I m getting married, but I m very unhappy, can you talk to me?

Is it premarital depression? Or are you simply not sure if you want to marry him? Is it a matter of time?

Or is it some other reason to get married? If you are unhappy, it means that he loves you more than you love him, because maybe you won't be sad if you don't marry, maybe this man is too good to you, or the relationship between parents, I don't know how to get married. I had the same feeling as you before, I was getting married, but I wasn't happy, but I didn't love him, I just had an indescribable feeling, and finally I got married, and now I kind of regret my decision, because I'm not happy now.

So, a woman's happiness for a lifetime, don't decide so easily, ask yourself if you want to get along with the person in front of you for a lifetime, don't think that divorce is very casual now, it's easy to make a wrong decision. In fact, people who remarry can't ask for so much. Therefore, you should be cautious when you can make your choice.

But if you decide to get married, you have to be the happiest bride, the happiest bride. Maybe you'll love each other more in the future. Bless you 1

The confusion of the road ahead leads to uneasiness. Because I need to run in with my other half, I'm worried. I hesitate about whether I should bond with my partner.

What should come is still coming, face it calmly, and don't run away. It is blessed to have someone who loves you and you are together.

Are you not happy to get married? Dizzy... Why? How much can I add you to talk about your Q?

What's the end if you're not happy? Escape from marriage!

Do you have any problems?

It's better for this kind of man to break up with him, he is not mature enough at all to take on a man's responsibilities for the family. He doesn't even take responsibility for himself (what do you say you drive him to death). Anything else is involved, and you won't be able to live your life in the future.

Your happiness is in your own hands!

Where the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down, a divorce may be made.

For the issue of child rearing, it is necessary to start from the perspective of being conducive to the growth of the child, see which party is more suitable for the child's growth and seek the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18!

If there is love and affection, then it is normal to be unhappy temporarily, just like there are various flavors in a delicious dish. If it's because you don't love it, it's really unhappy. Then you have to deal with your own feelings, and others can't say it clearly.

Unhappy doesn't have to be sick, so you don't have to see a doctor. But you must prescribe your own medicine, there will be a reason for being unhappy in many cases, so you might as well try to find the reason why you are unhappy, and you need to tie the bell to the bell. In addition, if there is no special reason, you might as well choose a place with better scenery, or fallen leaves, or water, sit for a while or take a walk, slowly relieve yourself, think about the people around you who care about you, think about the people around you who need you to care, only by releasing yourself from the bottom of your heart, you can really let go of the burden.

I think that a person doesn't necessarily have to explain to others, but he must have an account for himself, so if you want to be happy, you have to rely on yourself. Hehe, maybe it's just an occasional bad mood? Find a way to make yourself cry, watch a tragic movie, listen to a sad song, or sit on the sofa and imagine yourself miserable, some emotions need to be vented, maybe after crying, you will feel that it is not a big deal. Satisfied.

There is no such thing as absolute happiness and there is no absolute suffering.

You first ask yourself why you can't be happy.

It's like you go to a casino in Macau to gamble! If you want to win, you have to know the game!

It is advisable to be cautious and think twice!

Falling in love will drown out a lot of troubles, and the two parties are not together all the time when they are in love, and some habits or lives do not have much conflict, so they are naturally in a good mood.

After getting married, we will be together every day, go to work together, get off work together, cook together, and so on, we will encounter a lot of things, and there will be differences of opinion, and you will feel that life is like this?

At this time, you should have a calm mind, calm down and discuss something, let your wife or husband care for each other, and I think you will be happy and happy.

Husband and wife, a small fight is a kiss, a small scolding is love, and it is uncomfortable not to beat or scold.

Because facing a lot of people and things, it will also increase a lot of troubles and pressure. It's fun when you're alone. But after getting married, it's a big family. If you think about the days to come, there will be a lot of troubles.

There may be more things to think about, and more responsibilities、、、 but to maintain a good attitude

After getting married, it's time to live on your own, and you're in the middle of a burden.

Because someone is in charge of you, you can't be free. When dating a friend, the wife will ask whether it is a man or a woman, a woman, and what is the relationship with her, and it is not allowed to hide private money ......

Because there is no sense of novelty and mystery.

A few reasons: premarital syndrome!

Introduced by others, or requested by parents, I don't know much about it.

It doesn't feel like it's right anymore, but for other reasons, it's still going to get married.

Give advice:1Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you have to think carefully before getting married. If it's not suitable to divorce again, it will be a second marriage in the future, hehe.

2.Some things are not perfect, maybe everyone adapts to life after marriage, and life will be better, in fact, life is very dull.

3.If it's purely premarital nervousness, then you don't have to. There are many things after marriage that are similar to before marriage, and it takes a long time to adapt and change.

If you don't like each other, don't get married, a marriage without feelings is just a contract that binds each other.

It's not the one you love the most when you get married, but it must be the one who is the best for you!