Enlighten your heart! I hope that the experts in psychology can help。。。。。

Updated on society 2024-04-15
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Find a good friend. She'll take you through the process of getting in touch with other classmates. It's normal for teachers to pay less attention to you than before in key high schools, and you will have to go through this stage sooner or later, and when you get to college, the teachers will definitely not revolve around you all day long.

    Studying in this place can't be said to be abandoned, the teacher conditions of key high schools must be better than ordinary high schools, you may feel inferior to others in the short term, but compared with the previous school classmates should be improved. It is recommended that you set a goal to catch up, watch her work hard every day, and her grades should come up, and the teacher will pay attention to you at that time. It should be impossible to transfer schools again, not only because of the trouble of parents, but also because the school probably can't let it be so tossed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's start with this, I'm not a psychologist, hehe.

    In fact, everyone needs to get used to a new environment for a while.

    At least make yourself happy. I think both classmates and teachers will like to be friends with a girl who loves to smile.

    Take control of your own mindset and don't let some irrelevant worries delay your learning progress.

    You're away from your parents now, and you don't have any friends in an unfamiliar learning environment.

    Sometimes it's normal to feel lonely and lonely. You need to adapt to an environment there, and you can't let the environment adapt to you.

    If you can't adapt to school, you'll really go crazy when you go out into society. Hehe.

    Personal advice dislike and ignore it down.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find a boyfriend, and the mood will naturally be good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is full of colours, so if you think it's the right thing to do, why care what others think?

    Does loving someone suggest that you care too much about the other person? I think if you don't care anymore, there is a problem.

    I wish you all the best.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is like sand, the tighter you grip it, the less you are left, give each other a little space, some trust, each other will become more relaxed and happy, if you don't trust her, then the tighter you grasp, it is also a test of your own burden, just add suspicion in vain.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that the love established on the basis of equality between two people will be warmer and happier, if you take the other person too seriously, then you will be a little more tired, as long as you are willing, it is not impossible. Secondly, you can also think about why you care more. She's better than you?

    Then make yourself better and be equal to her, so that you don't worry too much, and you will get along with him easily... In a word, find the gap, what is missing, what to make up... Finally, I wish you all happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Redirect your energy. If you care too much about certain people or things, you won't be able to see it

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Take it easy.

    The world is full of wonders.

    Openness is a state of mind and praise. Personally, I don't think the above behavior can be called openness, it can only be said to be superficial, or ignorant. But accepting all kinds of phenomena is an open mind.

    As for borrowing things from others, since they have borrowed them, as long as they do not spread diseases, it does not matter.

    If you don't sleep in the middle of the night, chat and type on the keyboard, you have to learn to adapt. It is really difficult to change others, and you can only change yourself. Since others in the same bed can tolerate it, then they can be silent, and so can you.

    Have fun.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't have a problem, but they have a strong animal nature.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I'm not an older brother or sister, and secondly, you don't need to care about other people's opinions, sometimes it's better to be alone and natural, if you don't want to, you don't want to, you can tell them that you have a certain degree of cleanliness, and the others are not because they are conservative, in fact, it's better, you are different from them because you are not the same as the public, that is your own habit, and there is no need to wear out your personality for others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Exercise more, play more basketball and leave them alone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, there is nothing to be afraid of in the high school entrance examination. After all, which high school you attend won't determine your future. No matter in **, as long as you make unremitting efforts, you will be able to succeed. Don't let yourself get knocked down! Pluck up the courage to face it, and you will succeed!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In fact, the high school entrance examination is nothing, and you will soon forget about him after the exam. If you are confident, you can treat it as an ordinary exam and do it as carefully as your homework. The exam is coming, so be careful not to get tired. Come on!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's good that your girlfriend has had a relationship experience. This kind of woman knows how to love better than a woman who has never loved. More tolerant and considerate. (I mean, in general, individual exceptions are beyond the scope of the discussion).

