My girlfriend often mentions my shortcomings to me, is it a sign of disgust for me?

Not necessarily, she probably wants to make you better, which is why she reminds you so often. Just like when I was with my boyfriend before, I would often talk about his shortcomings, but it doesn't mean that I dislike him, it's because I think he can do better, and some shortcomings are only due to mistakes, so I will often order him, but I don't dislike him.

So you have to observe whether your girlfriend really loves you If he really loves you, then she often brings up shortcomings just to make you better, but if she is usually not very good to you, and then she doesn't care too much about your life, and only seems to care about you when she talks about your shortcomings, then I think she may really dislike you, I think such a girl doesn't love you so much. Then I don't think you need to treat such a girl well. The sooner you give up on yourself, the sooner you are free, and you will find better.

Of course not, if you dislike you, you will be replaced, how can you still give you a chance to listen to her.

In fact, your girlfriend is a typical knife-mouthed tofu heart, she dislikes you this and that, but she didn't leave you because of this. She just said that she was addicted, after all, women's emotions are to be vented, and they always hold it in their hearts and cause big problems sooner or later.

You should also be glad that she just often tells you that you are not, and does not tell her family and friends that she saves face for you, she just doesn't want to embarrass you. If she dislikes you, then I wish the whole world knew your shortcomings, so that it would not be her fault when you break up.

Then if you really love your girlfriend, make changes for her appropriately, love is not simply you love me and I love you, but to tolerate each other and make some changes for each other. You can't be stupid to think that if you love me, you should love all of me, this idea is really too naïve, and it is unrealistic in this society.

My husband and I are like this, and I often complain that he grinds and chirps, has no work in his eyes, does not take the initiative to do housework, always sleeps too late, does not fold the quilt in the morning, etc., I really nag two sentences every three or five times. He was very upset at first that I would tell me that he would argue with me that I was chattering. But now that I'm getting better, I know that I'm doing it for his good, and I've tried to make some changes, such as taking the initiative to take on some of the housework, regardless of whether it's good or not, I'm very relieved.

When two people get along, there will be bumps and frictions if there is no smooth sailing. No one is perfect and has flaws in character. If the other party complains about your shortcomings for the sake of the relationship between the two of you and for your own good, then you can't turn a deaf ear, since you want to continue dating, then you have to work hard to change for the sake of the other party.

Self-feeling, constantly mentioning your shortcomings is not a criterion for disliking or not disliking. The main thing is to look at your girlfriend's attitude towards you, if she was very clingy to you, slowly became not sticky to you, her attitude towards you became weaker for no reason, and then she kept mentioning your shortcomings, which may mean that the other party dislikes you a little. But if your girlfriend doesn't have these changes, then most likely she doesn't dislike you, it's you who thinks too much.

I also often talk about his shortcomings in front of my boyfriend. (It's embarrassing, he usually says that his shortcomings are very slippery, and now I suddenly can't remember what his shortcomings are.)