I feel unbalanced in my heart, who will enlighten and enlighten me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are some things that you may have great mood swings at the time, but after a period of calming down, you may feel that there is no need to be angry when you look back at this matter calmly. First of all, you have to figure out what the real reason for your anger is, if it's not because it's not a lot of money, then I advise you that you don't need to be so persistent. In fact, your friend may be born in the 80s or 90s, and self-centeredness is a common problem, maybe he still cares about you in his heart, but he just doesn't want to show it.

    You really treat him as a friend, and you should be more tolerant. In this case, if something similar happens you should let him know that you are unhappy at that time, if he is still indifferent, then snub her for two more days, and he still doesn't react, it is estimated that he really does not regard you as a friend in his heart, and it is natural for you to give up on him at this time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he's fine because you're sending money to him, I think you should choose to give up. There's a saying that goes like this. What should be given up is helplessness, what should not be given up is inability, what should not be given up is ignorance, what should not be given up is obsession, what should not be given up is persistence!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friends are used to make friends, if she is really very unkind to you and does not know how to cherish friendship, just keep your distance appropriately. I hope you all have fun.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, I also think, and if you are always good to her, she will take it for granted, and if you play with you just for your money, this kind of friend should be cautious......

    Was she helpful to you? If you have never been, think that long pain is better than short pain, and give up this friendship......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do friendships need to be measured in money?

    Just be nice to her, and spend money for her as much as possible, which should still be easy to do.

    Some people just love to take advantage of small advantages, and there is no way, and I am also very distressed about this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello: In this world, friends are relatives who are not related by blood.

    I feel like she's good to you, and it's okay for you to treat her like this.

    It's even your fault.

    Yes, some money was sent.

    It's normal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't think too much, if it's not for the sake of the future, you should pay the tuition again on the road of life!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Rich people may be in the upper generation, the last generation, or the last generation is not necessarily rich, and they are also struggled, why do you have to look at the present? In the future, when you are rich, your children will also be envied by others

    Anyway, your current situation is already like this, instead of giving up on yourself, it is better to see the reality clearly and work hard! Just because a person is rich doesn't necessarily mean that he has the ability he deserves!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People are more angry than people, and the point is not how far the gap is, but how uneven the mentality is. Compare yourself with your peers in Afghanistan and Iraq, people think about whether they will be shot to death if they cross the street every day, and the gap is also very big with you......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The current state of society, you say this is really not uncommon, but what can you do? To change it? Or change yourself.

    All you envy is that it has money. If she envy you, you know? Complaining won't solve anything, it will only aggravate your negative emotions and affect the people around you who care about you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you have to work hard to expand your value and influence, and strive towards the goal ahead, please adopt it, thank you.

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