Why is it that only mothers in the family love to be angry with their children?

Women are inherently nagging. Especially the people you care about.

A woman plays a nagging role in the family all her life, and the child is the meat that falls from her own body, so she hopes that her children are good, better than the children of other families, women like gossip, and there is an incident around her, which can soon be passed out from the woman's pile, and when you see that other people's children are good, and your children are not sensible, they will be very angry, and they always think that if they say a few more words, the children will listen to it a little.

Compared with women, men are different, men also love their children, but their love is deeper, and they feel that they can't always tell him if they want to educate their children, so that the children can't listen, it is better to choose a laissez-faire way, if the child is really unreliable, then the education method will also be very direct, such as hitting the child.

The father still spoils his children more, and feels that he is very busy and can't take care of his children, so he may also love his children in another way!

In fact, everything is caused by the difference between women and men, and the starting point is for the good of their children.

Because my father has a big heart, as long as I don't provoke him, then everything will be fine, my mother can't do it, I have to take care of my clothes, I have to take care of my shoes, I have to take care of not eating, I have to take care of my homework, I have to take care of how long I play, I have to take care of what time I go to bed and what time I get up, and I have to force myself into a violent temper, if I don't have to worry about anything, who doesn't like to be a gentle and gentle idle lady.

In my mother's words, you take care of the children every day, you take care of big and small things, and you can also take care of eating, drinking, and Lazar! Obedient and disobedient, naughty and naughty, so that's it for a long time! If you look at the child occasionally, you must love it so much, you are reluctant to scold, you have to be together every day, and take care of everything, and don't get angry.

Whoever brings who is angry, you have never been a father, you haven't seen him eat and drink Lazar a few times, what are you angry, we have a father with a child, and that mother's mother is not angry, only I hear my father scolding every day.

Because only when the mother does not leave the 24-hour selfless care of the child, the elderly and husband at home do not help you bring and talk about you all day long, you and you, you pay no matter how hard you pay, no one will feel sorry for you and understand you, if the child is a little uncomfortable, the whole family blames you for blaming you, do not ask them to help bring Just ask not to say so compelling, I am very grateful, do you understand this kind of grievance? ? It's pitiful to be a mother, the most tired and hard-paid character, and never pleased,

Do you think passers-by will get angry at your child? They won't care what your kids eat, what they wear, how they study, what friends they play with, or whether they have a good job in the future. It's the same at home, if you don't worry about these things for your children, you won't get angry.

Because the mother has a lot of children, the father is in a good mood at most, and he will throw it to the woman.

Because the child is always by the mother's side, 24 hours a day, it will definitely be annoying! If you're not around, will you get angry when you're around for a while?

Because her mother took her to take care of him! Otherwise, who cares about him.

Every time I get angry with the child, his father says about me, and also says that if my son asks him anything, he will be patient, I replied coldly: What qualifications do you have to speak without a baby, and you don't have a backache when you stand and talk! Then as soon as the child came to me, I asked him to find his father, and it didn't take long to hear his roar, and I looked at him and said:

The child won't talk to you well? What a fire! Who wouldn't say that......

When you take care of your children alone, you will find that in the eyes of your children, you are a short-tempered mother, in the eyes of your husband, you are a neurotic, and what is even more ridiculous is that in the eyes of others, you have been enjoying happiness.

I'm a quick temper and often get angry at my children, but it's really wrong to think about it. Sometimes it's just a little thing, and you can't help it, and you lose your temper!

Because it is the mother who watches the child, the father is happy to watch the meeting, and most of them are still with his mother.

She knew that this was her own child, and her own child would definitely not fight back.

Yesterday I worked overtime with a colleague.,Her work seems to have been done a long time ago.,Browsing the web there just doesn't go home.,It's very different from her before.,She used to count the seconds to retreat.,Even the leader's dinner can't keep her a penny.,What's wrong with it now? I asked her while typing, and she sighed, "Why do you go home, as soon as I go home, the child will cry and make trouble, and I can't help but get angry, but my husband also said that I and my in-laws also said that I was too fierce to the child, so I simply didn't go home and hid quietly."

As soon as she said this, I seemed to be deeply touched, and after thinking about it carefully, this is indeed the case. Every time I go back, I can see the scene of my in-laws or husband getting along harmoniously with my child, take a look, my mother is not at home, and people are playing well, but as soon as my mother comes home, the child is either crying or making trouble, and it will not go well in minutes, and my mother's longing for the child seems to be able to last for five minutes, and after a while, I can hear my mother's impatient voice, "Can you not always be so clingy?" Why are you so disobedient, what are you doing humming and chirping? , and then I heard the child lose his temper, the mother yelled loudly, but the child didn't look for someone else, and had to die with the mother to the end, causing the family to be dissatisfied with the mother, and the mother was also full of grievances, why can't you clean up for a while, what's wrong with the child? Why can't mothers be angry at their children?

The child becomes not stupid and obedient in front of his motherThe American Parenting Encyclopedia probably explains that when the mother is not at home, the child follows the grandparents and even the nanny, behaves very well-behaved, cleans up his own things, will not let him feed him when he eats, and will not even make any unreasonable requests, that is because the child has insufficient trust in these people, and there is always a cautious idea in his heart, and he does not dare to touch their bottom line.

Crazy parents? You need to read the child! - Why do you always get angry with children.

I think that if parents are always angry with their children, especially if the child is still a student, it is likely that the parents feel that they have tried their best, but the child's grades or studies are not very optimistic, which makes the parents feel very annoyed.

In fact, I personally think that parents are angry with their children, including a person who will continue to get angry, mainly because they feel helpless or out of control of a thing, which means that parents are not satisfied with their children's learning or other places, but they can't do anything, or they can let their children take the initiative to improve this kind of thing, so they will be angry for no reason.

Although educating children requires a lot of endurance, parents often can't control their temper, if this happens, it is recommended that parents may wish to leave for a while, let themselves be comfortable, do not vent their temper immediately, give themselves and their children some buffer space, maybe it is good for both parties. Secondly, I would like to advise all parents that in the process of communicating with their children, even if the child makes mistakes, do not go through old accounts with the child, and clearly express their worries and emotions to the child. After explaining the facts, telling your child what to do about it may be better than losing your temper.

I think that parents who are angry with their children for a long time will cause them to suffer a psychological blow, which is easy for them to deny themselves, have an inferiority complex, and more seriously have a rebellious mentality, and they will become more and more reluctant to listen to their parents.

Inferiority. Children who are often yelled at by their parents will be introverted and do not like to communicate, and it will be difficult to integrate into society for a long time because of the lack of love.

Parents are always angry at their children, making them very unconfident, always self-doubting, and there will be a kind of self-abandonment psychology, so parents should often praise their children.