Why are there so many female singles now, and the conditions are not bad

Female singles have their own requirements, and if everyone's living standards go up, there will be high spiritual requirements, and if you can't find a satisfactory one, you can only be single. Hope.

It's not that they don't want to, but they can't find the pick-up man for others to play with the leftovers.

Women's horizons are getting wider and wider, and they have seen many, many excellent men in this world, so they can't look down on ordinary men.

If you want to have a car, be handsome, have a sense of justice, and be very rich, the only thing you can find is "Ultraman playing chess in the bank".

In general, there are more men than women in China, but they are all clustered, and some circles are all women, and some circles are all men. There are certain differences between the concept of single girls and married, often many girls get married and leave the circle of friends, so single and single, with similar words, are all tied together, and so are boys. You think your circle is full of girls, maybe a whole bunch of men elsewhere are lamenting where the women have gone.

Quite simply, there are few women.

The first reaction is that women are demanding. But that's just one-sided. In the real society, there are more leftover men than leftover women, and now there are more strong women, and there are many people who don't want to get married early.

Some of the men are also **single is the best. Of course, it still depends on the criteria for choosing a mate. Some people don't give in when they don't meet their hearts.

Because there must be a woman in the world before she can have offspring. Ha ha.

Who can say for sure? There are many unstable relationships between men and women now, they are just playing, they are together today, and they will be separated tomorrow. God knows how many men and women will be singles in the annual meeting!

Man: Woman: 100, do you say there are many singles?

Because of a lot of factors.

But because the traditional concept of patriarchy is more serious.

As a result, the gender gap is relatively large.

But the gap will be reduced gradually.

The main reason is that China's family preference for sons is too serious, and it is better to have one family plan, and of course there are more boys than girls when one child is born.

Upstairs What jzghrb said made me feel that society was super unfair.

It's too picky and realistic for a woman to be too picky and realistic if she can't get married.

Men who can't marry a wife are mostly too poor and incapable, or too infatuated.

Well, that's too extreme

Boys also have drug abuse @* %% of the bar

If you say that what you encounter is like this, it can only mean that you are not ladylike and cannot represent anything

ps: You directly bl it's quite popular in Tanmei

Or be single

At present, the development of the rural areas is gradually catching up, and the living standards of the rural people in Laoshou have also improved compared with before. In the past, there were not so many rules when they got married, but now that the living conditions are better, people are not satisfied with being satisfied with food and clothing, but want to pursue a better life. Therefore, parents definitely don't want their daughters to be wronged in life after marriage, so the first condition when getting married is to have a house and a car, and this is also one of the hard conditions for marriage now, so many young people with poor family conditions retreat directly.

First, physiological factors. Some people are born with physical diseases, which not only seriously affect their daily life, but also seriously affect their future marriage. For the average family, this is definitely adding insult to injury.

Some families spend a lot of money just **, if they marry a daughter-in-law again, they can't get that much money at all, and almost no one in a normal girl wants to marry a physically defective person, unless the man's family is particularly rich.

The second type is that the family is particularly poor. There is a family in our village, and my mother is physically disabled and can only do some light farm work. The father and son can't save much money for a year, and the mother usually needs a lot of money every year to take medicine.

Many matchmakers in the village didn't dare to tell him matchmakers at all, and they couldn't say anything about this situation.

I heard from the people in the village that a matchmaker had told a girl with a physical disability, but as soon as they saw this situation, they were immediately scared away. In this way, year after year, now the man is in his forties, and now there is no girl willing to marry him, even if there is a willing woman to ask for a child, he may not be able to get such a high bride price now. The stick is also forced to be helpless.

Third, some people deserve to be guilty of personal factors, and this kind of person is the least worthy of sympathy and pity.

There are some singles who can't marry a daughter-in-law completely because they are lazy and lazy, and they are idle all day long, either playing cards or wandering around. What girl would marry such a person?

There is such a person in our village, his parents are healthy, and his health is also great, when he has no money, he goes to find a factory to work, and when he has money in the last few months, he squanders it, and he doesn't report when he leaves, and suddenly he doesn't go to work, and so on, and now there is no factory nearby that dares to use him. Farming is also three days of fishing, and two days of drying nets. These people are simply self-inflicted.

Personally, I feel that it has become an indisputable social fact that it is difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner, and some people say: "It is difficult for young people in rural areas to find a partner, and it is difficult to go to the blue sky," although it is a bit exaggerated, but it does reflect this relatively severe social phenomenon. The reasons for this are as follows:

1 Family difficulties: Now the common reason is that the family with children is still relatively difficult, most of the older unmarried, he has a characteristic of Duan Zifu is that the family conditions are a little poor, the reason for family poverty has become the most important reason for rural boys to find a partner, and the girl's family hopes to find a better condition.

2, the bride price is too high: even if the boy and the girl are successful in the blind date, but they will have to give up because of the high wealth book split, so the high bride price is still caused by the poverty of the family, the poorer some places, the higher the bride price of the woman, some girls have a more difficult family, the family or has an older brother, the younger brother also needs money to get married, and even because of marriage, the family owes a lot of foreign debts, so the girl marries in order to ask for more bride price to alleviate family poverty.

3, the imbalance between men and women: more men and fewer women, because of the current situation in our country, especially in the countryside, used to be patriarchal, the old ideas are more serious, although there are some improvements, but there are still remnants, more than 20 years ago the country implemented family planning, although almost two children in the countryside, but there are still more boys than girls, because the rural preference for sons over daughters has a relationship, so it is difficult for boys to marry daughters-in-law now, girls in the countryside do not worry about marrying, even if it is a second marriage, it is very sought-after, In the era when wolves have more meat and less meat, there are naturally more singles.

4, the problem of personality: many men beat the bachelor part of it is because of their own reasons, the boy is too honest, elm pimple, can't speak, don't know how to coax girls, and even don't know how to date, give girls the feeling that there is no mood at all, marrying this kind of person is equivalent to marrying wood, there is no difference, there are often a lot in the countryside, because of saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, being rejected by the woman's family, now there are many boys and girls together, will not coax girls to be happy out, go out to play and stingy, Those who are not willing to spend money will not brew romance.

Let's start with the first set of data: the sex ratio of students.

It is easy to see from the data that there are more boys than girls in the number of students in schools.

Let's look at the second set of data: gender differences in student academic achievement.

It is easy to see from the data that, except for history, where boys have a slight advantage over girls, girls have an advantage over boys in all other subjects, and language subjects such as Chinese and English are overwhelmingly advantageous. Our education and examination methods are more conducive to girls to win.

The resulting phenomenon is that there are more male babies than female babies, and the academic performance of female babies is higher than that of male babies, and the result is that more female babies have obtained high academic qualifications, resulting in more men and fewer men, more women and fewer women, and finally lead to the remaining high women and low men. This relationship can be visualized by the following diagram:

This is the systemic mechanism of increasing the number of poor rural singles, and at the same time the increasing number of leftover women in large and medium-sized cities.

There is a joke that says: C woman is looking for A, B is looking for man, B woman is looking for A man, A woman is looking for ......, No, other people's families are too fast.

It is expected that the social problems caused by education (gender stratification caused by further education), family planning (gender screening), and household registration (which causes a large number of left-behind children) will become more prominent in the next 20 to 30 years.

There are so many singles in their hearts all over the country, and many people can't find women when they enter the factory, because there are very few women now, and even fewer women are suitable for themselves.