Why I still can t forget my former boyfriend, what should I do

Many times you love is just a habit, you just fall in love with your memories, loving someone is a very fast thing, but forgetting a person is a very long thing, you need not only time, but also your own heart to make, not long ago I was the same as you, between love and hate, I thought about a person, but, do you understand, feelings are not going back, really, even if it is remedied, the residue of the scar is there, sometimes I will ask myself this question, but it is better to die completely, Everyone will have someone who should be there in their destiny, so wait, I wish you happiness.

Gently I came here and saw your thorny question, the problem of feelings has always been difficult to explain clearly, and there is you in his pain in despair.

Let's ask the vast sentient beings, who doesn't want to love for a long time?

Except that you don't know that facts are facts after all, why are you so obsessed.

Sweet memories turn into pain, and the only way is to erase them with time.

When the mountains are full of flowers, the sun is still shining, and there is also the coming date of Prince Charming.

Finally, I would like to send you my heartfelt wishes:

A lifetime of happiness, flowers all the way, accompany you ......

Gently I left here again, taking with me the joy of helping others and the little score of 2 points.

Find another one you like, start a new relationship, and slowly forget it.

It's normal not to forget. Because you once truly loved him! You must forget about him now, though! You must not think that he is kind to you!! You have to think of what he did wrong!! Think about it again and there is someone somewhere who needs your love!!

If you can't be together, it means that you are not worthy, so you should find another one

If it's not possible to start over, find a new one.

Find someone who is better for you, my girlfriend just took refuge in me and she's doing well now.

Find a group of friends to spend this painful time with you, and make friends without friends.

Some people say that if you can't forget your ex-boyfriend, it must be that your ex is not good enough, and people who hold this kind of opinion think that if your current boyfriend is good enough to you and better than your ex-boyfriend in every way, how can you not forget? At first glance, this seems to have some truth, but it ignores the essence of love. Love is not taking, there is also giving, love is a matter of two people, maybe the current boyfriend is good, a hundred times better than the ex-boyfriend, but the real lover, can you tell him **good or **bad?

If you can say it, is it still pure love? Therefore, I believe that some people can't forget their ex-boyfriend, because the love that the other party gave you, or your dedication, is unforgettable, and it is not so easy to forget.

There is such a sentence: "After I met you, I cherish it very much, after breaking up with you, it's not that I won't meet someone better than you, it's just that after meeting you, I don't want to meet anyone else." Being together is fate, and breaking up is also non-partial, although they are together because of love, but breaking up is not necessarily because of love.

Therefore, if you can't forget each other after a breakup, it's not necessarily because your current boyfriend isn't good enough, it may be that the other party's love for you or your own dedication is more unforgettable, no matter how far you develop with your current boyfriend, there will be a place left for your ex-boyfriend in your heart, not that you have to be with him, but you just miss the time when you were together, beautiful, regretful, and unforgettable.

So, if I were you, I would be brave enough to accept a new love, but only if I wouldn't miss my ex-boyfriend. People can be selfish sometimes, but sometimes they also have to take care of the feelings of other people around you, you can choose not to forget your ex-boyfriend, but you can't break the heart of the person who likes you, if you can't let go of the past, even if you start a new relationship, you just hurt a person who loves you again in the same way.

In fact, it's not that you can't forget because you love each other too much, but because you care too much about the previous payment, because you really loved, because you have been with each other, but in the end there is no good result, so you have nothing to let go of, and you can't forget. This doesn't mean that you really love each other, it's just a little unwilling.

Are you unwilling, do you love each other very much for this relationship or because of your unwillingness after separation, you have to distinguish what you are, how much you love him when you are together, and the kind that you can't forget after separation?

It should be because you love each other too much, so you will never forget it, and at this time you should go to your ex-boyfriend again.

Not necessarily. Sometimes you can't forget a person, maybe that person has too much influence on you, and the emotions are too complex to forget.

Yes, it may be because two people have a lot of experiences when they are in contact, and it is also because the memories are more unforgettable, so they will always remember it.

I can't forget it, because your heart has been accustomed to the existence of the other party, if you still can't forget, then you can chase her back, in this life, you may have recognized him as a person, it is impossible to find another person, in this case, why not go again?