I m miserable to fall in love with him, should I let go

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you should deliberately stay away from him, let him feel it, and at the same time try to let yourself go, so that it will not be so painful if you really part one day. I believe that if he cares about you, he will pay special attention, if this is his intention, then it is easier to separate after fading, but it is up to you to bring it up, and you will never lose your dignity. And, there are a lot of good men, really, but remember, oh, don't be 100%, that would be no different from 0.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it's really painful, let's separate myself and I'm in this situation right now. Don’t know whether to wind a watch or bark at the moon? Although that's how you are advised to separate.

    In fact, I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend? Alas, I was also reluctant. But I didn't know anything about him, and I didn't know if he really loved me.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think he may not be worthy of your love, but many people will choose the opposite, and the more they can't get something, the more they want to use it. If he really cared about you, I don't think he would say such a thing, and he might just be the result of his past feelings. Maybe you really love him, but he doesn't deserve so much of what you have to do with him.

    A man's maturity is a responsibility, if you wait for him for a year, he will not cherish it, will not be responsible, will such a person be worthy of your love? You'd better talk to him, it'll be clearer.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you love so hard, then break up!! Why should you be wronged? He is not necessarily the only one in this world who is worthy of your love, just let it end, in fact, giving up is a kind of beginning. May you be happy and happy!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He is not worthy of your love, give him up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you're tired, why do you want to be together! Let's go apart!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After reading your story, I really feel that I have found a soulmate, really, not an exaggeration at all.

    My ex-boyfriend is also a soldier, and he proposed to me to break up the day before yesterday, because of the distance, he can only rely on ** contact every day, he feels very tired and feels that the two of us are unrealistic. I really feel impatient, why did I give up without giving up?

    Now that I've figured it out, it's not a big deal, and breaking up only proves that he's not the person I'm waiting for in this life.

    So please take it easy, it's not a big deal.

    Let go when it's time to let go, a woman's youth is very short, don't waste your precious youth.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's break up, blame you for being too infatuated, it's a pity that I can't meet a woman like you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What else does it mean to be such a man, you are so infatuated with him, but he treats you like this... It's really not worth it... Besides, love can't be forced. Let's let it go, there is another world waiting for you to create.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You suggest that you don't have any illusions, even if you barely get what you want, you won't be happy, if the person you love hurts you directly, you don't need to be sad anymore, such a man is not worth it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm going to teach you one of the easiest and most effective ways to do it: start now if he's going to say something like that. Then you will be separated from him for a while.

    At least half a month disappeared before his eyes. Don't let him know anything about you. If he really cares about you, he'll come to you.

    If he didn't care that much, I think you know what to do. This method is available to everyone. There is no charge for ha.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    ...Helpless, he must have found another one! Hey, why are there so many men like this, and I don't know how to power you here!

    Hey, let's open it

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Oh, it's really hard to say.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know if you've ever heard that you can hold hands at any time, but you can't say break up at any time! In your case, he often says that breaking up, isn't it the killer of your feelings!? A person who really loves you, he will not hurt you in any way!

    Do you understand!? You haven't started to let go, how do you know you can't!? People are very selfish, and very few people will love others to the point of having no ego!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hand down. I locked myself in and left only a balcony.

    Every day when it was dark, I opened the window and stared into the night.

    Look at the past. Scene by scene.

    Perform your and my love again.

    I turned on the TV and listened to someone else's conversation.

    Maybe those stories can give me an explanation.

    You want love. I can't learn.

    Watch your love go bad.

    People were stunned and sighed.

    can't give you a future.

    I pay you back now.

    A quiet end is also another treat.

    When the tears remain.

    The injury has been overloaded. Separation is also another understanding.

    I'll give it to you. The last love is to let go of the hand.

    Don't have a double bed with a sea of water in between.

    The stain of feelings is left to time to slowly bleach.

    Put love in the left pocket of your chest.

    The last love is to let go of the hand.

