To give or not to give, to give a gift, to give or not to give?

It will definitely be better to send it, and it is an eternal truth to be soft. It's okay not to send it, communicate with the teacher more, and convey some of the child's views to the teacher, maybe sometimes the child thinks too much. At least the parents care, and the teachers will also pay attention.

There's no need, why don't you find the reason why your child didn't join the group and didn't participate in the event? Joining the group is not only to study, but also to see whether you are disciplined and listen to the teacher. If the quality is not good, no matter how good you study, you will not be allowed to join the group, of course, there may be shady, but there are batches of joining the group, and you can also enter high school.

Then say change the seat. There are generally some rules for teachers to adjust seats, and there may also be according to demand, such as some people want to be at a single table and some people can't see clearly (don't wear glasses too early), and there are also active applicants, if your child wants to change seats, but don't say it, who knows?

If it doesn't take his turn to do the event, can you ask him if he has won it? No, who knows you want to participate, and can your child participate? Suppose there is a dance competition and the child can't dance, how can he participate? Studying now?

Speaking of clothes, according to my understanding, if the school prepares clothing, except for the clothes that are too different from the body size of most students today, they should prepare everything else.

Therefore, gift-giving cannot solve the problem, only he can solve the problem.

I think there are several reasons why you can't give gifts, I think there are several reasons: one is that the relationship between you and the gift recipient is not in place, and others dare not accept it. The second is that the place and time of giving gifts are wrong, and if you don't pay attention, it will bring bad effects to the other party.

The third is that both parties will not be able to give it if they are particularly good or special, and the other party will not or cannot accept the gift you give. The fourth is that the other party can't complete what they want, and they generally won't accept it, and of course you won't be able to send it away. Of course, there are other situations that cannot be sent.

Different people have different opinions on the question of whether they need to continue to give gifts if they are not sent.

Some people think that the gift cannot be sent due to the limitations of factors such as the time beam stool, location, and people, and if these factors are not available, then you can continue to send them. For example, if the other person doesn't like the gift, then consider replacing the gift; If the other person is not present, consider giving the gift to his friend or family member; If it is not convenient for the other person to accept the gift, you can consider giving it in other forms, such as buying him a favorite magazine, or inviting him to dinner.

But some people think that if you can't give a gift, don't give it, because it shows that the other party doesn't pay attention to you.

Overall, gift-giving is a way to show your heart, and the key is to be sincere and respectful. If you feel that the gift is an expression of your heart and will not cause trouble to the other person, then you can continue to give gifts. If the other person has made it clear that they will not accept the gift or cannot accept it for various reasons, then you can consider expressing your heart in other ways.

Respecting the other person's wishes and feelings is paramount at all times.

The psychological state of parents is generally as follows:

Teacher's Day is coming, I heard that so-and-so's parents have sent it, so should I send it? If you don't send it, will the teacher put small shoes on her son? Do you want to send it, do you want to buy fruit, or do you want to buy a shopping card?

I'll just tell you a few words about what I know about gifting a teacher, and it's a big truth.

1. The real situation of gift-giving.

The first big truth is: many people have sent it, but he won't tell you.

More than fifty friends participated in the vote. I found out that almost half of my more than 50 friends had given gifts to their teachers.

Generally, children have been in school for more than ten years, and have been sent three or five times, mainly during the Spring Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival. And most of them are in the first grade and junior high school.

First, the key point of the third year of high school.

Not many people give gifts on Teacher's Day. I asked them why, and the explanation was:

There are many people who pay attention to Teacher's Day, and the management is also strict, so it is too deliberate to send it at this time.

The gifts they give are also varied. The most direct and the most is the "shopping card", followed by the fruit gift box.

There are also cigarettes, alcohol, souvenirs, cosmetics, mobile phones, etc., and there are very few people who give red envelopes and cash directly.

The ** of the gift is generally in three or five hundred. Up to one or two thousand, and even two or three thousand. But there are very few, either because they have deep pockets or because they have to ask for teachers.

Now the overall atmosphere is better than before.

Many schools will specifically remind everyone not to give gifts before Teacher's Day. If you really want to send it, a bouquet of flowers and a greeting card are enough for the whole class.

Some private schools, for the sake of school spirit and reputation, will be more strict. I have two friends whose children go to private schools and have given gifts, but they were clearly rejected by the teacher.

Because once they are investigated and punished, they will be given a warning or directly expelled. It's not worth losing your job for the sake of your few hundred dollars in gifts.

2. Rites come first, things come last.

The second big truth is: the teacher will not be particularly impressed with you just because you give a gift.

The teacher is also a human being, and he also has seven emotions and six desires, and he also needs firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you give a gift, he may say "don't, don't", and his heart is still happy.

After that, on the road, I met you and the child with a pleasant face, and asked questions once or twice in class, and that was also the case. Human nature is understandable.

But most of the time, that's the end of it. I will definitely not ignore the other thirty or forty children because of this, and focus on taking care of one of your family's only seedlings.

The teachers like and are most willing to get along with those children who have good conduct, do not cause trouble, and are motivated.

Teachers, the most trusted, are still those parents who communicate happily, can seriously cooperate with the teacher's work, and actively supervise their children's learning.

To put it more bluntly.

Even if you don't give an apple, as long as your child usually has good academic performance, you are polite at the parent-teacher meeting, and the teacher is more polite to the teacher, the teacher will be very happy to take care of your child.

Otherwise, you can send a house. On the surface, he treats your child as a treasure, but his academic performance is scumbag, and he causes trouble all day long, and the teacher is also very disdainful in his heart, so he hurriedly graduated and sent him away.

1. It's better to give gifts, eat a meal and your stomach will be gone, and you can always think of you when you use gifts. It's okay to give gifts, but not too purposeful, and if you have a very good relationship, you can give some small gifts that are not too expensive.

If the relationship is average, and you suddenly give a very expensive gift, and you know your intentions, people will definitely not accept your gift. In today's environment, if you give a very valuable thing to the leader, then your gift like this will simply harm the leader, and even harm yourself, so it is better not to give it.

2. Choose the right time and occasion for gifting.

When giving gifts to leaders, be careful not to embarrass yourself and those present. You can choose to give gifts to your boss before you go to work early in the morning or after work in the afternoon, so that not many people notice. It is best not to send gifts to the leader's office, and it is inevitable that someone will encounter the gift in a crowded office.

Moreover, even if the leader wants to accept the gift, it is not convenient for the leader to take the gift out of the office.

Don't choose the wrong time to give a gift. To express sincere gratitude to the leader, it is best to take advantage of the festive season, or the leader's birthday banquet to salute, and avoid giving gifts abruptly. Otherwise, it is easy for leaders to doubt the motive of gift-giving, and the result is counterproductive.

In order to avoid unnecessary trouble to the leader, the gift can be delivered by the post office.

Hello, I'm glad to help you out, under normal circumstances, we must have some kind of relationship with someone when we want to give gifts, such as friends, leaders, relatives, etc. If you don't want to mess it out, either the other party thinks it's unnecessary, or you feel that the relationship is not there, or you feel that the gift is too light, or the way of giving the gift is wrong. [Compare heart] [Compare heart] [Compare heart] [Compare heart].