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The conditions in my husband's house are also very poor, my parents also disagree, the initial days were very hard, but we have been together for seven years, we already have our own house, and we are repaying the loan, so there is nothing absolute, things are man-made, if you really want to be with each other, you should consider the possibility of buying a house, if you buy a loan or cash? If you take out a loan, can you make a down payment? How much do I have to pay back each month?
How long will it take? If you don't have enough personal strength, is your girlfriend willing to pay the loan with you? I don't know your specific situation, but the current situation of society is like this, with which girl may encounter this problem, the woman's parents' mood is also understandable, although the house does not represent everything, at least in the hearts of parents represent stability and security, everyone wants their daughter to live a comfortable life.
But if the girl leaves you because of this, don't give up on yourself, working hard to make money is the right way.
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Since you think that you don't have the strength to buy a house, do you have any hope of buying it if you work hard, do you think that a year or two is still longer. Explain these situations and let your girlfriend choose for herself, you just need to accept it gladly and put your mind at ease. And you have to analyze it carefully, what should you do when you encounter such a choice in the future, it is also a re-planning of your life, you have to start a family sooner or later, can you only find a house that does not require a house?
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Some things don't be forced, I've seen a lot of people break up because of the problem of the house, in fact, there is no way for both parties, even if you work hard, it is estimated that it will be useless, since she can break up with you for the house, even if it is interesting to be together again. There is a lot of helplessness in the world. Let it be.
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If she really loves you, she'll work with you, not to leave you for the so-called house, and most people will be under the pressure of family, as long as both of them are capable of fighting, what are you afraid of?
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Sadness and sadness cannot be erased by time, you must learn to cover it with a happy state of mind. Toast to the sad past and make it an eternal memory in the depths of your heart.
Looking out the window, the sky is blue;
When you think about beautiful things, your heart will be drunk.
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Yes, but not everything.
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If it's too long, it will. If you want to keep it, of course, you have to keep in touch, and there are also those who won't change for a long time, but there are few lovers like that.
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Time can be indifferent, it is impossible to erase, just let it stay in the bottom of your heart.
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No, it just hurts less.
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Of course it will, it's a must.
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Maybe. It depends on how much you love each other.
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Time can wipe out everything, just like feelings, when you love, you feel that it is not okay without him (her), when you give up when you lose, you will be heartbroken, but as time passes, you will feel that he (she) is not all of you, just a passerby in your life. Use the right mindset to examine and judge what you really need, blindly giving, and not asking for anything in return, you will not get happiness. Come on!
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Did your boyfriend break up with you. Time can erase a lot of things, but it can't erase the thoughts in your heart, sister.
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It's just time to forget your emotions! Keeping a distance between two people can make each other closer or worsen their feelings ......
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Don't look too thoroughly at a lot of things.
Maintain a hazy and mysterious state.
It's been a long time. There is no mystery anymore.
Relationships will lead to tragedy.
That's probably what it means.
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Even if you don't, there's no hint of whether you're in love or out of love.
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What kind of words are this, it is so illogical, who will know what is going on between you?
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In fact, in real life, the people and things that make you unforgettable are unforgettable, so don't force yourself to forget in vain, it's better to remember and let time turn it into a calm memory. Both happiness and pain are valuable assets that are necessary for one's own growth and maturity. In real life, there is no so-called perfect love, only the process of unremitting pursuit with their own sense of responsibility for the sake of perfect love.
Those imaginary romances and perfections will be reduced to a kind of indifference as the days go by. True love is premised on mutual trust and mutual responsibility, as well as mutual compromise, which can entertain each other in happy times and support each other in painful days. How long can two people have a sense of common responsibility for love, how long can this relationship last, and the longevity of love requires two people to be in the same step.
Instead of dwelling on a relationship that does not belong to you, it is better to prepare for acceptance in time for the lover who truly belongs to you in the future.
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Time may not be able to dilute everything, which can be an excuse, especially love, if it is really possible, there will be no single-mindedness in real life, the heart of nostalgia, diluting everything is actually an excuse to escape from reality.
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In the eyes of some people, love is a gust of wind, and when it is still, it is quiet, and in the eyes of others, love is a volcano, and silence is for a more violent eruption. The feeling of true love is unattainable, the person who desires to get it may not be able to give, and if you can't pay the true love, you will definitely not get the true love, but if you pay the truth, you may not be able to get the true love! Love is sad, love is painful, love is a lifetime of desolation, a city, a person's life is distressed...
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Yes. Let's use classmates as an analogy, you used to play a good playmate, and as time goes by, you have a new playmate, and that's almost forgotten, even if you needed him before, you don't care so much now, it's dispensable. So I think time is a wonderful thing.
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Time can't erase everything, it's time that makes you grow, and when you reach a certain height, those problems that you couldn't think of before will suddenly become clear now.
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Time can't wipe everything out, it's only you who wears everything out. But time will tell!
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Sometimes the years are just an old record, which is placed on the record player and never stops spinning and rubbing, but the songs of the years are erased and sung, sung and erased, even if they have a rustling sound. In your spare time, put on your headphones and follow the song to find the unique sound you left behind, even if it's just a short one. I don't believe that time can erase everything, there are always things that will always be hidden in our hearts, even if they are sometimes "forgotten", that is also the deepest nostalgia in our hearts.
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One day, Plato asked his teacher what love was, and he told him to go into the wheat field and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field. It can only be picked once during this period, and it can only be walked forward, not back. Plato did as his teacher said.
As a result, he walked out of the wheat field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it, and he said, "Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see a big and golden tree, I don't know if it's better in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I walked to the front, I found that it was not as good as what I had seen before, and the largest and most golden ears of wheat in the wheat field had long been missed; So, I couldn't pick anything.
The teacher said, "This is love." To seek love is to seek one's own happiness!
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Yes, I forgot about it slowly
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Time can only smooth out everything, not everything, time will help you take away the pain, but not the memory.
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There are some things that time will not wear. It's just not carved deep enough. Of course, time is absolutely obsolete because we are all dust in the universe.
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Yes, everything, through the test of time, will eventually be ashes
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Time proves that time can wear away everything.
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There are some that are indelible, and to love is to love. Time can only numb you!
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Wear out is also part of everything that is proven.
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Time is still the only constant measure of the universe.
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You're feeling exactly right, just like me!
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Indeed, time is also good medicine to ** hurt.
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Well, that's a good point. It's so philosophical.
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Maybe time is an antidote. But it's also the poison I'm taking now.
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Love can withstand wind and rain, but it can't stand the blandness; Friendship can stand up.
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It's not to wipe out everything, it's to dilute However, depending on what friendship may dilute But as long as the relationship is really deep, time can't wash away Maybe you don't have a long contact, but once you meet, you will still return to the previous friendship Love should be more and more mellow over time, and family affection should be indelible no matter how long it takes, because there are two main words: blood.
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No, even if you are outwardly worn out, there must be a place in your heart that you have not forgotten.
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Time doesn't wear it down, it just dilutes everything, no matter how sad or sad it is, through the passage of time, all of these will become faint memories! It's just that these memories are sad or happy!
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No, never, because that is a thing of the past, a history, and time will only fade away, not erase.
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It's just because of the heart, it's not that it can't be, and it won't necessarily be.
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It has passed the test of time and has become life.
I have only one word for the second half: yes.
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Will true love be sublimated into a parent, a responsibility, and a distance after the test of time? Look at the people.
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