How to face your enemies and friends.

Modest! Overcautious! A famous person once said that the more ignorant you are, the more arrogant you are, and the more arrogant you are, the more ignorant you are.

People say that it takes 30 years for them to understand themselves, let alone understand others, so there is no absolute enemy, and there is no absolute friend, you will meet a lot of people on the road of life, treat everyone sincerely, I think you will get a lot, sincerely bless every friend who knows and does not know!

Friends, first of all, get rid of the resentment in your heart, treat your friends sincerely, treat your enemies kindly, and constantly improve yourself, "only when the country is strong, the people will not be bullied."

I hope my words will help you.

That's a good question! I used to be sad about it, too! Sad!

I can't even figure it out! After a long time, I finally realized that there are no absolute enemies in this world!

Want to be happy? Want to have fun? Do you want to spend this wonderful life comfortably and calmly?

Then you must first step over the difficulty of your own mind! Perhaps we all know that the biggest enemy in this world is not someone else, but ourselves! It's just that sometimes we, weak people, don't want to admit it!

Think about it, you said yes, right? We have to be happy people, and we have to learn to be tolerant of others! Embrace those who have hurt us!

We also need to learn to be grateful to those who have helped us! Learn to understand! Use this great heart of ours to atone for the sins of those poor people!

That's how we can be happy! Why should we torture ourselves with their mistakes? How can we be happy then?

How can there be no Jews? You say, don't you?

Fate comes from everything, fate is a friend, and no fate is an enemy. There's no need to force it. Life is rich when there are friends and enemies.

Treat your friends with sincerity, I don't need to make the enemy stiff, be your friend in the process! just to the top. Smile when you should!

Be kind, don't think that it's okay to suffer a little loss, don't think so, it's to replace people with sincerity!

Oh, yes, smile at what an enemy, benefactor. Maybe you want to hurt your enemies when you get back to being happy? Don't be so extreme, why make yourself unhappy...

Not everyone who is bad to you is your enemy, and not everyone who is good to you is your friend.

A friend can become an enemy, and an enemy can be a friend.

Humor The more popular Americans are the most humorous.

The more highlights. Plus, you don't have to do anything deliberately.

Natural point. Change yourself not for others, for yourself.

Thank you, read a book to learn about interpersonal relationships.

Take a little time and use it for a lifetime.

I was good at leading enemies, so I became friends.

I cherish my friends and become siblings.

Rely on yourself in everything.

Repay the benefactor and repay the vengeance.

Do you want to understand that to live in this world is to be social? Make good friends

Learn to find your own bosom friends Making friends is not about saying anything, it's not blindly asking for a relationship???

Theoretically yes, but it's also temporary, after all, the enemy's friend is not an enemy in the absolute sense, he won't fight with you to the death, the enemy's enemy is a friend, yes, but it's just a matter of interest, and you can't be trusted unless you know him very well.

That's a stranger, it depends on how you think of the meaning of the word "friend", if a friend refers to a very good, trustworthy person, then the person who is not a friend or an enemy is the one you know him, but there will not be too many intersections, maybe just a few more glances.

Indeed, in this case, it is out of prevention and attack on the enemy that this strategy will be made. The enemy of the enemy is my friend, which generally refers to the relationship between countries, and is rarely used between people, just like the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, mutual checks and balances. But to do it, it is difficult to accommodate each other and balance each other.

There is usually a certain degree of interest correlation between people, that is, the change of their own interests will directly or indirectly lead to the change of interests of others, which can be measured by the interest correlation coefficient, friends are interest correlation coefficient greater than 0, and enemy is interest correlation coefficient less than 0.

The phrase "a friend of an enemy is also an enemy" implies that a friend of an enemy may pose a threat or danger to us. Therefore, in the face of such a situation, we may need to exercise caution and take appropriate countermeasures.

However, this should not be done to treat all friends of the enemy as enemies, as such an approach may lead to more problems. We should make judgments based on the actual situation and try to avoid harming the interests of others while protecting ourselves.

For friends of our enemies, we can consider adopting a calm and rational attitude and seek to solve problems through communication, consultation, etc. Of course, if a friend of the enemy really poses a malicious threat or harm to us, we should also take the necessary protective measures.

I once read a story about Lincoln** in the United States before the election, when there was a concept of a gateway in American society, and a senator insulted him: Mr. Lincoln, don't forget that your father was just a shoemaker. 」

Everyone wanted to see what attitude this ** candidate would have, but Mr. Lincoln said calmly: Thank you for reminding me that my father has passed away, and I will remember him, and if I am a **, I will not be able to do better than my father as a shoemaker, because my father is very good at making shoes; Remember that your shoes were also made by my father, and if they are not properly dressed, I can serve you. 」

The originally serious scene, because Lincoln's seat was so warm, humorous and earnest, immediately burst into applause.

Someone asked, "Mr. Lincoln, why do you not try to strike at the enemy, but treat him as a friend?" 」

Mr. Lincoln: Don't you think that if you can be friends with your enemies, you will eliminate your political enemies? Between countries, everyone is a friend, and the number of opposing countries is reduced. If there is no enemy, isn't it the way to destroy the enemy? 」

This was Mr. Lincoln's forgiving heart, and later generations built a Lincoln Memorial for him, with a quote engraved on the wall: "Be lenient to no one, but be lenient and merciful to all." 」

Are people mortals or sages? Right in the mind. Therefore, in daily life, we must be cautious in our own minds, even if we are subtle, we must also enter the subtlety with a millimeter, everyone has a good heart, be a good person, and reconcile natural people, things, and things, and the wind and rain will be smooth, and the country and the people will be safe.

This person's behavior is clearly a provocation!

You have to walk right, sit upright! I believe that if you understand, you can see his ugly face! The best policy: ignore it and let it deteriorate, when the great evil, this person has no way. Strategy: Be a blatant enemy and take the initiative! Take back your own people and things!

Take a step back and open the sky, this is just a good exercise of your patience, hehe. It is inevitable that you will encounter times when things don't go well, such as when you can't get used to your boss at work in the future, won't you stop working? Now is the right time to exercise self-restraint, which is very good for you.

Saon lost his horse, how do you know if it is a blessing?

This kind of person, you have to treat others in the way of others, you also pretend to be powerful on the surface, she may not be used to it at first, will trouble you, but at most it is just to scare and scare you, and when you target each other for a long time, it will not be long before you will understand each other, and will slowly make some jokes or something.

Many people are actually very strong on the surface but lonely on the inside, depending on how you find out her loneliness and then ......You know.

The superficial is powerful, indicating that the psychology is not very powerful.

1, if you don't do it, you can't live without her?

2. Smile more, smiling is the best way to treat her sincerely.

The attitude towards the enemy should be not to provoke her, and not to be afraid of her.

First of all, you have to understand why she threatens you everywhere. Is it a job competition, or is it not pleasing to the eye? Or did you offend her? Or is it emotional competition? Only by understanding the root cause can we prescribe the right medicine.

If it's for work reasons, you can be humble and lift her appropriately, women, if you have enough face, you will naturally not be a threat.

If it doesn't like you, you can contact your acquaintances appropriately and organize a party and play. Talk about familiarity, she understands you and thinks that you have an appetite, and this problem can be solved.

If you offend her, then you have to find out the reason, or apologize openly, or secretly give her some help.

If it's feelings, then I'm sorry, I'd rather be an enemy, and feelings can't be allowed.

Even if there are other reasons, many things can be solved as long as the reasons are analyzed concretely.

Unless she and you were enemies in your previous life, then there is no way.