What kind of marriage is what a girl really wants?

A fairy tale finally has an ending, you have some expectations for your lover like a heroine, and you walk into marriage, into the perfect marriage you want.

First of all, the other person is the person you love. Too many people can't love it, so I just found a suitable person instead of the person I loved, so ah, in my perfect marriage, there must be you, my lover who has been thinking about me for more than ten years, because it is you, this marriage has the meaning of existence, because it is you, I choose to participate in this marriage, because it is you, this marriage is not so failed.

Secondly, the two of us will have different social circles, but we will get together here, and we will nest up on the sofa every day and talk about this short life. It is also because of this that the days are not boring, and the warmth of the breath at that moment in his arms is the outlet for all tiredness.

Then, there was a beating of life in the stomach that added some uneasiness to the original two-person world, although it would be impossible to sleep at night when you would hear his cry. However, when this life begins to follow its own trajectory, the three of us are the happiest beings in this world. The love between the two of us has borne fruit, and it looks pretty good.

In the end, there is hope. The two of us didn't have a job when we were old, and we started the journey that I wanted to see when the world was so big, and we helped each other to the end of the world, and at the end of the world, we could still hold each other's hands, and we were sure that the love of our lives was him.

I know that life is always full of cumbersomeness of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but ah, this itself is the tedium of growth and marriage itself, but as long as the lover is him, everything is not so important.

Every girl has a beautiful vision of her marriage in her heart, and her husband treats her gently and brings her a little surprise from time to time; Her father-in-law and mother-in-law treat her like a biological daughter, and her children are in pairs and all of them are filial, and occasionally travel with her family to spend the rest of her life with Meimei.

Peace and joy, everything goes smoothly is what girls yearn for the most, a husband who loves her, and a sensible and obedient child, who spends her life smoothly, is really very happy.

Maybe everything is as natural as water, naturally two people are attracted to each other, naturally fall in love, and finally naturally enter the palace of marriage and join hands to the white head.

A happy and worry-free marriage is what a girl really wants, he doesn't have to work hard for life, and he doesn't have to worry about the pressure of life.

This kind of marriage with warmth and true love is what girls really want. Of course, married life cannot be lost without love, and if there is no love, there is no meaning.

What a girl doesn't want is not marriage, it's a promise you give him, and it's your biggest responsibility and a sense of security.

Have a fixed residence. Have a stable economic income. There is a boy who truly loves himself.

The marriage that girls want should be one where love and money can be satisfied.

1.The most important point is that the girl's husband must love her and spoil her. Anyway, in the eyes of girls, a marriage without love will not be happy.

Of course, I want my other half and after getting married, I still spoil her as much as I did when I was in love, and the two of them are still so sweet. And love is the best cosmetics for a woman, and you can judge whether a woman is happy or not from the state of facial care of her face. Those happy women have the word happiness written all over their faces.

2.can accept that after marriage, life becomes as plain as water, but they can't help but let their marriage be a pool of stagnant water. They want their marriage to have all kinds of rituals.

Anniversaries, Valentine's Day, their birthdays, they don't want these memorable days to be left behind as they enter the palace of marriage. These are the ones that can make them feel some small surprises brought by life, and they can also add some spices to ordinary life, enhance the feelings between husband and wife, and experience the happiness of marriage.

3.The three views of these two people are absolutely similar. You may imagine what a marriage is like for two people with different views.

Not only do things that are not in sync, but sometimes they even deviate from each other's values and worldviews, and it is difficult for the other party to accept them. However, the marriage of two people with the same three views is completely different, and they can understand each other's meaning with one look and one action. I have almost the same views on the same TV series and the same things, and I have a lot of days in my daily life.

Two people will quarrel happily, and it is completely flirting. This kind of life is probably what many people dream of, like a backwater marriage, who would want it, it is completely a tomb.

5.Both of them have incomes, but they don't have to be particularly high, to reach the top of society. But it must also be able to meet the needs of a higher level of spiritual needs, not only to meet food and clothing, but also to meet the spiritual needs of a higher level.

For example, when you are free, you can travel together, watch dramas, and live a high-quality life. Instead of earning money day and night, there is no goal in life, just to make money to fill yourself to survive, this kind of life, thinking about it is fatal, how can it be the married life that girls dream of, such a marriage is just a cage.

6.Parents-in-law do not interfere in their own lives. It's not that they don't want to live with their in-laws, sometimes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really too difficult to handle, and it is not very common for young people to be unfilial nowadays.

At that time, some parents-in-law and mother-in-law will rely on the old and sell the old to intervene in the lives of young couples. This is what every girl hates, and what they hate even more is their husbands, who will stand on the side of their parents-in-law and accuse themselves of being unfilial.

Therefore, girls want to live separately from their parents-in-law, and there will be a lot less disputes if they live separately.

The marriage that a woman wants is not necessarily luxurious, but it must be very romantic and attentive, and the person she loves is in love.

Girls like a person who can give him a sense of security, preferably with better economic conditions, and who he likes, two people can grow old, and men can take care of themselves and tolerate themselves. A man who has a burden will make a woman feel secure, and two suspects in life are very sweet, sharing responsibilities and raising children.

