I m not happy, the dormitory people are quarrelling, what should I do if there is a conflict in the

Updated on educate 2024-04-13
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The person in your dormitory is really too selfish, but since things are like this, it can't change anything, but you have to learn something in the future, this person is not worth your deep friendship!

    Many times, you have to start by looking at your own shortcomings, why do they reject you? Have you not communicated with the people in the dormitory a lot of the time to let them really know yourself? You should give them a chance, and give yourself a chance, and find an appropriate time for everyone to talk together and talk about their hearts.

    It's like a dormitory meeting, it's a great way for you to get to know each other.

    I don't know what kind of people are in your dorm, but you have to do your own thing, and do what you do to others, others will do to you! Be honest with them, and maybe they'll make a difference to you. Work hard, if you do a good job, they will definitely make a difference for you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be too persistent about some things, since things have happened, it's useless for you to be depressed, find a chance to talk to him, say that everything is easy to do, or next time you encounter something similar, you will have an eye, as the saying goes: eat a trench, grow a wisdom.

    I hope it helps you, I wish you a happy day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's already like this, what else can I do?

    Through this time, I got to know what kind of person she is.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The third floor is right.

    The past is gone.

    This time as a lesson.

    Just pay attention next time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Learn the same as Maccabius.

    Dismembered him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've been in this situation before. I think communication is the most important thing at this time. Ask your own thoughts and talk honestly. I don't think that person will do it next time! Maybe others are unintentional too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find the reason and talk to them well.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Want to open a little ... Too narrow-minded ... Don't always think too badly of yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is inevitable that there will be conflicts between people, even with our closest parents, let alone roommates. So how to deal with conflicts in the dormitory?

    1. When there is a conflict in the dormitory, don't ignore it, so that the conflict will escalate, and you should choose the right way to deal with it, so as not to worsen the conflict. Roommates should treat each other with a calm mind, and don't shout loudly at every turn, which will disgust the other party, and the conflict will be even more unlikely to be settled.

    2. Proper communication is an effective way to deal with conflicts, and of course it should be in a more harmonious tone. Try to sit down with your roommates, and both of them express their dissatisfaction with each other and explain the reasons, so that their shortcomings can be corrected and the conflict can be resolved.

    3. If the conflict in the dormitory escalates, you can ask others for help, let them give you some suggestions, and find some ways to deal with it, which may have a little effect.

    4. If it is really impossible to communicate between the bedrooms, both of them are holding back their anger, which is not good for each other, you might as well quarrel, so that you can vent your emotions and do not need to hide it.

    5. If you really can't tolerate your roommate, you can consider changing the dormitory, even if it will be awkward to meet in the future, but at least you won't stay in a dormitory every day to make conflicts. Change the dormitory, change the environment, maybe you can live and study better. Even if you don't change dorms, but conflicts often occur, it hurts each other, it's better to leave that dorm so that you don't have to face the person you hate.

    Interpersonal communication is also an art, which requires us to constantly ponder and manage, so as to create harmonious interpersonal relationships and create a harmonious dormitory environment, which is a skill that must be learned in college.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, it is necessary to reconcile, in a dormitory, you should try to have a good relationship, and there should be no contradictions, let alone a falling out, you have a falling out with a person who causes the whole dormitory to stop playing with you, so it seems that the problem is in you, you should review yourself, and then reconcile with your roommates is correct.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's better for you to move out, but if you really don't get along, you don't have to force reconciliation, and of course it depends on what you have to do with your roommate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You said that you fell out with the people in the dormitory, and they all played better, and you quarreled with one of them and the dormitory didn't play with you anymore, what should I do? I think that's you. Find a way to ease the relationship with the one who quarreled as much as possible, otherwise everyone may think that you are making trouble unreasonably, and others will not want to pay attention to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People like you are unsociables, and that's not good. Make more friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you feel isolated and can't stand it, buy some snacks to apologize.

    If you don't want to apologize, you can play with other people.,In addition to roommates, there are other classmates.。

    But the dormitory relationship is too stiff and not good, and I'll understand it later.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At this time, you have to be more generous, find someone who has a similar relationship with you, and tell him that you want to invite them to dinner, and then you can have some wine and talk.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on whether it's your own reason.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Isn't it nice for you to be alone? Ignore them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. After all, we have to be together for several years, so the relationship still has to be maintained.

    What to do if you quarrel with someone in the dormitory.

    After all, we have to be together for several years, so the relationship still has to be maintained.

    I quarreled with the people in the dormitory, that is, today we went out together, when I came back, I walked slowly, and then she took the room card and opened the door and went in directly, I walked slowly, and then I didn't enter the door, she closed the door, the dormitory was just the two of us, I was very angry, because many times before, I had not entered the door, she closed the door without permission, and I didn't have a room card, if I wanted to, I opened it myself, and then let him open the door for me, he was impatient, really speechless. So today I got angry, she said that it was the wind that blew, but there was no wind from the window at that time, and in the end no one paid attention to anyone.

    Why don't you have a room key?

    You can ask him for a key card.

    The hotel we stayed in only had one room card, we were twin rooms.

    Hotel? Are you a company or a school?

    School. Can't you change dormitories?

    If you can't stand it, you can talk to the teacher.

    It shouldn't be possible, it's all over, and I have to maintain a good attitude in the acquired art exam.

    That's right. Don't let him influence you.

    Or maybe he's deliberately influencing your mindset.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Dear, you must first find out the cause of the conflict, go through it, and then solve the problem according to the contradiction.

    Dear, you must first find out the cause of the conflict, go through it, and then solve the problem according to the contradiction.

    1. At the beginning of the conflict, everyone will have a "victim" in Qi Xishan's heart, feeling that it is someone else's fault. At this time, what you should do is to calm down and see why this happened? If the living habits are different, then take a "middle point" with your roommates, and you can't blindly accommodate one party.

    2. After you want to open it, it's time to talk to your roommate. Of course, this kind of talk is peaceful, and no one is considered an "enemy". As a friend's chat, laugh and talk about some tangled problems in your heart, and discuss with everyone how to solve them, not how to solve them!

    It's "discussing"!

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