    Your girlfriend has never done something she shouldn't do, and that's even better! This indicates that the woman has a mature mind, and a fairly high level of self-control and moral standards.

    Are you still picky about such a good woman?

    Don't be too nitpicky, there is no such little dragon girl in the world waiting for you in the ancient tomb without eating the fireworks of the world, not to mention, you can't be Yang Guo.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, what is the most important thing for two people to be together? Is it his past? Or is it your love?

    Two people love each other! If you care so much about his past! I can suggest you to love the little ones in kindergarten!

    But even they have been kissed by many adults!

    Just love each other! The most important thing is who he or you love now!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since you love each other so much, you shouldn't care about her past, not to mention that nothing happened, just the normal reaction of love (hugging, kissing), you are also too sensitive. There is also love is the contribution of both parties, you are afraid that she will not last long, because you love her, and you must trust each other in love. It's yours in the end or yours, it's not your robbery and you can't get it, this is fate.

    Your girlfriend is telling you this because she is honest and if he doesn't say anything, you don't know.

    I also want to ask you, is your past really as pure as a blank sheet of paper?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Suddenly, as long as we are happy together, why think too much and make it tireless

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There's a big brother above who said it's very good! Feelings are built on mutual trust.

    Believe in her, believe in yourself, it is impossible for people to be without mistakes!

    Now that she's changed, shouldn't she be given a chance to do so?

    If you really can't let go, just separate. Because that's sooner or later. You wouldn't be here without trusting her!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A good GF is able to let go of the past in front of you, a good BF is able to forget her past and look forward to a new beginning, if you really can't let go, then you really have to think about whether your relationship is worth it. If you want to get it, you have to put down something before you can get it. After you let go, you can have the most sincere girlfriend and love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Too possessive, usually look at what things at home don't use and throw away, don't want to throw away, force yourself to throw away, in order to change yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Who hasn't passed it yet.

    Forget about it, huh.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I didn't intend to look at your question, and my psyche began to ache. I'm just like you.

    I fell in love with a girl at first sight. She was pure at the time. It's very simple, I haven't been touched by any man!

    I love her too. Then the two of us started dating. But it didn't take long.

    She's changed! She started lying to me. She's starting a relationship with another boy!

    This is a big blow to me, and I can't accept it. I saw them hold hands, hug and kiss that day! .

    I cried! It's sad to cry! I lost her!

    Lost the first time on her! I hate him! Hate that boy!

    Hate myself ..Seriously! I'm much worse than you)

    Then the boy dumped her. It could also be said that the boy had been playing with her!

    Half a year later, he and I started anew! But I can't forget the past! She can't forget it! I don't forgive her, but I can't lose her either!

    I swear I love her from the bottom of my heart!

    The two of us broke up the day before yesterday. It was she who came up with it. One of the reasons is that she can't forget her past.

    I cried that night. I still haven't gotten her.

    Nabs! I know how you feel! You're just like me!

    But I'm here to prove my sincerity to her! I took it! I chose!

    Whether she loves me or not, I will always love her. Even if I want to love him silently for the rest of my life, I am willing!

    So I want to say to you: if you're sure you're really new to her, you deserve it all! I'm sure you and her will be happy in the rest of our lives, and happiness will fade away the scars!

    I wish you both happiness!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hehe, friend, I used to be the same as you, I said on the surface that I didn't care, but I always cared in my heart, and then I gradually got better, tell myself to keep a normal heart, if I can't bear it, what will I do in the future, hehe

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone has a past, although she has had a few boyfriends but did not taste the forbidden fruit, it has been proved that she is a reserved girl and should cherish her. First love is precious, but sincere feelings are more precious than first love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There are very few people who have no experience in love now, and you are too dissatisfied.