1. Desire to be respected by men.

In marriage, a woman especially craves the respect of a man. Xiaoting's husband is a typical negative teaching material. In his marriage, he didn't know how to respect Xiaoting's feelings at all, which caused Xiaoting to live a particularly depressed and painful life in his marriage.

When a man does not know how to respect a woman in marriage, is self-centered everywhere, and fantasizes about transforming a woman into a slave or tool without a soul and no opinions, then such a man is destined to fail to obtain the respect and true love of a woman.

In marriage, women especially crave the respect of men. Only when a man is fully respected can a woman live a dignified and decent life in marriage. When the woman returns to the house, she hopes that her husband can greet her with a smile.

When a woman is hit and frustrated at work or in life, she hopes that her husband can give appropriate comfort and warm encouragement. It is a sign of respect for women by men. If a man can't give a woman even the most basic respect in marriage, then the woman will want to stay away from the man because of this.

2. Desire to be understood by men.

In marriage, women are especially eager to be understood by men. Sometimes, no matter how much a man says "I love you", it is not as moving as a sentence of "I understand you", which will make women more moved when they hear it. Women sometimes do not need a man to share the housework for them in marriage, or they must ask the man how much money he makes.

She hopes that men will take the time to listen carefully and deeply understand and understand women's difficulties. Women will also have their own grievances and their own pain. If a man ignores the true feelings and emotions in a woman's heart in marriage and does not know how to think more from a woman's perspective and position, then the woman will feel that the man does not understand her at all.

3. Desire to be tolerated by men.

In marriage, women especially crave the tolerance of men. Married life and love are completely different things. Married life is full of all kinds of trivial matters.

In addition to work, women are also busy with family affairs. In marriage, inside and out, women have to worry and work. After a long time, the woman may have some complaints, and the woman's temper will become rougher.

If a man does not know how to tolerate a woman in marriage, then the woman will feel that the man does not love herself enough. In marriage, a woman does not expect a man to help her share much sorrow, she only hopes that a man can give her more tolerance and not worry about everything. If a man is nitpicking on a woman in marriage, picking a bone in the egg, and unwilling to tolerate the shortcomings and deficiencies in the woman, then the woman will want to stay away from the man because of this.

There is a difference between the focus of marriage and love, the focus of love is to like each other, while the focus of marriage is to cooperate with each other.

Of course, if you can meet a person who likes and is suitable to marry, it is really good, but if you can only choose one of the two when facing marriage, then I recommend choosing the right one, that is, you can cooperate with each other.

Marriage is like running a business, it is to find a business partner, the first requirement of a business partner must be reliable and trustworthy, so some unreliable men, even if they can give you the feeling of being in love, but they should not be listed as marriage partners, because character problems are really difficult to change, and marriage needs a trustworthy person very much.

For example, people who have successfully started a business, they often do not succeed according to a very specific plan, they are all crossing the river by feeling the stones, for example, the product is sold well, and more people are recruited, more people are started, and the system is improved, and the company becomes larger, so they start to find legal counsel.

Feelings are the same, it's rare to have everything in place, and it is recommended that you find some objects with a higher basic plate to cultivate slowly.

The marriage that most girls like is to have a husband who really likes them.

The salary is all handed over to you.

Many women like to show off on Moments after receiving a transfer from a man, but in fact, this is not the highest level of happiness. The highest level of happiness is not a man's transfer, the highest level of happiness should be your husband giving you all his salary. No matter what job your man does, no matter what his income is, if he is willing to give you all his salary for safekeeping and at your disposal, then it means that he trusts and likes you very much, and this affection is far more reliable than if he transfers money to you.

If a man hands over all his salary to you, it means that his focus is all on the family and on you, so no matter what he does after marriage, he will pass through you, he buys a big item, he adds a new dress, you participate, such a married life is naturally very happy. If a man doesn't even let you know how much he earns, if a man still depends on you every month, then such a marriage is unhappy. The happiest thing for a woman is to be able to freely dispose of a man's salary and to have the trust and respect of the other person.

Be considerate of your hard work with children.

Men let you be in charge of the family's financial power is only one thing, women can't just have bread and no love. In a marriage relationship, a woman can only be more and more satisfied when she is satisfied materially and emotionally. After getting married, many women are in charge of the family's finances, but they are not happy because they are still living a very hard life.

What a woman sometimes wants is not to master anyone, but to feel understood and understood. This feeling is the support of married life, which can make people more hopeful. As a husband, a man must know how to understand the difficulties of his wife, know how to share and understand, and it is best to be a responsible man.

And women often need this tolerance and understanding to be able to live a smooth life.

Everything is on your side.

In real life, many women like to complain after getting married, either complaining that their husbands don't understand, or complaining that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well. Everyone has their own troubles, but as long as your husband has his own principles and bottom line, as long as your husband is tolerant and understanding of you, then you should find happiness and accept your own life. If a man is on your side in everything after marriage, trusting and supporting you unconditionally, then you should be less careful, because your husband loves you.

You should also give back your tolerance and love to the other person, so that your relationship will go on more and more smoothly.