How to adjust your mindset when facing an opponent who is stronger than you

It should be fine.

Let him know that you're competing with him, and you're going to have to work together.

Anger is born from the heart, resentment is born from the heart, etc., in fact, the objective is not moving, only your own heart is moving. Therefore, in the past, I always looked at others as strong, but I couldn't see myself anymore; However, if you are a very self-aware person, it is really rare to be able to see your own shortcomings and the gap with others, and many people cannot see these things.

Why not, add some spices to your normal rhythm of life: concentrate on a period of free time to break through your own shortcomings, and with a relaxed mentality, even if there is no great improvement in the end, it will be fine, and there will definitely be gains after it. In fact this is the right way ...

If you can persist and maintain the state of learning, what kind of inferiority complex and thin psychology will not happen, because we have the goods!! Right!

However, if you have to demand yourself in the strong aspects of others, you must be prepared to lie down and taste the guts, and if you want to fight hard, it's okay, just obey in your heart!!

Also, being the best self ,,, others is strong, and it must be another aspect, why do you always stare at this!! My own one-third of an acre of land is going to be barren, why do you always look at other people's homes!!

It may be easy to say,,, but I hope you can relax and be nervous... For a better version of yourself ...

No one is perfect, learn from each other's strengths.

If you are better at something than yourself, you should learn it, and it should be a learning process.

Remember your ultimate goal, maybe every experience, every effort, even every competition.

Think of it as a study.

He's not as good as you, but you can't see it.

I've also come across....I can only wait....It is necessary to preserve his own strength and wait for him to give him a strong blow when he is not satisfied.

Don't measure your weaknesses by his strengths. Believe that there is no strong, only stronger.

Groveling is not a pursuit, sycophancy is just a means, and holding on to your hands is an opportunity to transform the world! Thou hast despised my lowliness, and thou hast mocked the greatness of my heart. But as fate would have it, I turned my hand over the crack. The faithful, the greedy, take advantage of all who are available.

Don't see it as an opponent, see yourself as an opponent to surpass!

Despise it when he does not exist.

1. To defeat your competitors, you must first defeat yourself. Many people are able to defeat others, not because their opponents are weak, but because they are able to defeat themselves. Set certain goals, prepare your opponents accordingly, and defeat yourself is the first priority in order to be able to defeat your competitors.

2. Make hard efforts to surpass yourself and achieve transcendence. Set a small goal, put in a certain amount of effort, and make corresponding efforts to be able to beat the competition. On the way to surpass yourself and realize your dreams, there are not many people.

Pay part of the preparation to defeat competitors, surpass yourself is the strongest.

3. Insist on the efforts you have made, and add up a lot. Some things need to be persistent, if you don't insist, you don't know how far you can go, if you want to go long-term and defeat your competitors, you must put in a hundred times your efforts, from some small experience accumulation to be able to find some new ways to defeat competitors.

4. Be helpful, self-encouragement, and self-confidence. Before defeating competitors, you must be full of self-confidence, be confident in your heart, and believe that you can beat your competitors. Be helpful, have a good time, and beat the competition is just around the corner.

5. Set your own goals and break personal records every day. Set your own goals every day and be ready to break your goals every day. Hopefully, new records can be broken every day, so that I can do something to motivate myself to beat the competition.

6. Accumulate methods and experience, and find out the methods that suit you to exercise yourself. Find out what works for you to exercise and hone your awareness. Accumulate methods, learn lessons, and find ways and means to defeat competitors and win victories.

7. Unity and enterprising, teamwork, and winning success at the expense of small profits. If it is something that needs unity, then we must do a good job of internal unity, teamwork, do our own work, give up small interests, win the victory of competitors, do a good job of internal relations, and defeat competitors is just around the corner.

When you're faced with a competitor who is stronger than you, what do you generally choose? Some people will choose to stay away from him, can't I hide if I can't afford to provoke him? However, some people are not convinced, and will choose a head-on conflict, but they will often intensify the conflict, and it is very likely that both sides will lose at that time.

However, in Guiguzi's view, these practices are not quite correct, and Guiguzi has a more unacceptable opinion, that is, in this case, you should bow your head and indulge your enemy, so that you will have a chance to defeat him. Although this method seems very difficult to understand, it is not unreasonable, let's take a look at the story of Goujian, the king of Yue, and the husband of Wu. In 494 BC, King Wu decided to attack the Yue Kingdom, and finally the Yue King Goujian was defeated.

