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It's about to be the third year of high school, so let's concentrate on studying, it's not too late to talk about this issue after the college entrance examination, I don't think you should dwell on this issue now.
She's good friends with you, and I don't think she wants to lose you because of that. So she must have made a lot of determination to reject you.
Anyway, after the college entrance examination, you will be more mature, if you haven't changed at that time, confess again!
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Hold on, as long as he doesn't hate you, there's still a chance. After all, you are very good friends.
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Chasing, feelings can be cultivated, where men chase and attract women is self-motivation and perseverance, chase her with your persistent care, never give up, I believe it is only a matter of time before you are together!
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The power of love is great, I dare not ask this question, I am afraid of desecrating the sanctity of love.
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I believe that love will be eternal, I believe that happiness is worry-free, and I believe that everything will always have a glorious future.
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The problem is more complex. Don't give up! Wishing you happiness!
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You're swiping the screen, it's a long !!
Ups and downs.
It's all going to go on.
Wishing you happiness!
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I've been through the same thing as you.
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At the beginning of a beautiful relationship, one party must confess first, even if two people are happy with each other and never get tired of seeing each other, one person must confess to pierce this layer of window paper. The reason why many people have been single is because they dare not confess, and they obviously like each other very much in their hearts, but they are ashamed to express it. In fact, in love, not daring to confess is the most wrong idea, because if you don't dare to confess, you may miss a good fate.
But there are still some people who dare not confess because they are afraid that they will fail. So, after the confession fails, will you regret taking the initiative to confess? I don't think I will regret confessing for the following reasons.
1. As long as I confess, I will not have regrets in my heart, if I fail to confess, I will not regret taking the initiative to confess. Because in my opinion, as long as I confess, I will not have any regrets in my heart. If I don't confess all the time, after a few years, I may feel regretful in retrospect, and I will think that it was my timidity that caused me to lose a perfect relationship.
So even if I confess my failure, it's nothing, and when I look back on it later, I will only praise myself for being really brave.
Second, only when you confess yourself can you let go of this relationship, if you don't confess, you may not be able to let go of this relationship in the next few years or more than ten years. After the confession, although I failed and was rejected, I can let go of this relationship from now on, start the next beautiful relationship again, and reap the happiness that truly belongs to me.
3. The failure of confession can only mean that the two of us are not suitable The reason why I will not regret taking the initiative to confess after I confess failure is because I feel that there is nothing wrong with confession failure, it is not that I am bad, but that the two of us are not suitable. I'm such a brave person, I must be able to wait until someone who really thinks I'm good and really suits me. Therefore, if you like someone, you must be brave to confess, because after the confession, you will have more confidence to meet the future life.
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I don't regret it, at least I've tried it, and I'll regret it even more if I don't try.
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Yes, I feel that I am sloppy and reckless, and I should not confess to the other party easily, I should see the right time.
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I don't regret it, because I've taken this step and bravely confessed my inner thoughts to the other party, even if I am rejected, it is not a regret.
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I don't regret it, although I failed to confess, I finally tried hard.
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After the confession fails, I will not regret the confession, because the person I like always has to take the initiative, and taking the initiative to confess is also to give myself a chance to release love, and I will go backwards with confidence.
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I don't regret confessing my initiative, at least I'm brave enough to try, and I don't have any regrets.
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Regarding this issue, for those who confess failure, they are slapping themselves in the face, and each of us is unwilling to be friends anymore when we confess to the object of our hearts? If you succeed, you are a couple, and if you fail and become friends, you will lose the meaning of confession. After all, you were already friends before you confessed.
Those who continue to be friends after failing to confess must not be true love. If you are in love, how can you want to force the person who rejected you to continue to be friends with you with guilt. If you love deeply enough, how can you make your later relationship so awkward.
Continuing to be a stupid friend after a failed confession is the most uncomfortable. Again, if the confession fails, the other party is single, maybe your pursuit has just begun. But if the other person has a boyfriend, then please let go, bless, stay away, being a spare tire is always the worst.
Of course, if you have to be friends with each other after confessing failure, it's not impossible, after all, there are many people who think the same as you, and if both parties are willing to do so, they can be friends with each other, but they will keep a distance in the stuffiness, which is simply a little embarrassing. Of course, don't think about whether your relationship is still possible, at least don't interrupt too often, which can easily make the other person feel stressed.
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When you pluck up the courage to confess to your loved one, there are only two outcomes: success or failure. Many people are afraid that their friends will not be able to do it after they fail to confess.
In fact, there is no need to have such a big psychological burden. After confessing failure, it is still a way to redeem yourself, here are 6 small ways to teach you how to continue to get along after failure.
1. Don't contact them right away
After the confession fails, you will go through a period of awkward period, so at this time, it is better not to talk than to talk awkwardly, and give each other a little time to calm down. After a while, you can comment on TA's circle of friends and chat with TA as friends naturally.
2. Don't over-advertise.
There must be some mutual friends between you, so don't go around complaining to people after your confession is rejected. It's normal for the other party to reject you, don't say bad things about the other party, and don't post your very depressed mood on various social platforms, otherwise, if the other party knows, it will be difficult for your relationship to end.
3. Reflect on the reasons.
The other party often refuses you and often does not point it out directly, and may only send you a good person card. So, if you want to know why, you can ask her privately, or tactfully ask her friend what kind of person she likes. Sometimes it doesn't make sense, maybe it's just because they don't call you.
So don't feel that being rejected means that you are not good enough, it may just be that fate has not come yet.
Fourth, constantly improve yourself.
Don't be sluggish after being rejected, and actively improve yourself! When you become a better version of yourself, they will feel that you are a very motivated person and may change their opinion of you. Even if you can't impress their hearts, it's a good thing that you can attract the attention of excellent people if you are excellent.
5. Find an opportunity to impress them with sincerity
Sometimes, a girl's rejection is not a dislike for you, but a test for you. She wondered if you were really attracted to her on a whim or not. So, don't give up right away if you are rejected, you can find the right time to talk to her sincerely and express your sincerity, but be careful not to give her a sense of oppression, you can tell her:
You don't have to ask for an answer at this time, you can have a little more time to think about it, so that she will understand your mind.
6. Increase the charm of social platforms.
Today's social platforms are almost equal to personal business cards. After the confession fails, remember to be quiet, you can share your feelings about the books and movies you have recently read in the circle of friends, and give people the impression that you are a positive person, and you must rely on your charm to finally move people, rather than begging bitterly.
Confessing failure is not a terrible thing, on the contrary, it allows you to see yourself more clearly and find your own shortcomings, so when you meet someone you like, boldly seize the opportunity.
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