How many trials do two people who love each other have to go through to be together?

Sometimes the experience is useless, just put your mind on it

As the saying goes, it's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to fall in love.

It's very simple for two people to like it at first, love at first sight.

But if you spend a lot of time together, you will feel tired of each other.

Slowly, the relationship will become weak, and finally I don't love it.

Yes. Maybe it's because the knot is not good. So. Two people together. Always noisy and noisy. It doesn't last long. It feels like it. So.

It used to be difficult, but now it should be easy

It seems that you are experiencing resistance from one of the families. Be patient, take your time, and as long as the other person is willing, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

A kind of happiness for lovers.

Fu strives to build.

A piece of sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of interdependence and kindness to each other, a heartbeat (thinking.

Reading time), heartbeat (phase.

Feelings of heartache (parting and hurting).

Love someone, to.

Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

It is also necessary to correct mistakes, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, and to be tolerant.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has one.

Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Love should not be tested, this truth is very simple, the test represents distrust, and the lack of trust as the foundation of the relationship is also a crumbling castle in the air. Therefore, when you test the other party, you are actually putting the relationship in a very dangerous situation, and testing love is equivalent to an exam, you put yourself in the position of the examiner, and treat the other party as a candidate, this is a state of inequality, what qualifications do you have to test the other party? How confident do you say that you are one level higher than the other person to take the exam, in other words, if you fail the exam, will you break up?

So whatever the outcome of the test, it will not be a satisfactory outcome in the end.

Deepening this question, what are you going to use to test a relationship? Is it with material, if you use material to test feelings, is the conclusion drawn objective? I don't think necessarily, for example, some girls always use money to measure a man's feelings, if this man really loves you, he should give you all his money, otherwise he doesn't love you, if this man really loves you, write his name on his real estate deed, otherwise he doesn't love you, this kind of test is not fair at all, and you are both a referee and an athlete, this kind of test is meaningless.

For example, if a boy doesn't write your name on the real estate certificate, this is from his life standpoint, why should your parents write your house name for no reason after saving most of their life to buy a house? If you divorce and divide half of your property, is it worthy of your parents? Therefore, some tests are actually a test of human nature, and the test is also a test of two people, rather than just a person's love for you, and material things cannot measure a person's totality.

Exams can also cheat, some people can pass the test, but they don't necessarily really love you, such as using money to test a man, but this man is very rich, he can use money to smash love, and it will become a relationship between you to buy and sell love.

I don't think love should be tested, because the people who test love are because they don't believe in this love.

When two people are together, it's best not to test love all the time, test love, and say something unpleasant, that is, you don't trust each other's feelings, which hurts feelings.

Two people together should actually test love, as long as they are together with each other, put their love to the test, so as to get a good result.

In fact, two people together should not test love, because if two people have feelings, they will go on forever.

There is no need, since you love each other, you must fully believe in each other, don't play some tricks, it is easy to misunderstand and affect the stability of the relationship.

I think love can't stand the test, and you shouldn't keep tempting, because the moment you choose to be tempted, it proves that you don't believe in this relationship.

Love focuses on the process, and marriage focuses on the result.

Choose what kind of love you need.

In fact, I think that sometimes couples who may have experienced some difficulties, two people may have experienced those feelings when facing difficulties, and then sometimes they may say that adversity sees the truth, and sometimes it is true that after experiencing some hardships, you can see what kind of attitude the other party has towards you, whether it is to regard your life as more important than you, or to see you more important than your own life, I think that sometimes you can't solve the problem just by saying. You have to go through something to hone the relationship between two people, in fact, I think the relationship needs to be honed, and difficulties are actually sometimes considered a kind of grinding, but it doesn't have to be bumpy.

I think in fact, there may be more stable feelings in the later stage of the two people, in the early stage, I think it is better for two people to experience some quarrels together, that is, the two of you will definitely encounter disagreements in the process of getting along, so how do you deal with it, I think two people will definitely quarrel, that is actually a kind of training for you by two people, I think in fact, when you encounter disagreements, and then you are particularly unaccustomed to some of each other's behaviors, Don't just swallow your anger and be brave enough to say it, otherwise you may accumulate more and more of this thing in the future, and then one day it will explode, and there may be no way for the two of them to be together.

In fact, everyone says that plain is true, but sometimes those quarrels may be regarded as some spices in the relationship between two people, I think if the relationship between the two of you has been so plain and bland, there will be no waves at all, there will always be a day when you will feel tired, so just say that you are usually dissatisfied with him, bumps are needed, quarrels are also needed, only in this way will the relationship between the two of you become stronger.

Two people who love each other will definitely go through a lot of trials if they want to be together, so ah, if you have a lot of trials with the person you love, don't complain, what to complain about? Every couple of lovers has to go through, and you are no exception, and it's not just you who have a lot of trials and tribulations. I think it's good that two people who love each other meet the grind, and only the lovers who have really spent the temper can really spend their lives together, and they will cherish the love between them and the marriage between them even more.

I don't think it's about how much training you go through, it's whether you can survive each ordeal. As the saying goes, quantity is not important, what matters is quality. I think it's the same with this grind.

