Why is love always so hurt?

Love, if it hurts, it's just one-sided love, if two people have the same mind, how can it hurt.

Love is not wishful thinking, both parties should take care of each other, whether they are happy or not, treat both parties sincerely, when one person, treat yourself well, and when two people, treat both parties well. When you are happy or unhappy, you can also be honest with each other, you can find a close friend to talk about anything, say everything you think in your heart, let them understand how much they care about them, and the most important thing is that every action you take must let the other party understand that you care very much. Good at understanding!

At the same time, you should also let the other person have a certain amount of freedom, think about happy things when you are sad, and it is best to go for a walk calmly by yourself. Wide sea and sky!

When you fall in love with someone, it means to give and care about each other wholeheartedly, and enjoy it, this is love, then when the other party's love responds to you, you will feel that you are the happiest person in the world, when you don't get a response, you will be very painful and sad, trying to find a way to get rid of the current pain and depression feelings, then I tell you that if you love each other, this process must be experienced, and you will cherish your feelings more after the experience, If you can't love the person you like, then I also tell you, give yourself some time, try to make yourself forget, let him become a memory, of course it's not very easy, time is the best doctor, transfer your thoughts, find something you like to do, and forget it naturally when you're busy. Don't be cranky, people who adjust themselves in a short period of time are strong, I think you will, I have also loved, and I have suffered, so when you ask such a question, I understand your feelings, in fact, the problem of feelings is not something that can be solved by talking, it is not others who help you get out of the pain but yourself, after you come out, you feel that the sunshine is your friend, love is by your side, and you must think of me when you laugh!

In fact, love is really hurt a lot of the time, but in fact, when you face the road ahead, you know that this is not anything at all, because this is everyone's own choice, if you can get along, you can only accept the objective reality.

Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time. If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and your own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true. .