I m always told to wear dirt, I don t think they look good in clothes, right?

Let's be honest, why do you care so much about other people's opinions?

I wear mine, she wears hers, she thinks mine is not good-looking, of course I also think she is not good-looking, everyone has their own level of appreciation and dressing style, do they say that my clothes are old-fashioned, then I have to do what they want? How is it possible, I don't live for them.

They say that the soil I wear is the soil, she is a designer or a stylist, if it is, then I will admit that I wear the soil, but it does not mean that I have to care about their opinions, you say the soil is the soil, you wear it beautifully, you wear yours, and I don't comment on your dressing style and appreciation level.

It turned out that when I was young, some people told me that I must look good when I cut bangs, I went to the barber shop to cut my bangs, and went to school on Monday, and the result was that I cut my bangs and looked good, since I said it was ugly! You say it's annoying, the scissors are all cut, do you want me to pick it up, to be honest, I was really angry at the time, but after a week, they suddenly said, you have bangs are actually quite good-looking, maybe you are not used to it.

Later, I no longer care about other people's opinions, I am me, different fireworks, why do I have to follow the public to dress, why do I have to follow the public, what is popular to wear, I don't preference, what, when I go out, others will not let me go out because I am not wearing fashionable goods, not good-looking? That's certainly impossible.

So there's no need to care too much about other people's opinions, they can only say their thoughts and opinions, but the final decision is still in your hands. In fact, you think the other way around, they may be jealous of you, some people, they can't control your style, it's better to say that you wear dirt, so you can't wear it, don't care about their opinions, you have to do something different, you have to have a different style.

I think you have two options if you find yourself in this situation.

First, it may be true that your clothes are more earthy, not very in line with the current trend, and they are worn according to the current trend, but because you are not the same idea, so they think you are dirty, what about you, you also think they are not good-looking, in fact, if you encounter this situation, if many people say that you wear soil, and you can't accept them to say that you say this, I think you can actually take a good look at your style of dressing, and look at the popular way of dressing, Make some appropriate changes that you can accept, and read more fashion magazines, maybe the clothes will change, and then no one will say that you wear dirt.

Second, maybe you don't wear dirt, you and they are normal dressing styles, but because everyone's ideas are different, what you like in their eyes is unacceptable, they will say your soil, then I think if you don't mind, but also think you're very good, in fact, you don't have to care too much about the eyes of others, after all, you like the best, then it is impossible for everyone to wear clothes according to their dressing style, then everyone is the same but not popular, out.

So, I think all in all, this is caused by different personal ideas and opinions, so if you care about other people's opinions, you just follow what I said, it's really a matter of the soil you wear, just improve your clothes, and your dressing style will slowly change, so if you don't care about other people's opinions and feel that you like what you wear, then it's nothing, after all, everyone's taste is different.

I said, why do you care so much about other people's opinions? It doesn't matter if you're ugly or not, as long as you like your outfit, that's the right thing to do, and if others don't like your outfit, so what? Like you said yourself, other people's outfits aren't that good-looking, are they?

There are simply too many forms of dressing in this world, there is nothing to say at all, good-looking people look good in anything, and people who are not good-looking are ugly in beautiful clothes, so I don't think to cater to the eyes of others, I will wear how I think I am happy, and I don't care about others.

Dressing, it's like writing an article, you ask ten people to write, ten people will write different styles, so wearing clothes is the same, everyone will have a different style when they wear it, maybe some dressing styles are really suitable for you, you really look good when you wear them, but you don't like it yourself, then at this time it looks good to wear, in your eyes it is also a piece of clothing, but if you like it, then it is not just a piece of clothing in your eyes, isn't it?

Choosing clothes is the same as when we are in love, we will first choose what we like, and then choose the right one, I think no one will choose their own suitable first, and then slowly cultivate the relationship! So sometimes you really don't care about other people's thoughts, what you should care about is your own thoughts, will you be happy doing this? If you're going to be happy, you're doing the right thing.

Because you have to understand that the person who wears the clothes is you, not someone else, so it's good to be yourself and make yourself happy, okay?

It is normal to wear good-looking clothes and dress up beautifully, but some people want to dress themselves up in the dirt, and they will feel embarrassed if they dress up a little more beautifully. This phenomenon is a direct manifestation of the shame of dressing for work. The emergence of this phenomenon makes oneself disconnected from everyone's state in terms of dressing, making oneself appear other, and thus being greatly affected.

History....There are many reasons why this problem of shame in dressing for work arises. Specifically, it includes a lack of self-confidence, a fear of fully presenting oneself because of one's limited conditions, and a fear of wearing fashionable clothes because of social anxiety.

1. Shame on dressing for work due to lack of self-confidence.

For people with anxiety about dressing for work, the primary reason is a lack of self-confidence. ......These people lack self-confidence in themselves and always think that they are inferior, so they do not dare to dress too beautifully so as not to attract the attention of others.