    The most precious thing in the world is not 'unobtained' and 'lost', but happiness that can be grasped now.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why is it sad? Have low self-esteem or mind her past too much? Do you think she didn't deserve your first love before? Don't be too selfish

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Holy, brother! I'm worse than you, the girl I have a crush on has been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, guess what will happen ? Also, I'm vouching, I guess she won't be 80% likely.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since you don't mind being depressed, what are you doing!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's not sick and doesn't need to be corrected. You're not old enough to confirm your sexuality, and when you're in college and more mature at work, you're sure you don't have any feelings for girls.

    You just don't have to feel like it, and a lot of people have a good feeling for the same sex.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's not sick and doesn't need to be corrected. I'm embarrassed to go to the hospital Apply for a YY Go to the 6459 channel Find a teacher to find out The teacher inside is taught by phonetics, don't worry that others will know. I hope that your doubts will be solved when the time comes, and don't worry about the free ones.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What nonsense upstairs is talking about, homosexuality is not a disease? 250 Ah, misleading children, really.

    You'd better go to the hospital, even if there is a psychologist on the Internet, you don't know your actual situation, so it's definitely impossible to cure, find a professional psychologist to see, don't be afraid to be embarrassed, you will ruin your life because of embarrassment.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, I can tell you clearly that there is a truth to what the saying goes, so we can't deny it.

    So I think you're right, and you don't give up until the end. I don't know what your failures were, but I still believe in them. So I hope you don't run away and face it bravely.

    Tell you that no one is omnipotent, so everyone will experience failure. I'm the same, I'm a junior high school student, I'm facing the entrance exam in the third year of junior high school, to be honest, my grades are average, compared to others are very poor, every time I take the joint entrance examination, I make sandwich cookies, I hate this, so I want to change, although every failure is a blow to me, but I still wait for success to come. Maybe it's far away, but I still believe in one thing:

    In life, there must be success and failure, and when failure comes, success will not be far away (this is just my own opinion).

    Don't run away from your friends, you are not alone on the road to failure, stand up bravely.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I read a story the other day.

    An old man buys his own chicken nuggets, but no one appreciates them, no one cooperates with him.

    But after he failed again and again, on the 1004th time (it seems, but surely a thousand) someone cooperated with him and sold his chicken nuggets.

    That's the KFC that is now open everywhere.

    That old man was Colonel Sanders.

    There is also a more classic saying.

    You never know what the result will be if you don't try.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Dante said enough of a classic sentence. ‘go your own way;let others talk!‘

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Everybody, I think, complains to a greater or lesser extent that life is tiring, and that you are an ordinary mortal, not a saint, just like us.

    This psychological depression is mainly due to your inability to accept the reality in front of you. But the more people try to escape, the more miserable and tired they become.

    I read an article that said that there really is nothing to calculate in life. Which person I met one day, what happened at what time, what should have happened took a big turn, and I may suddenly lose my life. We should know that everything has its own cause, but we do not have any calculations in our own hearts because of you and me.

    The future, after all, has not yet come to the present, and in front of you, there are things you can do, settle down, only do the things in front of you, don't waste time, if you want to learn what a skill you want to learn, make up your mind to learn, even if the fate of the future, you don't need this technology to make money, let's keep it for spare, and we haven't wasted the time of our current life.

    The general social environment and one's own psychological quality are so fragile and indifferent. But no matter how everything changes on the outside, as long as you keep your own heart, let your heart be strong, and be content and happy. Look at the ...... selling steamed buns, vegetables, and melon seeds on the streetThe people, they are amazing, they use such hard work to support their lives and their families.

    They all want to make a lot of money, they all want something, and they don't want to endure hardship, so if this person doesn't have a good character, he can't get what he wants, hehe......

    Young man, you are still very young, and you don't know how long you will have to go on the road of life, don't rush to the road first, please calm down and polish the window of your heart. Look at those unfortunate people, look at those who are sick and suffering, we should be glad that we still have a healthy body!

    Be content.

    Set a study goal, it's never too late, really!

    I wish you peace, strength, happiness and happiness!

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