "Please".

Separate from others: "Farewell".

Ask someone to answer: "Excuse me".

Give a gift: "Smile".

Say thanks: "Thank you".

Civilization is the sum of the humanistic spirit, invention and creation, public order and good customs that are in line with the pursuit of human spirit, and can be recognized and accepted by the vast majority of people. Civilization is the collection of all the social and natural behaviors that have freed humanity from barbarism, and these collections include at least the following elements:

Family ideas, tools, language, writing, beliefs, religious ideas, laws, city-states and states, etc. Wu Nian eggplant And the flower of polite fraternity. People who are not polite cannot talk about fraternity.

Politeness doesn't cost money, but it wins everything. Manners and upbringing are indispensable for the decoration of human beings, or for all other good qualities and talents. Courtesy pleases those who are polite, and it pleases those who are treated politely.

Polite Expressions Thank you, sorry and please These polite expressions, when used appropriately, can have an unexpected effect on reconciliation and rapport in interpersonal relationships. Thank you, in Western countries, no matter how insignificant the help given to you by others, you should sincerely say thank you. The correct use of the word thank you will make your language charming and make the other person feel warm.

To say thank you, pay attention to the other person's reaction in time. When the other person is confused about your thanks, you should explain the reason for the thanks in plain language. Thank you to others, thank you can be nothing polite, I am happy to help, as it should be.

I'm sorry, but apologizing socially is a panacea for tensions that can arise between the two parties. If you step on someone else's foot on the bus, you should say sorry to others, you can resolve the other party's unhappiness when apologizing, the most important thing is to be sincere, but when apologizing, first justify, as if to shirk responsibility, but also pay attention and apologize, hesitate to lose the opportunity to apologize, in the outside you need trouble to help the troublesome person, when you help, say sorry, can you help me pass the tea? It can reflect a person's signature collection for recuperation.

Please ask in the West almost whenever you need to trouble others, please be polite that must be on your lips, such as please forgive me, please stay, please eat, please advise, please take care of you later, etc., etc., frequent use, please to make the elements of discourse and so on, to be more natural to lower their own position, the best way to raise the position of both sides. Therefore, human beings should be civilized and polite.