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Tell your partner, and then listen to what she has to say, if she agrees with her dad asking for money, don't do that!
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You can't give him money from the beginning, you should give it to his dad all at once when you get the license with her. And you have to talk to your wife to see what she thinks and stands. When I got married, I discussed it with my husband, and my husband gave my mother 10,000 yuan to thank my mother for her nurturing grace, but after we got married, my mother returned all the money to us, and now she still gives us money from time to time.
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yes, it's not kind to discuss this with your partner and stop listening to him all the time.
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My father-in-law does not agree to your marriage, just because he is worried that his daughter will not be able to live a good life with you. If you love your girlfriend, what's there to give more? Don't care about your father-in-law's attitude, in addition, your girlfriend should also communicate more with her father, and don't embarrass you repeatedly.
Suggestions: 1. Respect the elderly and sincerely state their current situation.
2. Work hard and prove with facts that his daughter is right to marry you.
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You are married to your girlfriend, why does his father ask you for money, can affect the relationship between the two of you, show anger Oh, the bride price is a custom, it must be given, don't sacrifice happiness for this little thing, if you leave your girlfriend now because of the 60,000, doesn't that make your girlfriend's father's suspicions come true, saying that you are not sincere to his daughter.
Negotiate with your girlfriend and let her relay how much it will take, pay off the bride price at one time, set a quasi-number, and no longer change, if it changes again, and you can't stand it financially, it is really not possible to negotiate a settlement.
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Summary. If it's your boyfriend's money, you can ask for it back.
My boyfriend and I have both been divorced, and now we are going to get married, what if his money is not given by his parents.
If it's your boyfriend's money, you can ask for it back.
Ask your boyfriend to explain to his parents what the money is for.
The money of the male Xintong friend is in his parents**, he originally said that this money is to buy me a house, if you don't buy the money to give the money to me, now I have to get a certificate, I don't have anything, what should I do.
Before the promise is fulfilled, it is recommended not to rush to get the certificate. If the man sincerely wants to be with you, he will definitely show their heart.
Because of the money, he quarreled with his father, and his boyfriend had no money, and asked me to get the certificate, saying that it was the beginning of the hole with his head bent, and the two of them went to earn, his family had money and a house, and he wondered, oh, there is a son who is thirteen years old, and he has a son over there, and there is a high probability that his parents will not agree to bring the money to you, so you have to make it clear to your boyfriend, in case he himself is also in his own heart, I suggest that you still do not get the certificate with him.
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Your father's meaning is to let you know how much hard work he has put in to raise you until you have a family, and how hard it is for him.
Don't forget his nurturing grace and dedication!
You must work hard, work hard, run your own home, and don't let down his efforts!
I am a family person, people are composed of a hand, is to support each other to stand, what do you say friends, to a person to raise a person, not a life, not a family that can be formed, for this kind of thing first to think about how long life can be, how to go in the future to make yourself happy, people are selfish! Everyone is like this, no one is an exception, think about it, make a reference, and hope to be in the wrong place!!
I'm very lucky, my first love is married, hey, the current society, I can only express sympathy, and helplessness, I also hate this kind of society, I don't know how to comfort you... Divide my luck with you a little bit, and hopefully you'll want to drive a little bit or find another one that you think is perfect.
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How to say it, if there is no suitable object, it is a normal performance, if you have not been with the object is abnormal, at least you have a physiological need.
Give up, don't let yourself be so miserable.