    I don't want to pull with words, so I choose not to blame.

    Feelings are like waiting platforms.

    Someone walks, someone comes.

    My heart is a stop sign.

    It is written to wait. can't give you a future.

    I pay you back now.

    A quiet end is also another treat.

    When the tears remain.

    The injury has been overloaded. Separation is also another understanding.

    I'll give it to you. The last love is to let go of the hand.

    Don't have a double bed with a sea of water in between.

    The stain of feelings is left to time to slowly bleach.

    Put love in the left pocket of your chest.

    The last love is to let go of the hand.

    I don't want to pull with words, so I choose not to blame.

    Feelings are like waiting platforms.

    Someone walks, someone comes.

    My heart is a stop sign.

    It is written to wait. The last love is to let go of the hand.

    Don't have a double bed with a sea of water in between.

    The stain of feelings is left to time to slowly bleach.

    Put love in the left pocket of your chest.

    The last love is to let go of the hand.

    I don't want to pull with words, so I choose not to blame.

    Feelings are like waiting platforms.

    Someone walks, someone comes.

    My heart is a stop sign.

    It is written to wait. I turned on the radio and listened to other people's failures.

    The choked voice seemed to tell the same sorrow.

    Your dependence. Still in the mind.

    I couldn't push it away easily.

    I can't just walk away.

    People who are attentive in their feelings are easily hurt.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Confess to her, I used to be in a similar situation as you, and I was so distressed, but I always have to make a decision about what I hesitate about, manly, I can afford to put it down. Treat her well, it doesn't mean that we have no fate, I have always said to myself, chase what you like, don't let yourself remember to have regrets in the future, so, lz, support you to confess, in one go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    "Love her, she knows, is willing to do everything for her, wants to give her happiness, but can't go into her world".

    You love her, she knows it!

    You can't walk into her world!

    It's because her world doesn't open a window for you. If you are sure that she knows that you love him, then it is not for you to enter her heart, and there will be a kind of woman who likes to play this ambiguous triangle game and enjoy it. The deeper you fall, the deeper the pain becomes, but you won't be the ultimate protagonist!

    Weigh it well!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Did you tell her your love? You just keep doing it in obscurity, do you think you're great? If you don't say it, who knows what you're going to do?

    Don't you know that --- love has to be spoken out loud? Isn't it enough to tell her and do what you can? Accept --- happy and don't accept--- you are sadder than she is because there is a flaw in the friendship between you and her, love or not love maybe in a word, a kiss, a touch, etc.

    Even if you lose it, you --- have ever pursued it. Sometimes love is like taking the last train. Brother.

    You're afraid that if you don't accept your words, you won't even have the previous friendship, right, so you want to keep the status quo and want to transcend the status quo, which is very contradictory. If you really don't know, learn from Zeng Xiaoxian, when faced with two choices, a coin toss always works, not because it always gives the right answer, but in the second you toss it in the air, you suddenly know what ...... you want it to beAlas. Love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For your own sake, you'd better not indulge in it.

    She's just using you as an affair.

    It doesn't hurt or itch you.

    She has one more person who loves her, she doesn't care.

    It's none of her business to drag you down.

    She'll also feel like you're pestering her with a dead face.

    She doesn't deserve to be so hard to love her.

    If she understands your goodness, cares about you, and has the slightest feeling for you, she won't hurt you like that.

    Treat you as if you were nothing.

    I advise you to either have to chase it or give up completely.

    Don't half-hang yourself and exhaust yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone has vanity, and even if she doesn't love you, your indeputy is just as a fulfillment of vanity and she won't reject you.

    Maybe one day she will come to accept you with scars and physical and mental exhaustion, will you agree? The premise is that you have to wait until that day. Love is the only opposite.

