Should I do something or act like nothing happened 30

The woman said to you that your boyfriend was out there with an oh woman or something, maybe she just wanted to stir up trouble inside Don't trust her too much Your boyfriend said that she was "naughty" does sound a little ambiguous, at least he doesn't hate her.

On the one hand, warm up your relationship, start from the subjective, and on the other hand, restrict him and her, such as when they go out to eat and sing, or something? Have a good talk with your boyfriend, just say that the text message is your privacy, don't let him show her, it's a matter of principle and you don't want to make this kind of joke.

The life circle of two people who are in love should not be two parallel lines that do not intersect, you should try to understand and enter his life circle, know more people around him, since you have smelled the ambiguous smell, you should always take action, the office romance itself has a great advantage in time and space, stand by his side generously, let those who have ideas really feel your existence, and at the same time find something from the other party that may be what he appreciates or prefers and you just lack, It will definitely help your relationship.

Wishing you happiness!

You need to talk to him seriously, not because of a little girl, but because he doesn't care, be careful, don't trust anyone.

She's good, but she can't compare to you. Otherwise, how would he be with you? Have faith in yourself.

Don't push too hard, otherwise it will only expose your distrust of him and make him disgusted and resistant. Imagine, who wants someone who doubts themselves all day?

Don't let misunderstandings get in the way between you. Trust him first, maybe it's just a simple relationship. He tells you that the other person may like him because he wants to make you nervous about him, or he wants to try your reactions

is also a little girl, and she is really not reserved at all. I'm so ashamed of this little girl. Knowing that someone else has a girlfriend, and he doesn't know him well, he still teases people like this, and he really doesn't know which nerve is misplaced.

And your boyfriend also has a problem, and the last sentence you said shows that his balance has begun to tilt!!

Why is that woman like this!? There's something wrong with your boyfriend, but...How do you feel that they will really have something in the future! Find a chance to talk to your boyfriend!

Communication is important!! Tell him all your thoughts, your worries, your worries, and see how he reacts...Wishing you happiness!

I once let time go by, from toddler to learner, from youth to young age. Along the way, there are few who take the initiative to attack, and many who are forced to destroy. Inadvertently people get old, inadvertently miss, inadvertently lose.

Inadvertently, so many inadvertently folded in life. As long as I look back a little, I always find that there are a lot of ideas in my heart, and very little practice. I want to cook more meals for my parents, read more good books, do a good job, buy more clothes for my grandparents, send more blessings to my beloved teachers, want to see the flowers that miraculously bloom in spring, want to experience a rainy night, want to do a hike to grow my soul, want to return kindness, want to spread warmth, and want to help friends ......It is rare to have these states of mind, but in the end, only the state of mind is empty after all.

Time does not live up to you and me, and the years will not go by. What you do is always growing, but what you think about is withering.

If the Buddha and Jesus just sat and talked and never understood the suffering of the world, they would lose the hearts of the people. Because what is separated from people's hearts will eventually be abandoned by people's hearts, if it seems to be in disguise in front of you, then you just need to wait and see how it goes.

Looking at the world, there are many people who have ambitions, but there are very few people who put ambitions into action. Because I want to be a root and a bud, if you want to become a towering tree, you have to go through the ups and downs of doing it. In ordinary people, there are many people with good hearts and good thoughts, but very few people with good karma.

There are many people who have unpaid careers, and there are very few who dream of sleeping at night and persevering in hard work. We always lack a little courage to do a little easy thing. The difficult things in the world will be made easy, and the big things in the world will be made in the details.

There's a lot we can do.

The world is happy and sorrowful, with smiles and tears. In the countdown of life, we have too few smiles from our hearts, insufficient tears from the truth, far-fetched smiles, and self-deception buried in sorrow. In a short life, after death, it is just a handful of loess.

There will not be many echoes in the waves of history that will be stirred by you. Why should the filament restrain the sunshine of life and hide in a corner that is neither cloudy nor sunny. We are not the masters of life, but we are the masters of our destiny.

As long as we look for it from the most sincere place of our hearts, we will surely be satisfied. There is a way when you turn back, and there is light when you go forward. Before we regret it, before everything comes, we should take action.

And the places we walk through are bound to bloom in spring.

Sometimes we really have the mentality that we know what we should do, and we know that we have to do it, but it's hard for us to act on it. Most people will also feel endless regrets and regrets after having a good time. Here are three of the main reasons for this behavior.

First, people's procrastination.

