How can a person who can t do heavy things and can t do light things live?

How can a person who can't do heavy things and can't do light things live, then he can't do anything and can't take on anything. I think you can reason with him, let him re-understand life, and make him realize that people must be responsible in life, and don't be lazy. Be responsible for yourself.

Because there is a lot of road to go in the future.

Then you can open up another wonderland, you can do something that interests you, such as making some handicrafts and selling them.

If you can't do anything, you can survive, and you should have relatives and friends to help you. Or a subsidy.

Such people actually lack pressure, so they can't do heavy work, don't want to do light things, and wait for pressure in the future.

If you can't do it with attention, you can't do it with contempt, and you can't pick and choose everything you do, you won't be able to do anything.

Then you should still do some work that does not allow you to use physical strength, so that you can also meet your own needs.

After you fail, you know how to live in the future.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

A person who can't do heavy things, but actually can't do them, means that this person doesn't work hard at all, and life will not be good.

This way, you won't have the opportunity to exercise. You'd better quit your job and find a job that will be reused, money is secondary, and exercise is the most important. Otherwise, when you get old, you will be a gatekeeper. Because you have developed skills.

The landlord doesn't have to be nervous, just do your job quietly, whether it is work or life, it is very important to have a good mood, so be optimistic to face it! Come on, landlord!

There are several reasons for this.

1.This person is an old man and can do it left and right.

2.The ability to handle work matters is better than yours.

3.It may be a relative or acquaintance with the boss.

4.Maybe there is a backstage background that the boss does not dare to offend and wants to befriend with him.

Do your job well, don't worry, if you really can't do it, you can resign, but be cautious when resigning.

I think you should have heard an old story, calm down and see what advantages that colleague has that you are worthy of learning, strive to improve yourself, and reach an irreplaceable position in the unit.

Let him do a good job, do his job well, work hard to improve himself, gold will always shine, learn more from the strengths of others, and express himself appropriately when he has the opportunity.

Why didn't you say it earlier! I thought you were lazy, so I didn't ask you to do things, for fear of tiring you, but in fact, I cherish you, that fool, and let him deserve to be tired.

Can't wait! Take it easy! As long as you do your job well, it will be fine one day.

It depends on whether someone else is better than you? Or will people be in relationships? Everything in the world has a cause and an effect.

Keep doing your job and the boss will see it.

Just do your own thing.

Then just work hard and do your job.

Look at the changes and accidents around you, the main thing is to go with the flow and wait and see. Talk to people you trust!

Selfish and prone to doing extreme things.

At least he himself is happily free.

Almost, if you have time, take a look at Luo Yonghao's "Mein Kampf". I remember in my third year of high school, I watched it and was deeply touched. Also, a word for friends, in "Hitchhiking to Berlin":

There are some things that you don't do now, and maybe you won't do them in your lifetime; When you decide to do something, the whole world will make way for you!

I can only say to give some advice, your situation is similar to procrastination, I also have it, this needs to remind yourself to do something well, there is no other good way, as for planning your life, no one can help you, what can tell you is, first ask yourself, what you can do, what you like to do, what you are good at, after these three questions are clear, you will understand very well what you need to do in front of you, what you need to do most in the future, and more importantly, you need motivation to do those things, As for the motivation in **, I'm afraid only you can know.

Regarding life, those who are most anxious to do should be done first, and if they are not in a hurry, they will be the last. It's a good idea to make a daily schedule that divides the things you have to do each day, remember not to fill up the time, and set aside some free time to deal with emergencies. As for life, we have to plan from the general direction, and then slowly straighten out other details.

Here's my method, I don't know if you're the right fit!

As long as you maintain a self-motivated and learning mentality, everything will fall into place. The simpler life is, the happier it is, set yourself a goal that is both happy and meaningful, then plan the goal, and finally make a work plan. Personal opinion, for reference only.

Many things now seem to be not planned, but determined by fate, in fact, it is not bad to be at peace with what happens.

For books, you can take a look at "N Habits of Successful People" and so on.

You can read a book on psychology, or find a classmate or friend who studies psychology to talk about, maybe there are unexpected effects.

Your situation is general, and my idea is: set a goal (direction) first, first ask yourself what you are very eager to do? What kind of person do you want to be, how much is worth to tens of thousands, or live this life ordinarily.

Then go in that direction to achieve your life goals.

Live in today's square, close the door behind you, you just have to live today and do what you have to do.

You can take a look at "Parchment Roll".

Do the things at hand first, and then think about the next one, and it is very powerful to be able to do the things at hand.

Write a notebook and follow the form. Just take your time.

Then write a plan before doing it, and then follow the process you wrote step by step.

If you are aware of this problem, it is enough to show that you are very motivated, and you should pay attention to it at work.

First of all, position yourself, and secondly, do the work that suits you, and do things in a down-to-earth manner.

Make a plan, preferably by writing it down.

Just write down what you want to do on a piece of paper and sort them according to their importance.

Before you do something, clear your mind and think carefully.

I can't be in a hurry, and I'm also sick.

After going through more periods, it will gradually get better.

If you ask this question, you can't solve it yourself.

When you are really facing life and death, you know that feeling, and taking things too seriously is not only cautious, but also a little calculating. Because no one can guarantee that others will not do wrong.