However, at this time of destruction, Wen Chong offered advice and told the king of Yue to surrender. However, Gou Jian didn't really want to accept this proposal, because in his opinion, he would have no face to live in the world. However, Wen Chong firmly told him that only by living would he have a chance to turn the tables.

In the end, Gou Jian, the king of Yue, listened to this proposal, and took his wife and the doctor Fan Li to serve the king of Wu to serve the king of Wu, and herd cattle and sheep for the king of Wu.

The level of others is a grade higher than yours, how much higher? If it's too bad, there's really no way to win. For example, if you are in the first grade of primary school, and others are in the first year of high school, how can you fight him and win him, it is impossible.

For example, if you want to fight Malone to death today, it is impossible. Malone may beat you to death even if he hits you casually. So we're just saying that there may be a certain gap in the level, but I still have a chance to win when I fight, so how do I play in this situation?

In our play and competition, one thing is very important, that is, the low level and the high level to play, I can fight him, fight! You seek stability, and others are more stable than you. Others are better than you, spinning, landing, strength, and speed are all better than you.

So you go to seek stability, but you can't stabilize him. So what do you rely on? Rely on ruthlessness, fierceness, and fighting!

For example, if you meet an opponent today who is the champion of the whole city, then you think, wow, this level is much higher than mine, and I may not have a chance to fight it if I am serious. But what about the other party, I don't know your details, you haven't fought each other, you can use the way of fighting, that is, as soon as you come up, I find an opportunity, I will give the opponent a few high-quality balls, the quality of this ball should be very high, then it may be a board to rush him to death, pull to death. After a few balls, the opponent's psychology will change, he originally felt that he would hit you casually, and suddenly you beat him a few boards, he suddenly felt empty, he thought, what is the origin of this kid, I directly burst to me as soon as I serve, and screwed me directly to death, this level is much higher than me, I am really difficult to play.

He has a void in his heart, he doesn't dare to play a lot of balls, especially at the beginning of the first game, you suppress him all of a sudden, maybe you are also 50% of this mentality to fight, you can fight when you fight, and if you can't fight, others will know that you are a parallel import. But if you really fight, others will be empty in their hearts. Your first game is very important, when you play, the first game starts well, and after you suppress the opponent, you may play the ball in the back and it will be very smooth.

This is what we call the way of fighting and fighting in the game.

And what about the other one, with what? With skill, play skill. I may not be able to beat you technically, I will fight for the quality of the board, I will not be able to fight you, then I can fight for skills, I will catch the loopholes of the opponent.

So what tactics might I employ? In the first game, I focused on putting. I serve all sorts of balls to try the opponent's weakness in **?

Because I don't know if you're weak, I may send a small triangle ball, a short ball, or a half-table ball, a chasing ball, a backhand, a forehand position, I'll try to send it. In the first game, if we generally serve, if we play well, we should be able to serve about eight balls, and we can try to find out the opponent's weaknesses with eight balls. In the second game, go and focus on his weaknesses to play.

You may be able to turn defeat into victory later.

This is what we call fighting and finding weaknesses.

When I first watched the match between Echizen Ryoma and Reiji Kambu, I felt that Ryoma was quite vindictive. Because Shenwu injured him with his trick Deep Power, he eventually learned to use Deep Power to injure Shenwu. But when I saw the back, I realized that he was just borrowing strength. What a clever Ryoma!

So when you encounter an opponent who is much stronger than you, don't be afraid, actively work hard to find a way, as long as you are good at borrowing strength, you will also win. Of course, you also have to have enough courage and fighting spirit against strong opponents. Only when the fighting spirit is stimulated, the brain will actively think of solutions.

This scenario also appeared in the match between Ryoma and Akutsu.

In real life, Wang Zulan set an example for us. In participating in the reality show "Run, Brother", countless games have suffered from his short stature, but he has not given up at all. While laughing at himself, he actively tried to find a way to win over his competitors, and finally got a good result, and at the same time won the title of super leak king.

In fact, this principle is not only applicable to the height gap, but also to many aspects. In the face of an opponent who is stronger than himself, don't be afraid, you must use your brains to actively think of ways, mobilize every cell in your body, and do your best to develop your potential, maybe you will succeed?