I have some psychological disorders, and I ask for guidance from a master! ！！！！

This kind of psychology is very normal, everyone will think so, and it is not a mental illness.

But he's your cousin after all, right?

This is obvious jealousy, you should try to surpass him to be true, jealousy alone is useless.

Your majors and academic qualifications are the same, it shouldn't be difficult to surpass him, at least it can be equal, I said, now this society actually depends on ability, if he has no ability, he will not stay, so you still have to be modest, learn his strengths, make up for his shortcomings, know yourself and know your opponent in order to win a hundred battles, hehe, but I advise you, if you go on like this, you will get depression, it is not a temporary thing to want to surpass him, if you rely on your own ability to surpass him, that is the real ability, isn't it? When a relative says this, you can say: He is not a lecturer on his own, I am the real skill.

I'm sure my relatives won't say anything, so try your best.

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist, your troubles are not given to you by yourself, they are instilled in you by your family and the people around you all the way from a young age. If you don't adjust well, your troubles will stay with you for the rest of your life, affecting your life and happy mood. Here may be someone to tell you what to do, but you must know that there are many helplessness in life itself that we cannot control.

What you want is to accept the facts and change your mindset.

The only way to solve the problem is to surpass him!

Because you have always been stronger than him, so you have a psychological advantage, and this advantage has been maintained for a long time, and it has long become a state of equilibrium in your heart, and one day this balance is suddenly broken, and you feel very flustered, so unless you return to this state of equilibrium, it is difficult for you to calm down in your heart, because you can't accept it at all.

However, jealousy is useless, think about how to surpass him.

You're too competitive! Not suitable to be a teacher, you can change careers and not compete on the same platform. If you are a teacher now, you are at a disadvantage.

If you change careers, you are less comparable, and you may earn more than him.

Then others rely on relationships to get in, you don't have a relationship to accept your fate, you don't have to compare with him, work hard, the work of a teacher is very honorable, but also very idle, have an economic mind? What kind of business to do during the school holidays, compare what! The family is more than money, your brother drives a BMW, you drive a Ferrari, who would say that you are worse than him?

You have your merits.

The measure of a person's worth is not who they see as natural enemies, or how successful they are in their career.

It's what your hands shape in the environment that you bring to others.

You can teach your students well.

Wait for the wind to be in the last years.

A lot of students will come to see you.

That's your honor and your success.

Money, life does not bring. Death is not brought. It's better to have this heart on your own students.

It can also leave a large amount of wealth to the country.

It doesn't matter to you how he is.

Have the right mentality.

It's become a habit to compare with each other.

Don't think about it too much.

You have to think that he came in through a relationship, and you did it yourself.

Be worthy of yourself.

Don't keep comparing yourself to others.

Don't do anything out of the ordinary.

Alas, the years of youth are only a few years, how can I have time to care about others so much, enjoy life, besides, you have to be content, how many people are still struggling on the poverty line, and there are many successful people, and they are not as good as others, relax.

See what you really need. Is it better than yourself, or better than others.

That's how China is coming step by step.

You don't give up faith and hope.

Don't at any time, always remember!!

You should go to the grassroots level to exercise, in the remote mountainous villages of the northwest, where there is vast development. Instead of holding on to a metropolis like Beijing and doing nothing. Everyone in Beijing is a wrist, a gathering place for talents, and the competition is fierce. If you have low ability, you will definitely not be able to adapt.

Brother, first of all, I think you have the courage to face your own shortcomings and even weaknesses and shortcomings.

But I want to tell you, it's not all bad.

First of all, you will think about other people's feelings (which many children don't, they only think about themselves and don't understand what others need and hate), so you will think that others may misunderstand your expression. For this, you can communicate in as simple and straightforward a way as possible when expressing and communicating. You know, people who speak concisely and concisely will look cool.

Secondly, you are observant and delicate. I'm afraid that many people can't do this, and even girls are not so careful. And you can do it, it's your strength, and you can use that advantage to provide considerate care to other companions, isn't that manly?

It's just that don't always hold it in your heart alone, sometimes you have to say it for verification.

Eventually, I realize that you may be a little less connected with your peers and loved ones. Remember, everyone is equal, but everyone's brain is different, so the way of thinking about problems is also different. It is normal to have different understandings and views on the same issue, and it is not necessarily who is right and whose is wrong.

If you have to rate and judge your own opinions, it will be like a blind man touching an elephant, which is too one-sided.

I'm not a psychologist, but I used to have a similar crux to you, that is, I was more autistic, so I looked at the problem more extremely. But after going on to higher education, I changed the environment, made new friends, opened my heart and kept communicating with them, and found that my previous self was actually just too stupid, and there was no psychological barrier.

Nag again, brother, it will take a while to be a big man, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's good to be a son.

Sentimental age. There are many people who think this way, and you are not the only one. In high school, there is a lot of pressure to study, and you may subconsciously worry too much about your future, which leads to being overly sensitive to the small things happening around you, like to associate all kinds of unrelated things together, and like to think crankily.

You remind me of myself when I was in middle school, and I thought about it for a long time, I thought I had depression, but after the baptism of the college entrance examination and the training of work, I don't have much time to think about it. Don't worry, try to shift your attention to study or life or something else, time is the best medicine. I wish you all the best!

The main reason for this situation is lack of self-confidence. The reason for not being confident is that you are always denied in a certain period, so you are not confident in your choice.

After you have done something, you will feel suspicious, and you will always feel that it will have a negative effect. At this point, you can do this, face the mirror, make a confident smile, and remember that it happened many years ago, and today you are recalling it by chance. Repeat the simulation like this, and when you think that thing was really a long time ago, go to that friend, talk and laugh with him casually, and observe if he behaves abnormally, and you will find that he doesn't.

So that you are overly worried.

This is the easier way to do it, and I hope it will work for you.