Speaking of the topic of procrastination, I believe that everyone has this problem, after all, procrastination is really a difficult problem to cure, I have procrastination since I was a child, during the school period my homework is delayed until Saturday night will stay up late to make up the homework, and when I grow up, I always delay it until a few hours before the deadline to be able to complete it, I personally think this is actually a very bad behavior, but it is difficult to correct, This is what we know very well about what we should do, but it is difficult to take action, and even take action, just because we are forced to do it.

Second, people's inertia.

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Many people can't escape this lazy word, especially with the fast pace of life now, people are always busy with their own things, but sometimes we are busy and don't know why, this is what we often do, we know what we should do, but when we do it, we always think that this thing can be put on the go, and then we will go to do another thing, and even pass the time by playing with the mobile phone, and wait until after playing with the mobile phone for a day, At night, I reflect on my laziness during the day. I'm a very homesick person, so that's a daily routine for me, but I'm always trying to find ways to improve.

3. People's herd mentality.

Speaking of herd mentality, everyone is no stranger. When you make up your mind to set a lot of goals for yourself, and the people around you are unwilling to learn, and have been indulging in playfulness and pleasure, then it is difficult for you to continue to persevere, and even put into action, for example, when I start during the holidays, I will set a lot of goals for myself, but when I see the people around me playing, I will unconsciously join them, because I feel that I don't play, it seems to be incompatible with them. In fact, when I grow up, I find that excellent people are often lonely, and only by being very firm in their psychology can they really become an excellent person.

All in all, I think that sometimes we know what we should do, but it is difficult to put it into action, and I suggest that you find someone with strong self-control to supervise yourself. This will most likely help us relieve our symptoms.

Because there is procrastination, and people have laziness and luck, although they know what to do, but they are not willing to put in the effort, so it is difficult to put it into action.

It is because he is unwilling to do this in his heart, and he is not willing to pay for you, so he will be very clear in his heart, but he is unwilling to take action.

Because of the laziness of the heart, it is always difficult to put it into action. In this case, you should overcome your laziness and take action on your ideas.

<> this kind of untrustworthy behavior will inevitably be spurned by everyone. When a person is in the world, he must seek truth from facts, work on the ground with pure and spare time, and realize his promise is the minimum starting point of being a man.

A wise man once said, "If you bend high and don't act, even the most beautiful and practical philosophy in the world will not be able to be practiced in you." Writer Yang Daxia revealed that action is the best plan for a loose ruler. Troubled tombs.

If you don't take action, then you must continue to take action, and if you don't take action, you don't know the result.

It's hard to talk about feelings, so tell him if you don't want to, and let him know that you like him.

It's harder not to love someone, and it's suspicious because after parting, Qin Luhong is afraid that your love will be deeper and stronger, and you will have nowhere to confide, at least you can't talk to the person you love anymore.

Lack of power + too much resistance (or the difference in power between the two is not great).

The usual resistance is:

1. Lazy habits.

2. Pursue perfection.

Just like when we drive through a street, we will pass through a lot of red lights and green lights, and people who pursue perfection have to wait until all the green lights are on before driving and walking, but the result can be imagined from dawn to dark, and all the green lights are not on. The pursuit of perfection is fine, but it should be used as a measure of outcome, not at the beginning of the world or in the process of action. There is a phrase that is useful in breaking the wait:

Finish first, then perfect.

3. Unrealistic fantasies.

The unrealistic fantasy here refers to the fact that the human brain will mistakenly think that many things that the human brain knows or sees and is familiar with are easier to check or that they already know and possess them. I also summarize this problem as the resistance to action, because the human brain is often deceived by these imaginary illusory things, and mistakenly thinks that it no longer needs to take action or effort, and that it has achieved or possessed it. So before we recognize this phenomenon, it is also an obstacle to our actions.

The above three points are three of the more common obstacles that prevent people from taking action. Of course, there are many motivations to take action, and it will vary from person to person. Many people have a strong desire to act when they are persecuted or when they are being attacked.

Some people have a strong desire to love something. Some people will also have a strong desire to act because their hearts are full of certain ideals. But among the drivers of action, I think interest, passion, or vision are the best drivers.

There are a lot of new things happening in this world every day, and the major ** and platforms attract your attention and encourage you to try.

You also have a lot of ideas, such as self-improvement, starting a side hustle, developing hobbies, etc., but you never take action, and you feel tired when you think about it.

It's not because the information is too complicated for you to focus; It's because your mind is so chaotic that you want everything, so it feels like information is cluttered and coming at you, and you can't tell what you really need.

It's not because you're too tired to do what you want to do; It's because you have a lot of entanglements in your heart, such as fear of difficulties, such as perfectionism, and you haven't taken action all the time, and you haven't landed what you want to do, so your heart is bright and bright, and you're tired.

There are some things that need to be thought the other way around. When I figured it out, I felt like I slapped my thigh.