The problem that bothers me a lot, all the important problems that bother you, there is no direct so

.You think about it for yourself before you go to bed at night. Would you rather maintain such a friendship with your classmates, or would you like to have a closer development with him?

Think about it and decide what you want? I don't think students are naïve when they're in love. That's not called childishness.

It's called affection. Neither the body nor the mind are mature enough...

If you confess, he may be a stranger to you. On the contrary, even the friendship of classmates was lost;

In other words: if you bury it deep in your heart. Although you will feel uncomfortable when you see him with other girls. But at least you can talk to him in the right way.

But we are now living in the 21st century. Dare to love and hate. Just like your ideals. If you have ideals and goals, you must achieve them. Step up your game. Struggle.

Some people, some things. You don't know the outcome until you face it.

And when you face it, and the result you get is not what you want, you can boldly let it go.

Learn to let go. Not a bad thing. It's growth.

Of course. I'm just saying that I'm thought-provoking. The decision is yours.

Anyway...I wish you success. Have fun. No regrets!

Take out your truest thoughts and ask yourself if you really like him or are you just a whim, if you really like it, just say it, don't hesitate.

Confess to him, obviously think that he can't think about it, don't die to save face and suffer the crime, you will regret it later, even if he rejects you, your good memories of that month are enough to reminisce for a lifetime.

I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had.

There's nothing wrong with liking him, just relax and let it be

The students' feelings are too naïve, and they can't withstand the ups and downs, because you are in the growth, development, and academic stage are not suitable for talking about feelings, and you can't even fully understand what feelings are now, if you keep going on with feelings, it will not only affect your academic performance, even if he is good to you, it does not necessarily mean that he loves you, so loving you now means that he will love you in the future? Now I say that you have not really entered the society, and you have a shallow understanding of feelings, and you don't know what guarantee real love depends on

When a problem persists and you are struggling to figure it out and want to ask for help, you need to realize that there is probably no direct solution to the problem.

What is a straightforward solution? If you are thirsty and there happens to be a convenience store on the side of the road, then you can quench your thirst by buying a bottle of water, which is a straightforward solution. In life, we solve such problems directly every day without feeling bothered.

When a problem begins to bother you, it means that the problem has been appearing for a long time, and it is precisely because it lasts for a long time, both important and urgent, that this problem will attract your attention. On the road to growth, it is difficult to have a direct solution to a long-standing problem.

The important problems in life or the problems that have plagued us for a long time can only be solved by ourselves, the food is eaten by ourselves, the life is lived by ourselves, and the future is also our own, and no one can be responsible for us to the end.

When we start doing something, we tend to pay too much attention to the method, right? Is it efficient? Is the plan good?

These questions are important, but we don't need to spend too much time on these issues, everything is uncertain at the beginning, it is difficult for us to see the direction clearly, and it is impossible to take into account all the future situations when planning, there will inevitably be a stage of trial and error and adjustment. As long as we continue to do one thing and continue to improve, we will gradually become different as time progresses.

The same is true when solving the important problems that plague us in life, don't always think about getting the "magic medicine" from others, but rely on your own "refining", in the process of "refining", the experience sharing and inspiration of others can be the icing on the cake, but it cannot replace us to think, let alone replace us to complete what we should do.

Solving the important problems that plague us requires us to try little by little, reflect on and summarize in the midst of setbacks and failures, let new ideas form in our minds, and witness changes happen slowly.

Don't rush to find an answer, see what you can do, because the answer will always come as you continue to act.