For the sake of gratitude, should I choose him or not?

I thought it was me who was asleep and ran to the Internet to ask the question, hehe, just kidding! It's just that this kind of thing has really happened to me, I don't love him, I've tried, but I can't do it. I think it would be unfair and irresponsible ......to him if I chose himLater he left because I fell in love with someone else'......It's been almost two years and I miss him very, very much, and my current boyfriend is definitely not as good as he was to me then, but I have no regrets because I'd rather he find a girl who really loves him and do it all over again, and I'll still choose that way.

If you just thank him without any element of love, then you can be friends, and friends can be a lifelong thing, just like Hepburn and Pike.

Affection and gratitude are not the same.

There are many ways to express gratitude, but one is to be together again is to wronged your feelings! But if you love him, you might as well use this as an excuse!

It is better for a woman to find someone who loves her than to find someone she loves!

Gratitude is not the same as a promise.

You and him will not be wronged, but it's a pity that it's not what you love Remember, I'd rather love yourself than choose what you love?

I feel to myself that you should try to accept him, but only on my own.

I can be very, very, very sure of you, go to the book, you must go to the book, why? I'm a few years older than you, and I'd love to tell you as an older brother that I used to be afraid of losing the girl I liked, and gave up the opportunity to study, and although the two ended up together, I found that I couldn't give her anything but a heart to her. In the end, she chose to leave me.

You are still young, even if you study for another three years, no matter what the final result is, the first thing you must have is to give others a lifetime of happiness chips, that is, high cultural knowledge, stable work income!

Do you think she confessed her heart? If not, act quickly, to understand her heart for you, if she doesn't have that affection for you, don't wait in vain, prepare for the exam, and go abroad for further study. If she has that affection, ask her if she would like to wait for you or ask her if she would like to go with you.

Do what you want to do, the main thing is what you think, what do you want, make things happen,,, as long as you work hard, think too much, and don't regret it.

Do what you can, but you still have to have the necessary challenges, and you can't back down because there are difficulties, so it is difficult to develop.

It's good to study in a technical school, it's good to come out to find a job, the role of the undergraduate diploma is not big, but the money has been smashed in, I don't want to live up to the expectations of my parents, it's a little better to say it, I went to work in the field when I graduated from junior college, and I went back to take two exams, I was really unwilling to finish reading, you still go to learn a technology and then go to work, the money is only paid one-third, see if you are reluctant, if you have time, don't care about the money to get a certificate, I spent almost 10,000 yuan on that certificate, three years, and made up for the exam 9 times, It didn't take much effort, I prepared a few days before the exam, and I took the test when the time came, and there were 15 of the 18 subjects with more than 60 points. One of them is a graduate**, and I wrote it for two months, which took more energy than the other 17 courses combined. The most depressing thing is that after leaving school, I ask others to help me apply for the exam, apply for graduation and find people everywhere, and take the overnight train back and forth for the exam, a total of four times.

My sister chose only 11 subjects, the junior college did not graduate, the undergraduate was all passed, the 12 subjects that my classmates chosen, 9 months earlier than I applied for the exam half a year later, because she participated in the July point exam, and the junior college graduation undergraduate was not long after getting it, you still have to consider many factors, to see if the energy and money spent on the undergraduate diploma and its effect on you are worth it.

If you have the opportunity to learn something, study hard, don't rush to work, it will be very tiring to work outside without any technology, and the salary is not high.

I've really learned from experience that finding someone who loves me can be relied on, and I once loved a woman vigorously, and in the end it was just a flower in the mirror.

It's complicated, ask yourself which outcome you prefer.

Cherish the person in front of you, the one who loves you is still by your side, but the other one may not be able to catch it, so it's better to choose a reliable one......

I don't think any of these two women are good.,Both have shadows.。。 Let's start a new relationship.

I think you should choose to love you, provided that you don't hate him, or you don't choose either, if you choose what you love, the one you love will also abandon your family for you. This has caused harm to his chain, family and children, and others will also talk about you behind your back. You're together, and it turns out that there's a lot of violence, and it's too late to regret it.

So it's best not to choose what you love. Satisfied.

If it's me, I'll choose to be loved, and I'll be very happy, and you'll be tired if you love.

I'm a little older than you, I studied information and networking in college, and the job I found after graduation was also marketing, sales, and I did it for three years, and now I am also a regional manager. In fact, I think it is best to find a job that has just graduated, and if you can't get the right job, there is no need to force it, after all, solving the problem of survival is the most important thing. Being young is an opportunity.

And doing the market is not so scary, on the contrary, it is the best place for recent graduates to accumulate contacts and wealth in the shortest time. What you lack now is a little bit of self-confidence, if you haven't done it, it doesn't mean that you can't do it well, there is nothing difficult in the world, but you are afraid of people with hearts. I'm sure you're okay.

It is really not easy to find a job now, and most of the majors that college students are looking for jobs are not right, or they only have a little connection with their major. Now that you have this opportunity, you should face it well, do it well, and do everything from rusty to proficient, I believe you will be able to adapt to it soon.

I answered this question too touching, because you can't ** yourself at every step of life, but as you said yourself, you don't know how to choose, but I don't think you need to be distressed or confused, you just choose a job you like to do Even if it's a dead end, you will naturally spare it, but you still get one thing - "experience" 25 years old, still young, what can't you lose, come on! ~

Choose good friends who are confidant, honest and honest with each other.

A true friend is to be by your side when you are sad to listen to your grievances, to cry with you, to share your happiness with you when you are happy, to give you a shoulder to rely on when you are tired, to accompany you when you encounter difficulties to find a way to solve the problem, to support you all the time, no matter how far away the distance is, a friend of the **, a warm greeting can make us feel infinite warmth ......Such a friend is a real friend, and such a friendship is a real friendship! Such friends are worth a lifetime of making!

There's a fundamental difference between a friend and a confidant, a friend may hurt you, but a confidant never will, just like yourself.

Choose someone who can share your adversity.