2. Because of their own limited conditions, they dare not fully show themselves in front of others.

Some bad letters make people have anxiety about dressing for work because of their own limited conditions. ......Specifically, these people have deficiencies in their own conditions, and they will feel ashamed of themselves compared to others, so they are even more afraid to show themselves in terms of dressing up, and they dare not wear beautiful clothes in front of others.

3. Don't dare to wear fashionable clothes in front of people because of social anxiety.

Some people have shame about dressing for work because of social anxiety. ......For these people, they have defects in interacting with others and cannot communicate with others normally, so they are very worried that their clothing and other words and deeds will be too prominent and cause other people to be dissatisfied, so they deliberately wear some very rustic clothes to make themselves less conspicuous. ......In fact, these problems are unnecessary psychological problems, and you can dress up calmly according to your preferences, and the colleagues around you will not only not be dissatisfied with yourself, but will appreciate you very much.

Everyone has their own dressing style and characteristics, according to their own skin color and body characteristics, find the right outfit for themselves, you will not choose clothes that are not rustic, or you have to try more, different styles can be found right.

To try different colors of clothes, but also to try different styles of clothes, when buying clothes to buy textured, but also pay attention to the color matching, do not choose too bright.

You can take a look at Xiaohongshu, or chat more with friends around you who know how to dress, let them give you some advice, and slowly you will learn to dress and wear your own style.

In such a situation, I think you should learn how to dress from some fashionistas around you, or you can learn some dressing skills online to improve your clothes.

When buying clothes, try to buy clothes that have been matched, so that you can solve this problem and solve the trouble that you can't match.

Now that the Internet is developed, I deliberately go to see bloggers who are close to my body to learn how to dress.

If you always feel that your style of dressing is fashionable, but your friends feel that you are wearing dirty, it means that there is something wrong with your aesthetics and may be out of step with this era. At this time, you can also ask your friends for their opinions on your dressing style, and then make appropriate changes, so that your dressing style can be recognized by most people and make you look stylish.

It could be that there is something wrong with the aesthetics.

Everyone's aesthetic is different, and if you have a problem with your aesthetic, it will make your dressing style out of place and not get liked by friends and ordinary people. After all, our dressing is to be recognized by others, and if others do not approve, then you will also be very sad. So when there is a problem with aesthetics, there must be a correct aesthetic.

You can also ask your friends for their advice and make appropriate changes based on their advice. You can also combine your friends' opinions, and then match your own aesthetics, match a set of clothes, and see if this set of clothes can be recognized by friends. If you get the approval of your friends, it means that your previous style of dressing is indeed problematic.

It may be that the clothes you are wearing are too miscellaneous and look dirty.

When dressing, it is best not to wear colorful clothes, such as wearing red shoes with green, blue tops and white pants. This combination will look very strange, make you look earthy, and it will not be fashionable at all. So fashion is not colorful, but simple, we can wear 2 or 3 colors on the body, not too much, too much will look ugly.

For example, we can wear a white shirt with a black jacket, white shoes and black pants, so that it will look very simple and stylish.

Summary. When others don't approve of your dressing style, you can also make appropriate changes and not be too stubborn. After all, your aesthetic is different from most people, and we have to cater to most people's tastes.

In fact, everyone's dressing style is different, according to their own dressing style, with a little advice from others, choose clothes that suit their figure, which is the most suitable.

This is because your outfit doesn't fit your style, so it makes people look very out of place, so it will give people this impression.

Because you don't have a good match, and you don't have the temperament, you can't wear a coat, so people will feel that way.

In fact, wearing clothes looks at the overall temperament, and what is conveyed to others should be the spiritual outlook.

1. Therefore, it is necessary to first determine the gyrus limb and facial surface.

Whether the answer is natural, even the smile is stiff will make people mistakenly think that you are nervous, and don't hunchback;

2. Good clothes with good hairstyles and accessories, don't think that a trendy brand can be very stylish, but a bad hairstyle can ruin it in an instant;

3. Appropriate men's eau de toilette, try Armani or CK's men's eau de toilette, which is very attractive to the opposite sex;

People with temperament look good in anything, even if it is a yuan H&M round neck T, they will wear it well!

Let's wear chiffon clothes, which are not fat and feminine.

I suggest zhi

You chiffon, silk, dao, cotton, linen and the like.

It's comfortable and beautiful. Appearance.

In terms of color, choose a color that makes people look cool and not oppressive, such as aqua blue. It's a beautiful color with clean and simple blue washed jeans.

Then comb your hair fresh and refreshing.

If you want to make people look ladylike and cute, then tie a ponytail loosely, black straight hair If you want to look restrained and quiet, short brown hair, pay attention to the natural kind, you must come naturally again is plain face without makeup, natural and clean.

It will give people a refreshing and refreshing feeling that is not tired of looking.

All of the above is my own experience with matching.

I'm 1.62 meters tall and slightly chubby.

It's better for girls to be refreshing, naturally colorant-free girls.

This shows that your taste has risen du

It's hard to say the specifics, you can go here to see the "skin color and clothing" that I talked about.

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Visit the mall more often, and I'm sure you'll find your own style.

Be a little temperamental, don't bend over and hunch, watch more Korean dramas and learn from the handsome guys in it.