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Concise. It's free love.
A model for modern man.
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Last night, the rain was sparse and the wind was sudden, and the heavy sleep did not kill the ...... of alcoholSpeaking of Li Qingzhao.
Presumably many people know her, her talent is very admirable, as a rare female lyricist, she has gained countless "fans" in later generations, and at the same time, later generations are also very envious of her and Zhao Mingcheng.
The love between them, the two of them are like fairy couples.
In fact, this is all an appearance, Zhao Mingcheng is not as good as Li Qingzhao in terms of talent and morality. Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng did not make it to the end, I think there are the following reasons.
1. Personality incompatibility. Zhao Mingcheng is a son, but he is very cowardly and lustful, while Li Qingzhao is the kind of pretentious and high-minded, on the surface, the personalities of the two are very different, how can they come together. After the death of Zhao Mingcheng's father, he was attacked by Cai Jing.
Li Qingzhao persuaded him to fight on the basis of reason and return his father's innocence, but he was afraid of Cai Jing's power and did nothing, so he hurriedly moved his family out of the capital and ran to Qingzhou for refuge. It can be seen that the two have a great contradiction in dealing with people, which is a very important reason why they did not come together.
Second, there is a huge disparity in talent. Zhao Mingcheng is a goldsmith and a poet who is very good at poetry and songs.
I don't have much interest, and Li Qingzhao not only learned poetry and poetry since he was a child, but also has a deep knowledge in poetry, imagine that if you are Li Qingzhao and write a good poem, you must want to share it with others for the first time, and the person closest to you is no different from your husband, and his attitude towards you is very cold, then the estrangement will arise from this. Li Qingzhao's love for him was bound by marriage, and the sweetness after marriage had long disappeared in the disparity in talent between the two.
3. Lack of communication. Zhao Mingcheng has been living under the aura of his wife, and he must have some inferiority, especially in that patriarchal era, how many men can tolerate his wife's ability to be so much greater than himself, so Zhao Mingcheng has focused on gold and stone, calligraphy and painting, and the communication between the two sides is becoming less and less. At the same time, a very important reason is that the two have no children, and Zhao Mingcheng blames Li Qingzhao for all the blame, which undoubtedly increases the estrangement.
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1, there is a huge disparity in talent, Zhao Mingcheng has a good reputation, and Li Qingzhao is attributed to the kind with a very high self-esteem, which seems to be quite complementary on the surface, but this is not the case in practice. 2, the estrangement arose, at that time, Zhao Mingcheng was serving outside, and he was already raising concubines behind Li Qingzhao's back. But Li Qingzhao is still thinking about and blaming Zhao Mingcheng or has felt that there is a gap in the life of husband and wife, and made this poem.
3, looking detached, Zhao Mingcheng runs around in the wine banquet every day, intoxicated with money, and is these boring idle things all day long. When writing poems, you have to close your door to thank guests, and burn incense in your own residence to meditate on good ideas. In the peace, I got two good friends, one is Mr. Wuyou and the other is Mr. Zixu.
It can be seen that at this time, the two people are in harmony with each other.
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At that time, they were experiencing war. Her husband was dismissed for dereliction of duty in the mutiny, and she became very ashamed, and they had a hard time.
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The personality is incompatible, and the talent is unmatched.
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Born as a masterpiece, it is satirical that Zhao Mingcheng abandoned Nanjing and fled.
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The reason why Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng's relationship broke down was because of her husband's cowardice. The reason for ridiculing Zhao Mingcheng was that one of her husband's behaviors was very cowardly, so he spurned Zhao Mingcheng more.
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Because two people have different interests and hobbies, their spiritual pursuits are also different, so it will lead to a breakdown of the relationship and sarcasm.
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Their family factors, Li Qingzhao doesn't want to be very childlike, Zhao Mingcheng wants to take a concubine, Li Qingzhao can't get used to Zhao Mingcheng's character and attitude towards life.
Talent and appearance, why not marry.
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I think that a free love marriage lasts longer, because a marriage that is a good match does not necessarily mean that two people will love each other, but if you are free to love, it must be two people who love each other more, and then get married, their marriage should be longer.
More inclined to free love. Because it's in the free love period right now. But I think blind dates are also a way to meet so-called true love.
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