    Find a girl who loves you as you love her. If you choose her, the sorrow you get will be much greater than the happiness you get

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Downstairs is right, you are a spare tire, alas, why bother you, the person you like, but you don't like yourself, this is a tragedy, even if you are together in the future, she may not pretend to be you in her heart... Unless her current boyfriend hurts him greatly, she will never throw herself into your arms!! I advise you to let go as soon as possible, find someone who loves herself, and at the same time you also love her, there is no grass at the end of the world, why look for it on the side...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Do you like her? How much do you like it? Does she deserve this?

    Do you like her personality or her appearance or something else? Think about it, if you really love her, you shouldn't give up and don't want to give up, but there is no result if you go on like this. Tell her that friends and lovers feel differently.

    She doesn't seem to be calling you, try it. There are not many good girls, but not nothing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1.It's possible that she likes to play with ambiguous girls. It's a bit bad 2

    Some girls also like to play with boys. I feel more relaxed, I think it's better for you to make it clear, what others say is someone else, even if you like her, you have to like the real him, even if you want to give up on him, you have to be from the heart, what we say is opinion!! ~

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Letting go is the greatest love, what tricks she is doing like this, everyone can see it, if you still chase her like this, even if you really go together in the future, you will still be separated, let go early, ignore her, give up for such a woman is not worth it! It's not worth it! She will only live in ambiguity with all kinds of men, pursuing a so-called vanity, her vanity is exactly what you give, ignore her, and her vanity will disappear.

    I really look down on her. persuade the old man to resolutely give up on this kind of woman!! 1

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You've done a lot, she's been with you for a long time, and it's a good thing to let go when the time is right. There should be nothing to regret after doing so much, it is she who should regret it, she didn't choose to care about her so much, it's her loss. But don't stop because of this one person, you will meet people who know how to cherish you in the future, don't be too persistent.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Maybe in his heart, he doesn't feel that way for you for the time being, but he doesn't reject you, which means that you still have a chance, but she doesn't know how she feels in her heart, and she doesn't dare to confirm or deny her feelings for you Or maybe she really doesn't like you, and just wants to use you to rely on you to like her and do everything for her. In fact, you should have a good talk with her, really understand her feelings, know what she thinks of you in her heart, and honesty will eventually untie all the knots in your heart, after all, this kind of vague relationship will make people feel uncomfortable

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I have also had such an experience, you are just a spare tire, if you don't let go, sooner or later your heart will be broken, and you will be spared.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Hello, this old man we have a common experience, she doesn't have any feelings for you, the reason why she doesn't reject you is because of the loneliness in her heart and she is afraid that she will not be able to find support for a while after rejecting you; Give it up quickly, this is the wisest choice, don't miss the whole garden because of a rose, and don't say how much you love him, you can't do without her, etc., life is like this, there is nothing that you can't let go, only those who don't want to let go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When your horizons are widened.

    The upper class of society has seen a lot of communication.

    This kind of woman is also a lump of soaring in your heart.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Give it up! She doesn't love you at all, she doesn't feel any love for you! Cherish yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give it up! Why bother, she doesn't care how you feel. Or she just when you're friends.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Try to learn to forget.

    Here are a few expert methods::

    1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. But it's not impossible, play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books... Relax yourself·· Watch and write comedies·· Definitely forget... Hehe.

    2.I remember the first time I fell in love, when we were apart, she said to me: If you want to forget a relationship, you have to start another relationship, almost ten years have passed, it feels right, and you still have to face it!

    Not everyone in this world understands your love for her, does it? If you love her very much, all you can do is tell her that this is a haven for you at all times, maybe she won't come back to you at all, maybe you will comfort her when she comes back to you!

    Just use this emotion to find someone you didn't dare to contact before, and maybe you will succeed! No one can do the best with relationship problems!

    3.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

    You can go and remember her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly not remembered, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

    4.You love her! Sometimes, giving up is for a better choice! If you love her, why forget! Go for it and don't let yourself regret it!

    Even if you love her very much, if you want to forget, !That's just a matter of time! Keep yourself busy.

    Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

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