How can I not love her whom I love so much, and how can I know if she loves me or not?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-12
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've got you covered.

    I've had your situation too.

    I still love her as much as I once did. `

    The best thing to do is to give yourself a full schedule every day.

    Don't allow yourself to have free time.

    Really to have free time. Hit ** and ask friends out to eat, chat, sing and sing. How happy, how good.

    Insomnia may occur for a few days at first. Even then, don't force yourself to sleep . Go with the flow .

    About 6 months. You'll be better.

    But don't contact her during this time. It's best to stay single during this period.

    Because when you talk about a girlfriend again, people's hearts will always compare, this is better or the previous one, and two people walking around will also remind you of the shadow of the past, so it is recommended that you be single for a while.

    There's only so much I can help you with.

    I also use this method. It's been more than 2 years since we were separated. Although I used to miss her before, but now I don't care about anything, and I have a very happy life. Ha.

    I hope you will be as happy as I am.

    vikas.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really love each other, how can your family stop you? First of all, which of you didn't have the courage to back down first? If it was you, then I felt right that she left you; If it's her, then she must have figured out something, and has realized that it is impossible for you to be together, so she still contacts you because she wants you to have an over-the-top and slowly forget, maybe she still loves you, but she doesn't necessarily want to be with you, just wait.

    Maybe time can dilute everything, if you are still unwilling, try every means to find her, and ask her face to face if she still loves you?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is love, why not love?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, understand that you are now in a state of confusion and defeat. However, we can't force others to love us, so the most important thing is to respect our girlfriend's feelings and respect her decisions. Here are some suggestions that may help you deal with this uncertain situation:

    1.Communicate openly and honestly with your girlfriend. Without being obsessed with the result or applying pressure, you can gradually understand her feelings and ideas through conversation. Be careful to avoid blaming, complaining, or asking the same question for a long time.

    2.Respect her decision. If your girlfriend says she's not sure she loves you, then you need to respect her feelings and accept her current state. Don't try to control or change her thoughts, because everyone has their own way of thinking and trajectory.

    3.Give each other some space. For girlfriends, the reason why love is uncertain may be due to the fact that she needs time and space to think. Therefore, you can give her some independent time and encourage her to do what she enjoys.

    4.Focus on your emotional well-being. Love is mutual, you need to express your feelings and communicate with others. At the same time, you need to focus on your emotional well-being and actively look for other ways to achieve personal well-being and development.

    Remember that love takes time to mature, and it is a choice for both parties. If you have more questions or need further discussion, please consider seeking help from a professional counsellor at Chaxun.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy.

    Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

    Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by it, worried about it, I hope you can see it every minute, you will think about it all the time when you can't see it, you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, and you will be willing to take care of it and care for it, give it everything you want, When you see your loved one happy, you will be happy, and when you see him troubled, you will also be troubled, but you will want to do your best.

    Find a way to make the person you love happy, a person who really loves you will want to grow old with him, and he will be in love with him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness, and you will also get another happiness in this process!

    I often think of TA and I am happy, I mind TA very much, I care about TA very much, without TA it seems to have lost something, with TA I have happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Come back from work every day, bring some small things, create a little romance, it will be difficult for her to change her mind, make a little romance every day, talk about life, future life, if she is very willing to talk, will not be impatient, then she loves you very much, but the most important thing is that you need to treat him very sincerely!

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