This has to do with a person's genes, innate character, and acquired personality, and many factors will despise many people and many things.

Everyone has everyone's opinion, which is related to life experience, some people are not highly educated, and they feel that it is a terrible thing when they encounter some small things, because their education is not high and their ability is limited, so in the eyes of most people, small things may be magnified, and some highly educated people encounter small things, because he has the ability to solve them, so he does not think it is a thing.

Because everyone's experience is different, and the family growth environment is different, her thoughts will be different and related to her personal personality and mind. So different people have different opinions about the same thing. It's a manifestation of his heart.

This is the highest level of people, learning, summarizing, having their own opinions, daring to undertake, and constantly doing it, they can achieve this state.

This is related to each person's personality and temperament, life experience, life experience, knowledge and vision, and the ability to lead the way.

Some people don't care about things, don't use their brains, don't care about the consequences of gains and losses, and people who don't have hearts and lungs don't pay attention to everything, and it doesn't matter, everything goes naturally, and they don't care about good or bad, and accept their fate.

And some people are more steady, cautious, afraid of making mistakes, take everything seriously, and never perfunctory, so they will value everything, which is also a responsible person.

I think it's too serious, and I think it's cautious, because what? Because, only people with a careful eye will take things so seriously, and people with big hearts will not care too much about anything, so taking things too seriously is not only a careful eye but also a little careful. Because no one can guarantee that others will not do wrong.

Therefore, more understanding, tolerance, and sea connotation can make you have a wide range of interpersonal relationships and make friends all over the world.

It depends on each person's personality. There is a situation in society. You will meet all kinds of people.

Not surprising. There are big and small things. Some people are calculating.

This and personality traits are key. No one knows when something will happen. Life is a long way.

It's good to take it slowly. Live your life.

I deeply feel regret, so I hate and feel very sorry for people who regret the past. The past was a swamp quagmire, and the more you struggled, the deeper you sank.

I hope there is a person like you, like the refreshing wind in the mountains, like the warm light of the ancient city, from early morning to night, from the mountains to the study, as long as it is you in the end, it will be good.

Chronic, coarse-hearted people take things lightly, acute, small-hearted people, small things are also very important, there is no flame mountain that can't be passed, no need to worry, light and heavy can be solved slowly...

The personality is different, some people are very important, many things can't be figured out, and they belong to pessimism, which may complicate simple problems, and it is particularly difficult to think about small things! But some people are more optimistic and cheerful, and when they encounter problems, they will think of it as very optimistic, very positive, and have a positive attitude!

We all have to be optimistic and cheerful people. Positive mentality!

It has to do with the personality of the individual. Some people are open-minded, while others can't. Needless to say, good things can be tolerated, and things that are unfavorable to oneself can be tolerated because of weak character.

Some people, big and small, can afford to put down, this kind of person is more extroverted, some people, when they encounter a little thing, they have no master, irritability, heavy hearts, can't eat and sleep, this kind of people, mostly extroverted, take things too seriously. In short, the difference in people's personalities forms people's different views and attitudes towards things.

This is related to the personality and mind of the person, people with a big personality and mind do not take things seriously, on the contrary, they take it seriously.

If it's someone to trust, talk to him. Think about whether you really take it too seriously. In fact, there are some things that you can do well, don't think about what will happen to them, treat them with a normal heart, take them too seriously is to worry about yourself, troubles are given to yourself, and happiness is the same.

May you be happy.

This is different from everyone's personality and the way they look at everything, but it is important when it should be heavy, and light when it should be light.

You can only look at things on their own merits, and you can't think too much about them, otherwise you will increase your troubles and complicate things.

Because everyone looks at things from a different angle, is in a different position, and each person's experience and vision is also different, so the view on the same thing is of course different.

The angle of view is different from the heart. It depends on your own factors and the factors of the external environment.

It is estimated that it should be divided into three situations, one is the mentality, the mentality determines the degree of looking at things, some people are born without heart and lungs, they don't look at anything seriously, the sky falls and there is a tall top, and some people are cautious, naturally cautious, and they take everything seriously. The second is the attention class, only those who are related to themselves pay attention, and those who have nothing to do with themselves do not care, and hang high if they have nothing to do with themselves. The third is the superficial class, some of which are different from the inside and the outside, and they seem to be bearish, but in fact, there are no doubts.

So let's analyze it in detail.

Indeed, some people take many things very seriously and care about everything, but they lose the big because of the small. Or if you have lost a lot of things that you still care about, but you can't care about anything, what else can you mean in this world? I don't think it's going to extremes.

25 years old is still early to make a living.

It's the same as being 25 years old, and it's very similar to what happened to you.

Generally yes, you can't be emotional when you do big things.

You don't have the power to control the power of Shishina, how many people are going to be harmed, how many people are to be given up, what can you get from the land nucleus, if you don't have the feelings of the race, what's the point of living?

Well, because there are bad people, I can't bear to be expelled, and in the end I was harmed!

Xuexue: If you ask another question, I still have to answer hehe.

Hello, can you tell us about the specifics, such as breaking other people's things or what?

Just remember it in your heart, and you must think twice before doing things in the future.