It doesn't matter how many trials two people in love have experienced, what matters is what these two people who love each other have gained from the training, whether the relationship between the two people is better, and they know each other better. So, don't always think about how many trials you have to go through to be really together, but think about how you should go through the grind, how to protect each other, and protect this relationship. As long as you do that, are you afraid that you won't be able to be together?

I don't think you need to be afraid then. Anyway, you have spent every ordeal together, so no matter how much ordeal there is next, I believe you will be able to get through it.

Don't be too nervous, relax, as long as you believe in each other, I think no matter how much the ordeal you will be able to overcome. I believe in you, and you have to believe in yourself and in the feelings between you.

This question is a bit difficult to answer, and some two people who love each other have come together without going through any ordeal, and they are still happy. Some people have gone through a lot of trials and don't come together in the end, so your question is really a bit difficult.

However, as the saying goes, good things are grinded, and the more trials you go through, the more you will cherish each other after coming together. The stronger your love will be. So it doesn't matter how many trials you have experienced, as long as you love each other and cherish each other, you are a happy couple.

No one knows how bumpy the road will be in the future, what kind of difficulties will be encountered, as long as you work hard to do your best today, no matter what kind of difficulties tomorrow will usher in, you all have the confidence to face it. So you are anything, and no one will want to separate you.

Therefore, two people who love each other, as long as they can go through any test, will eventually come together.

Love is actually not as difficult as imagined, many times we are the subjective consciousness formed in TV series or movies, and feel that love is like a deduction, and we have to go through all kinds of difficulties and ups and downs before we come together and have a good life, which is a wrong concept, after all, life is not as many variables as on TV.

Many people think that untested love is not strong, but I think that love exists objectively like that, as long as both parties put in the effort and love each other sincerely, there will not be so many tests and misunderstandings. For the sake of the program effect on TV, it is often the two sides who are enemies at the beginning, eager to tear each other, quarrel when they meet, but they will always meet, slowly for a long time, suddenly find that the other party is good, and begin to have a good impression, knowing that they love deeply, but there will always be changes, inexplicable misunderstandings, twists and turns of family hatred, unscrupulous means of third parties, etc., until everything is solved, the two may come together, and they may have a good result.

In real life, it's a lot simpler, there's not such a big backstory, there's not so much strife, some s are just things that two people need to face, if one of them doesn't take it seriously, it won't come together anyway, if two people really love each other, it's easy to hold hands. Now it's not an ancient feudal society, there is no freedom of marriage, it all depends on the arrangement of parents, and now they are all free to love, so as long as you are willing to put in the effort, it will be easy to find someone who can work together.

Not every couple needs to go through unforgettable hardships to have love, there may be people who are ordinary in life, and love is also as plain as water, so love is not about what you have experienced, the key is whether you really love each other.

Everyone's love is different, and everyone has their own view of love, but as long as you give sincerely, there are no regrets.

Many people just have a good fate, they haven't encountered anything, and they have lived their lives smoothly, which is also very good! Although it is said that going through hardships will make each other feel emotional, but now many couples are not separated because of hardships, and not all of them can go through ninety-nine-eighty-one difficulties and obtain the true scriptures.

One of my cousins got married last year, and he had a lot of girlfriends before, but none of them were together. They got married in August last year, but they divorced at the beginning of this year. Divorce is because of quarrels, and then the girl still pits a lot of money on my second brother, after the divorce, the girl often asks us about my second brother's news, I don't know what this is about, not long ago my second brother had a new girlfriend.

Actually, I don't even know what they're doing, if they're joking!

There is also an older brother whose parents forced him to marry another girl, and he did not agree at the time, but he did not take any objections, and finally separated after only three days of marriage. My brother wants to marry another girl, and these people around me are really unreliable, and I don't know why they are so tormented. I really don't understand.

It's not too tired to panic, or it really doesn't matter who they get married to. Later, the elder brother got his wish to marry the girl he liked.

The two couples who met at the same time were college classmates, and then they fell in love for four or five years, and after working for a year, they chose to get married. At present, she has been married for eight years, and her love life is going well, and there is no crisis. Many people have tossed for a lifetime and have no good home, and some people have completed their lives with their wishes, probably fate!

One of my cousins got married last year, and he had a lot of girlfriends before, but none of them were together. They got married in August last year, but they divorced at the beginning of this year. Divorce is because of quarrels, and then the girl still pits a lot of money on my second brother, after the divorce, the girl often asks us about my second brother's news, I don't know what this is about, not long ago my second brother had a new girlfriend.

Actually, I don't even know what they're doing, if they're joking!

There is also an older brother whose parents forced him to marry another girl, and he did not agree at the time, but he did not take any objections, and finally separated after only three days of marriage. My brother wants to marry another girl, and these people around me are really unreliable, and I don't know why they are so tormented. I really don't understand.

It's not too tired to panic, or it really doesn't matter who they get married to. Later, the elder brother got his wish to marry the girl he liked.

The two couples who met at the same time were college classmates, and then they fell in love for four or five years, and after working for a year, they chose to get married. At present, she has been married for eight years, and her love life is going well, and there is no crisis. Many people have tossed for a lifetime and have no good home, and some people have completed their lives with their wishes, probably fate!

In fact, it did not experience strong winds and waves. It's also good to live a smooth life! Don't dwell on it anymore, let's talk about it later.