My boyfriend is too mother in law and mother in law

Updated on parenting 2024-04-26
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Originally, we women all wanted to find a considerate man, but if you really encounter this, you still feel annoyed, but this is better than a man who doesn't care about you, but it's not the best choice.

    It is recommended that you communicate with him more and tell him that your other girlfriends have been divorced by their girlfriends because they care about her too much, and let him know that he will make others unbearable in this way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings. He cares too much about you. But if you really don't like that, just talk to him and he'll listen to you.

    Happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When two people are together, they will subtly interact with each other, and you should give him more examples.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Men can't be too nice to women It's really going to be spoiled I've already eaten the consequences Don't say I'm cynical The truth is heart-wrenching...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you think about it, if you suddenly don't do this for a few days, the answer will be very clear to you whether it is a blessing or a misfortune.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm such a man, I care so much about the person I like that the girl I chase says I'm grinding. This is a factor of character, and it can be changed slowly, I myself am too lacking in manhood.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ha ha! Very good, 1, you are very happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello! Your boyfriend's mother-in-law may have a strong personality, which makes you a little daunted, but in the whole description, there is no mention of your relationship with your boyfriend, in fact, this and number are fundamental.

    Although it is often said that marriage is marrying into a family, which means that the relationship between the entire original family will have a very important impact on the small family, whether this person can marry Chunshou or not depends fundamentally on the relationship between the two of you.

    The basic structure of marriage is the husband and wife, and the foundation of marriage is the cooperation and integration of the husband and wife. If you and your boyfriend can trust each other and understand each other after getting married, and can communicate on many things, I believe that your mother-in-law will not be able to shake it. So what you need to examine is whether there is a basic trust in the relationship between you and your boyfriend, and the extent to which he can realize that his previous marriage was due to his mother's overinvolvement, and then learn to maintain appropriate boundaries with his mother and have his own sense of independence.

    In real life, if he is willing to take the initiative to take the initiative to act as a bridge of communication between you and your mother, I believe that the relationship can still get along well.

    It is also important for young couples to have a sense of independence. Nowadays, many young people are dependent on their parents' financial help and life care, while complaining about the excessive intervention of the elderly. In fact, these are two interrelated issues, if you want to establish the boundaries of yourself, independent consciousness and economic independence are very important, only you have the ability to take care of your own life, parents are only auxiliary obligations, not dominant, at this time the young couple has relatively more freedom, if all aspects are dependent on parents, it is difficult to get rid of the constraints of parents.

    So whether such a boyfriend can marry depends on the affection and trust between you, and also depends on the degree of self-independence you have. So you're focusing on your boyfriend, not his mom.

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