I m a 19 year old boy, and I lose my temper when I move, is there something wrong with me? 15

Actually, it's not a psychological problem, it's a normal physical problem, and the average boy at this age is generally the tail of the rebellious period, and of course, at this time, your temper is not very bad.

But you have to learn to restrain yourself, and you can choose the right way to vent, but remember not to hurt the people around you.

Another problem may be stress, so you can choose the way to relieve stress It's similar to venting Try to go for a walk with your favorite person after eating every day It can cultivate sentiment Listen to the melodious and soothing ** is also very good for you.

Don't worry about being sick, you're not sick, it's normal, as long as you know how to disintegrate.

Hope you figure it out.

I'm the same, and I don't know how.

It's not that there's a problem in my heart.,It's young and vigorous.,Since you know that you lose your temper at every turn.,Then when you lose your temper in the future.,Restrain a little bit every time.,After a long time,,It's going to slowly change,,, believe in yourself.,You must be able to.。。

Since you don't have anything to catch your interest, try to find something you enjoy and divert your energy.

There is no problem, people have a bad temper and a stressful life, or they are young and vigorous, and it will be better to try to find something that can soothe the mood.

No, it was the same as I was for a while. Speaking of which, I have to reflect on it, hehe, you should be in a state of boredom ,!!Or, emptiness, really, you may not feel it yourself, but after a while, you'll know, hehe, I'm talking about it.

The metaphor says that when you come back from work, find a favorite activity to spend with your family. Or a friend. Every day there is a new expectation.

Hehe. I'm stupid, I don't have any good ideas. I hope the landlord will be as happy as me as soon as possible

This shows that you are extremely controlling.

The liver fire is relatively vigorous

1. Adolescent children are short-tempered and easily angry, so they need guardians to communicate with their children more, guide them, and let them have appropriate space.

2. Parents need to understand their child's current state. It belongs to the psychological rebellious period of adolescence and cannot be suppressed in a simple and crude form. It's about making friends with your child and being kind to them.

In the process of communication, let the child grow up gradually. You can use the gains and losses in your own growth process to communicate with your children, so that your children can avoid some detours. Give your child a chance to fly.

Adolescent rebellion may cost the child, but at the same time, appropriate punishment and price may also make the child mature earlier.

3. If the child's temper and irritability continue to do not subside, and it has affected the normal life and study, it is recommended to go to the psychiatric department for treatment, and if necessary, it is necessary to do psychological ** and medication**.

1. Parents should choose the right way to educate their children, parents should choose the right way to trade according to the child's gender, age and psychological development, not excessive love and discipline, nor can they rely too much on some small requirements of the child, so that they can develop the ability to be self-reliant, self-loving and self-reliant. At the same time, we must learn to respect children and cultivate good personal physique and quality.

2. Don't fight violence with violence, it is inevitable that you will be short-tempered in adolescence, and the stupidest way is to fight violence with violence, which will have a certain negative impact on the child, and even make the child more rebellious. Parents should communicate with their children more, sit down and talk to them with a calm mind, and understand their true thoughts, so that they can slowly improve their irritable mood.

3. Teenagers who enter adolescence with static braking and calm response will obviously decline their self-control ability due to the influence of physiological development, peers and the environment. When you see your child being irritable, you might as well calm down and don't rush to change your child.

4. Make rules and stick to the end, many adolescents often give up halfway, or avoid difficulties, especially in their studies. Many parents will only worry about their children's learning and worry about their children's grades, but in fact, the root of the problem is not in the child's learning, but in your family, whether there are reasonable rules.

5. Entertaining and entertaining, to see whether a family has a good education, from the good and bad of the family atmosphere can be seen at a glance. Parents often confide in me about their inner anxiety and anxiety, and they are often cautious when dealing with their children, for fear that the slightest carelessness will cause their children to lose their temper.

Summary. What should I do if an 18-year-old boy has a bad temper and speaks very extremely, and does he need to see a psychiatrist?

Such problems may arise depending on whether the 18-year-old boy has other behavioral or psychological problems. If temper and speech extremes are a frequent phenomenon and affect the child's studies, life or relationships, then it is advisable to help him with a professional psychologist. If he only shows this behavior from time to time and does not affect his normal life, you can consider trying to explore whether he has some emotional distress or whether he has suffered too much from the external environment, and then prescribe specific treatment.

In his 20s, he is still relatively young, well, he must have some temper that can't control himself, what about you? Well, you should be more tolerant of her.

This is normal, young people have a lot of energy. But if it's still like this after the age of thirty, it is estimated that this life will be like this.

If you are his parent.

So that's normal, because you're his backup.

Then his bad mood may only be within you.

There is also a large age difference.

The thinking is different, the communication is less, and the other party is not understood.

If you are his lover.

Then he may not be mature enough.

Then you can teach him as much as you can.

Hope he is better then your life will be more harmonious.

It won't be so easy to argue anymore.

Signs of immaturity In the future, he will exercise himself in society, and he will slowly become mature.

That is, it is not mature, and it is psychologically immature.

Don't work with a bad-tempered person.

People in their twenties have a relatively strong rebellious mentality.

Sometimes, the heart is arrogant, good.

Far away. They may be less socially engaged, experience fewer frustrations, be more self-centered, less concerned about the feelings of others, and less concerned about the bigger picture.

For such a child, don't force him to come to him, but put facts on the table, be reasonable, empathize, or think and analyze problems from multiple angles.

To persuade and educate, we must emphasize methods and skills, and set an example.

Also, it is recommended for those who are irritable:

Broaden your mind and vision, look at problems with a long-term vision, and be good at seeing the positive side of people and things.

Communicate and talk to others more often, talk about stress and troubles appropriately, and solve problems together.

When you are upset, you can do outdoor activities to breathe, distract your mind, and change your brain.

When you have free time, you should read some inspirational, etiquette, literature and history books to improve your cultivation level.

If the problem is serious, it is recommended to consult a psychologist, including a Chinese medicine doctor, for comprehensive conditioning.