Why do friends have heartache when they have someone they like?

When a friend has someone he likes, he will naturally spend a lot less energy on himself than before.

In the past, the two of you might hang out a lot in your free time; You're probably spending a lot of time together, and you're used to having each other's company a lot of the time; And the other party will share anything with him as soon as possible; You have a lot of secrets between you.

But if the other party has someone they like, it's different. Your friend will put a lot of thought into the person he likes. The two of you will also spend less time together.

When he has something happy, he shares it with the people he likes for the first time. Some secrets may no longer belong to just the two of you. And they have a lot of secrets that don't tell you.

And there will inevitably be a little more topic of conversation between you, that is, about the person he likes. Talk about it often, and over time, you will definitely be dissatisfied.

Another thing is that you're used to getting along the way you used to. Once something has become a habit, it's hard to change it. So in your heart, you may even blame your friends for how you fell in love with someone, how you broke the habit between you and upset this balance.

It's like he suddenly betrayed your friendship. It's like you're not as tacit as you used to be.

So when your friends have someone you like, possessiveness will come out and make trouble, and this feeling is like a child's favorite toy being snatched away. It's like the cabbage that has been grown in my family for a long time has been arched by pigs. Except for heartache and heartache.

Another reason is that you like your friends, and you didn't find out about them before. And if you have someone you like, of course you will be unhappy, jealous, and heartbroken.

In the past, I didn't feel much about my friends having someone I liked, and at most I was happy for each other. But when the friends around me gradually have someone I like, I will start to feel sad, especially when my best friend has someone I like, it feels like a cabbage that I have raised for many years, and I am about to be defeated by a pig.

And the most exaggerated thing is that I also pay special attention to what type of person she likes, whether she has any quirks, what her personality and temper are, and whether she has been in a relationship or something before. My friends often say that I care more about her than her mother! Sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me, or something wrong with my friends!

But then I slowly understood the reason, all because I cared too much about my friend!

If you think about it, my friends and I have always been inseparable, the kind that sticks together when we go to the toilet, and sleeping together is even more commonplace! It can even give the impression that we are not gay. But at this time, my friend suddenly told me that she had a favorite object!

At that time, I thought that I would be alone in the future, going to the toilet alone, eating alone, shopping alone, no matter what I did, I would be alone! Do you think I can not be heartbroken? And I always have to worry about whether the person she likes will be bad for her or something!

It's just a very tiring thing, okay!

Although my friends often comfort me that even if I fall in love, I will not be left alone, but I know that I will become three people in the future! I'm just a light bulb, and I feel bad just thinking about it. But what can be done?

Who calls the other party my good friend, so even if her heart hurts to death, she doesn't have to wish her happiness!

Because people like to compare, to see their friends, there are people they like, and then I don't have a favorite person, of course, it will be more heartache, because others can already know who they like, but in the past few years, I know that two people are what they like, and I didn't expect it, so I feel that my heart is still quite unbalanced, and then it will be particularly heartache, just like when you see other people's family showing affection, you will also feel heartache.

I also feel heartache because I feel like he's talking to other women in his arms.

Because I'm nervous and excited, my heart beats so fast that I feel it beating, and then I have a heart-wrenching feeling, a little painful, but I like this painful feeling.

Because you are silently loving, and true love needs to be shared and shared with each other.

Therefore, it is a wise choice to face it calmly and express the love in your heart positively! In this way, your heart will not be depressed, let alone painful, and there will be only sweet happiness!

You like him, but you feel sorry for him because you don't think you should like him.

When you see him, you feel very heartbroken, you feel as if you have hurt him in your previous life, as soon as you see him or listen to him, you will be very heartbroken and want to cry.

Do you feel that way?

If it's ......I advise you to give up your feelings and give up everything.

You should support the people you like!

Summary. My dear, I like each other, but my heart hurts, what should I do? In this case, you must find a time to explain it clearly to each other, talk about everything, see if you can be together, if you can be together, then you will be happy, if you are not together, you will be heartbroken with each other, then you must also try to open your heart.

My dear, I like each other, but my heart hurts, what should I do? In this case, you must find a time to explain it clearly to each other, talk about everything, see if you can be together, if you can be together, then you will be happy, if you are not together, you will be heartbroken with each other, then you must also try to open your heart.

There will be heartache in life, if there is no way to get rid of wisdom teeth, you must learn to divert your attention, because life is your own pain, but you have to believe that it will not be permanent, because there is still a long way to go in the future, and you still have your life to live.

Both people like each other, and the other is heartache, what to do.

So why not find a chance to sit down and talk together, since we both like each other, why not be together? Why heartache?

Is the other party a boy or a girl? Why doesn't he accept that he likes you? What happened between you?

I don't like to talk.

If you really like him and want to be with him, because you don't like to talk, then you have to try to change and socialize more.